White-headed Ode is as beautiful as snow on the mountain and as bright as the moon between clouds.
Wen Jun has two opinions, so he came to say goodbye.
Today's fighting party, the head of Mingdan ditch,
the ditch water flows east and west.
Sadness is heavy, and you don't need to cry when you get married.
You want to be single-minded, and you don't want to leave each other.
When bamboo sticks curl, fish migrate.
When men value loyalty, why use money and knives?
It is said that this poem was written by Zhuo Wenjun, a talented woman in the Han Dynasty. It's about Zhuo Wenjun's rejection of her ungrateful husband, blaming her heartless husband for his love for money, not for friendship, not for feelings-a man should attach importance to friendship, and what's the use of asking for money all day long? ! It is such a poem that saved a dying love.
Zhuo Wenjun was born in a wealthy family in Linqiong, Sichuan. She wore gold and silver on weekdays. She was very beautiful and literary. She was well versed in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting. At the age of 17, her parents arranged for her to get married. Half a year later, her husband died and she returned to her family as a widow.
At this time, Sima Xiangru, a great talent, was resigning due to illness and living in a friend's house. He was close to Zhuo's family and had already fallen in love with Wen Jun.
One day, Xiang Ru came to Zhuo's house for a dinner. Wen Jun admired his literary talent for a long time, so he hid behind the screen and peeped. Seeing the figure shaking after the screen, knowing that it would be Wen Jun peeking, I couldn't help exulting in my heart, but pretended not to know on the surface. When invited to fiddle, she took the opportunity to play a song "Phoenix Begging for the Phoenix". Zhuo Wenjun listened, and her heart was touched by this wonderful music. Sensitive, she captured the love and worship that came with the sound of music. Needless to say, music conveyed feelings. Sima Xiangru also loved Zhuo Wenjun, so he spent the night in Zhuojia Garden after getting drunk, and they met each other, so they made a private engagement for life.
Sima Xiangru asked someone to go to Zhuo's house to propose marriage, but Zhuo's father was rejected because he thought he was poor. No way, the two had to elope and return to their hometown of Chengdu together, and their lives were embarrassed. Rujun pawned his own headdress and opened a wine shop. Zhuo Rujun personally sold wine and lived a poor but loving life.
Later, with his outstanding talents, Sima Xiangru was highly valued by the Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty and worshipped as a corps commander. Since then, their days have been as high as sesame blossoms.
As the saying goes, "warm and lustful", and Sima Xiangru has been suffering from diabetes for a long time, diabetes, which is also called diabetes, must be taboo and nursed back to health. However, after Sima Xiangru had enough food and clothing, he not only didn't know Jane, but ate a bowl and looked at the pot. Often in the powder pile. At that time, he was over know life, and Zhuo Wenjun turned a blind eye and didn't care about him. It was not until Sima Xiangru wanted the NaMaoLing woman to be his concubine that Zhuo Wenjun couldn't bear it, and wrote the song "The Ballad of the Bald Head" above.
There is also a book attached to the poem: "Chunhua Jingfang, five-color Ling Su, Qin is still in the imperial palace, but the new sound replaces the old! There are honeymoons in the golden water, and there is water in the Han Palace. That thing is new, and people who are embarrassed in the world are ignorant! "
Then write two more lines: "Zhu Xian is broken, the mirror is missing, the morning dew is exposed, the fragrance is resting, the white head is singing, and it is sad to leave. Try not to miss my concubine, and make a long strategy with you!"
Zhuo Wenjun's sorrowful Poems on a White Head and his plaintive Farewell Book made Sima Xiangru feel unbearable. It was really inconvenient for him to go his own way when he thought of all the benefits of being tender and sweet in those days, and the moon was short of flowers and flowers, and the fragrance died.
Sima Xiangru didn't take a concubine at last, but they got back together, lived in nymphs and spent another ten years of loving, until Sima Xiangru died, and Zhuo Wenjun also tasted the desolate loneliness of the widow. Looking back, I suddenly had a dream. In the second year of late autumn, the grass withered in first frost, the wild geese sang in the sky, and Zhuo Wenjun, who was alone, also went with Sima Xiangru.
Sima Xiangru's literary talent, Zhuo Wenjun's beauty, when selling wine, white-headed resentment, is a romantic story throughout the ages; Zhuo Wenjun dared to love and disobey his father's orders to win happiness for himself; Zhuo Wenjun knows how to love. She doesn't cry or make trouble. She persuades her husband with her wisdom and poetry, and protects her love. This is not only difficult in ancient times, but also admirable in modern times.
why did Zhuo Wenjun fall in love with Sima Xiangru? Zhuo Wenjun was fascinated by his talent and bearing. Despite the opposition of her family, Zhuo Wenjun resolutely followed Sima Xiangru. Her courage stems from her desire for love. Her love is persistent. At that time, Sima Xiangru was at the bottom of her life, her career was frustrated, and her family was surrounded. Zhuo Wenjun lived a life of food and clothing since childhood. In the face of the difficult situation after elopement, she did not shrink back, but waited for this love strongly. Her love is not blind, but for her own ideal of love. After the failure of her first marriage, she experienced and understood her own needs in deep pain and despair, and she had to fight for her own destiny by herself. Therefore, when the opportunity came, she didn't hesitate, so she bravely seized the happiness she wanted.
In feudal society, men were allowed to take concubinage. Zhuo Wenjun, on the other hand, could not tolerate her husband's betrayal and did not share love with others. From the very beginning, she compared love to pure white snow and a bright moon, without a grain of sand. How self-respecting and noble it is to break up with her husband just because she knows that he has two hearts! The Farewell Book, on the other hand, expresses her complex feelings of resentment and love for her husband, which are both rigid and soft, full of love and poetry, sincere and moving.
When I think back to my own song "Phoenix Begging for the Phoenix", I really won Wen Jun's heart. It's like yesterday, and the piano is still ringing in my ears. These sincere poems finally touched Sima Xiangru's heart, and evoked his memories of the past. At first sight, he was heartbroken, and when he was in danger, he was compatible with * * *. He couldn't help feeling sad from his heart, feeling guilty and uneasy, and finally woke up. This is the victory of Zhuo Wenjun's smart mind and the embodiment of his peerless talent!
Zhuo Wenjun is the first woman in China who bravely broke through the feudal ethical barriers. She dared to rebel against her father's orders, pursued love, insisted on single-mindedness in love and opposed polygamy, which was extremely rare in the feudal society of more than 2, years. She was a glorious image among ancient Chinese women.