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How to be a big girl
How to be a big girl

I was standing at 1 building, and someone scolded me. I was very angry when I heard that.

I was standing on the 10 floor, and someone scolded me, but I couldn't hear you clearly. I thought he was greeting me. I was standing on the 100 floor and someone scolded me. Looking around, there is only a panoramic view.

Yu said: "When the pattern of people is big, they will not indulge in the triviality of life."

Suggestions on sharing eight lifelong benefit promotion models:

1. Focus on yourself.

2. Read more books.

3. Be independent and don't rely too much on others.

4. Have your own plans.

Keep a low profile and don't show off your achievements too much.

6. Don't set limits for yourself.

7. Don't gossip about others.

8. Maintain the ability to think independently and be calm when things go wrong.

1. Watch documentaries: you can improve yourself and your cognition, especially historical documentaries, which can broaden your horizons.

Recommended: Hexi Corridor, positive psychology, seven years of life, I studied cultural relics in the old palace, if a national treasure can talk, the Forbidden City 100, Daming Palace, Mausoleum, aerial photography of China, China in the classic.

2. Read more: lower your head to study, look up to be a man, read more books that are helpful to you, and improve yourself through reading.

Recommendation: fifteen years of Wanli, cognitive awakening, ordinary world, living, lifelong growth, learning to ask questions, non-violent communication, golden pagoda principle, silent majority.

3. Watch more debates: Debate can cultivate the ability of logical thinking and language expression, and you can appreciate the erudition and strength of others in many ways and see your own shortcomings.

Recommendation: 20 16 International Chinese Debate Competition "Is Buddhist Scripture the Self-recovery/Self-loss of the Monkey King" 20 18 International Chinese Debate Competition "Is People Free to Express Prejudice" 2020 International Chinese Debate Competition "Is the Internal Volume a False Question?

4. Watch more speeches: you can improve your thinking ability.

Suggestions: Challenge 30 days to change your life, how to make friends with stress, don't let anyone disturb your rhythm, how to overcome self-doubt and change your bad habits in simple ways.

5. Watch more high-quality variety shows: enhance cognition and pattern in other people's lives.

Recommended: national treasure, adventure life, super speaker, thirteen invitations, hello life, talking with strangers, informal talks.

6. Investment and financial management: Only when you have money can you be confident, and economic independence is very important.

Recommended: Qian Qian the Dog, Rich Dad and Poor Dad, Millionaire Next Door, Snowball, Island Economy, Trading Like Buffett, and Poor Charlie's Collection.

There is a saying: "if you want to be a big tree, don't fight with the grass." The general has a sword and does not cut the straw rope. If he encounters a bad person, he will stop the loss in time and get out in time. " Everyone with a big pattern knows that the strong help each other and the weak tear each other. A girl must be the big woman in her life.