Matsuko's father is largely responsible for the hardship and despair of her life.
Matsuko's father is not qualified. In order to take care of his sickly sister, he gave almost all his love to her, ignoring the feelings of young pine nuts, which made pine nuts extremely eager for love. Later, one day, when Matsuko found that she could make a face to make her father laugh when she was sad, and regarded it as a habit to please others, it can be said that her unfortunate life was beginning to show signs.
Many people say that pine nuts have a flattering personality.
The so-called flattering personality is a person who, in order to maintain a relationship, does not hesitate to give up himself and is afraid to put forward his own opinions. In short, he is a person who lives for others. This kind of personality often comes into being in childhood, and it will accompany you all your life like a tarsal maggot.
Although Matsuko left family of origin as an adult, her career and feelings were in a mess because of her flattering personality. Presumably, many people don't understand why Matsuko should take the blame for stealing students, and even revile Matsuko for it. In fact, this is also a manifestation of pleasing others: as long as she does this, students will not be expelled from school.
However, the result was that Matsuko lost his decent job and didn't get the so-called thanks. Emotionally, she loved frustrated writers, married people full of greed, gangsters in black society, etc. Every one of them tried her best to give up self-love and what did she get in the end? But she was beaten black and blue, abandoned, and her humble dignity was trampled on, but the love she expected never came.
However, even though she suffered so many setbacks, Matsuko rarely chose to give up. She was knocked down again and again, and went to the road again and again with hope, lighting up the brilliance of life and encouraging herself to persist. The reason is still:
Living is not for herself, but for the person she loves deeply.
However, the world is really cold for Matsuko. When she finally experienced despair and rekindled her hope to find a friend with a letter, she was killed on the road. Matsuko's life of being rejected was finally ended, which made people sigh and couldn't help thinking deeply.
The Life of Disliked Pine Nuts is actually a life in which Pine Nuts are eager to seek love. The dim sunshine, bright colors and light songs in the movie make people feel awkward in the process of watching, but it is even more sad.
After several ups and downs, pine nuts stay with different men, and even though they are physically hurt, they don't want to let go. Just for that little warmth, at first, you will feel why someone is so disappointing, but the more you get behind, the more you will pity pine nuts and hope that she can get happiness.
I'm sorry that I was born as a human being.
This is what Osamu Dazai said in "Disqualification on Earth". Pine nut's writer boyfriend committed suicide after writing this sentence on the wall. Faced with the pain of life, Pine nut, who is in the stage of self-abandonment, probably turned this sentence in his mind.
sometimes, it's not that I don't want to change, but I still get nothing after trying many times.
The film begins with the death of pine nuts, and then slowly unravels the cause of pine nuts' death. At the end of the film, when the film returns to the origin of death, the heart is full of desolation. She is full of enthusiasm, but she has been frustrated many times. For her, such an ending is a relief or a hasty departure ... People still can't help but think deeply after watching the movie.
A beautiful and kind woman like a white swan lived a life like a crow.
a woman who is constantly pursuing love, but has been loveless all her life.
Take the blame for stealing with humble body, just to please everyone;
Pursuing every love with the enthusiasm like a moth's fire, all you get is punching, kicking and being covered with scars.
In the end, she never trusted anyone, never loved anyone, and never let others get involved in her life.
She was so lonely all her life that she wrote her last words sadly, "I'm sorry for being born a human being".
Born as a man, don't be sorry. Born as a man, you will be happy.
Never give up on yourself at any time, and always keep an independent judgment.
When a lonely and cowardly pine nut stabbed a man who cheated him,
When she tried to strangle her sister,
her soul burst into a vicious pine nut.
I blindly seek the warmth of love from strangers and never look back at my family who love her.
My father loves her, but he is not good at words.
My sister loves her, but Matsuko deludes himself with jealousy.
My brother loves her, too, but resents her depravity.
Home is a warm place to comfort the injured chest.
Only pine nuts run away from home when they are injured again and again.
She is a pine nut with low self-esteem.
Until the last time of her life, she didn't want her family to see her loneliness.
She found a place similar to the river in her hometown and
spent the rest of her life.
Born as a human being, we want to be truly happy;
Matsuko's life is a miserable life. She tried to catch a happiness of being loved by drinking poison to quench her thirst, but she never got it.
Matsuko's love is unrequited, and she always gives her all-out.
She is persistent, stubborn and stupid, giving a man god-like love,
Her soul and happiness,
She always wants to be attached to others, like sucking blood.
Let every man who loves her always want to break free.
Love is equal. If you want others to respect you, you must respect yourself first. Cowardice and kindness, a person without self, are doomed to a miserable life.
She never knew that the world never lacked kindness.
Too much tolerance and kindness made her lose her value and dignity.
When pine nuts fall in love with moths again and again,
they are hurt again and again,
she always screams "Why" helplessly
until she completely gives up on herself,
an empty soul lives in a broken body,
and finally dies lonely and tragically.
Ben is a woman like a white swan, living a life like a crow!
Let life be sad, sigh, pity and angry!
"thinking about death must be because you live too seriously."
After watching the film, I remembered the previous Disqualification on Earth. In the preface, I mentioned Osamu Dazai's words: "I wanted to die this winter, but I recently got a set of hemp kimono with mouse gray pinstripes, which is suitable for summer, so I'd better live until summer." Mr. Taizai, who committed suicide five times, is really a very gentle man.
The heroine in the film, Miss Matsuko, is also gentle, even though she had a life of being rejected by others, and finally died alone by a dried-up river. The world seems to be indifferent to pine nuts, even cold. She has been eager to be loved and has chosen to believe in love again and again. Even though she has never received the same love, it has never prevented her from giving "God's love" to others and continuing to live kindly and bravely. Finally, I only gently wrote on the paper, "I am sorry to be born."
Fortunately, she has become an eternal concern in Long Yang's heart, and the aunt she has never met has given her nephew great strength and courage to live. Actually, pine nuts are not rejected, but really love too hard.
"One person is hell, and two people are hell. Two people are better than being alone." When pine nuts roared out this sentence, I realized that this film is simply a teaching video that perfectly interprets existentialism. Existentialism: People wander in a meaningless cosmic space, and human existence is meaningless, but people have enough freedom to create themselves in meaningless soil. The motivation of self-creation comes from the emptiness of self. The extreme lack of things experienced by people in the early stage of growth will form a huge hole in their hearts, that is, the emptiness of themselves. People who don't realize their existence are often driven by it and spend their lives just to fill this unpredictable and unfathomable hole, no matter how desperate and helpless they are, they are determined to finish it.
There are a lot of tears in this movie, but everyone sings differently. After I missed many emotional places where everyone's lacrimal gland collapsed, I finally burst into tears without warning when Matsuko said that "two people's hell is better than one." I cried not because I felt sorry for her cowardice, nor because I touched my soft spot, but because I really felt sorry for such a helpless soul. This helpless soul can't be described as cowardice at all. On the contrary, her strength and courage are beyond the reach of many people. It is precisely because of this that I feel sorry for her: the more I face life bravely, the deeper the pit in my heart is, so deep that I can't see the faint light at the mouth of the cave.
I watched this drama a few years ago, and even now, I will recall the humorous sadness that gushed from the screen.
Really, it can only be described as sadness. Matsuko's life seems to have nothing to do with us ordinary people, but she is just an ordinary person!
She is beautiful and kind. She believes in human nature without hesitation, but reality has given her a loud slap in the face! She is not stupid, she just won't let her own heart change, but in the end it becomes a big joke in the eyes of others!
She is the purest person in mind, but in the end she got herself extremely dirty physically.
The film was shot in a humorous way and ended in a humorous way, but I could only grin awkwardly.
The life of the rejected pine nuts. This title is very sad. She can't get love, so she longs for love, even if she is bruised all over. As long as you give her a moment's warmth, she will pounce on you like a moth. In her heart, you are the one burning with love.
the crying child has candy to eat. This sentence is really true, sensible children are always ignored by their parents. Naughty children are always cared for by their parents. But our understanding is just afraid of letting you down on us. Suppose a sensible person suddenly loses his sense one day, and his parents will certainly blame him. If a sensible person suddenly loses his sense one day, his parents will certainly praise him, so we pretend to be sensible, just because we don't want to get your blame, just for fear that my only image will be shattered in your hearts. I'm sorry that I was born a man! This is the most touching sentence in this film!
Only when the film reaches a certain age and has more experience will it be deeply touched.
pine nut is a shining little star. She reaches out to hug everyone, but she can't get the love she wants. An indifferent brother, an unsmiling father, a student who plays tricks on her because of love, a novelist who doesn't love, and a mean cheating man ..... The director wants to set off the reason why Matsuko, the master, has lived a rejected life through these negative characters.
Some people say that pine nuts who have been rejected all their lives are all blamed on her father. In fact, the director of this film should say more. Every negative character has something to reflect on. Not only the father of pine nuts, but also other villains, are they also the promoters of pine nuts' death step by step?
Pine nuts are a representative of kindness and ignorance created by the director. From a white swan to a black crow, he wants to tell us through the fate of pine nuts that "there is always kindness in the world, but there is also ugliness". At the same time, we should pay attention to the shadow behind us.
"I'm sorry I was born a human being" is a sentence written repeatedly by Matsuko in the play, but in fact it's not Matsuko who should apologize, but the villains who pushed her fate to death.
Through irony, this sentence is constantly interpreted and developed throughout the whole story, which also makes me firmly remember this sentence.
I think it's the director's reminding everyone watching movies that we are born human and we don't need to apologize. Instead, I should guard against those who are lurking in the shadows and ready to hurt me. If after watching this drama, you still don't know how to guard against it, and you don't know the ugliness in society, that's what you should be sorry for.
As a father, I will let my children know the truth, goodness, beauty and ugliness of society in a timely manner, so that they can correctly understand this society and avoid being bullied, cheated and humiliated. I'm sorry for the idea that children will never be born by themselves. This is what I got from this movie!
This film gives people a deep feeling. I saw it about three or four years ago, and I watched it in an Internet cafe at that time. It was also because it was a good film passed down from mouth to mouth. I just clicked and watched it in the Internet cafe at that time.
I'm sorry that I was born a man. This is a sentence that Osamu Dazai said in his novel "Disqualification on Earth", which is perfect for this film. Matsuko's life has been frustrated many times. None of the men he met were good, and he finally died miserably.
Japanese people really dare to shoot. Movies analyze life thoroughly like scalpels. There is no need to boycott movies. That's what real life is like. Just like Zhang Ailing said: Choosing love is a lifetime of suffering, and choosing not to love is a lifetime of regret.
"The Life of Abandoned Pine Nuts" is familiar to me. I've seen the movie "Planting Grass" on other websites before, so I quickly found resources to start watching it. At first, it was a little puzzling, but when I watched it, I brought it into the plot, and I understood every disappointment and sadness of the female host Pine Nuts, which was both innocent, helpless and pitiful.
Matsuko, the eldest daughter in the family, has a younger brother and a sickly younger sister. Because her younger sister is ill, her father always pays more attention to her. Matsuko is eager for her father's care. Once, after going to the sister's hospital with her father, on the way home, her father took her to dinner and went to the playground. Matsuko found that her father always didn't like to laugh, so she made faces to tease her father. Since then, whenever his father really smiled.
At the age of twenty-three, Matsuko was a music teacher in a middle school and the head teacher of a class. Once he lost money in a hotel during a study trip, he suspected that it was the middle school students in Matsuko's class. Matsuko wanted to take the blame for the thief students and help him make up the money, but he didn't have enough money, so he had to steal his roommate.