? ? Youth inspirational article 1: The quickest way to ruin a person is to teach him to "take shortcuts"
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Recently, a friend of my friend suddenly fell in love with writing and found me in a roundabout way, hoping that I could help her.
after reading several articles in succession, I found that what she wrote was all a mosaic of gossip, not to mention literary talent, and there was no basic truth or opinion.
I told her, "You can't write like this."
She replied, "Why not? There are many people reading articles like this! As long as I keep writing like this, I will definitely become a big V. "
then she cut some pictures for me, and the reading was really good.
She said, "Gee, I found that I found a shortcut to success!"
I was speechless: once a person believes that she has found a "shortcut", it means that she will never think about anything else.
everyone wants to find a shortcut.
it's like a group of people on a muddy path, watching the target in the foreseeable future, and suddenly a road appears next to it, flat and wide, leading directly to Rome.
who doesn't want to leave?
There is no shortcut in the world. There are more people walking, so there are shortcuts.
But people who take shortcuts never think about it. Why are there so few people who walk to the finish line when shortcuts are so easy?
many people walk past, but few people walk out. This fully shows that the other end of the shortcut is likely to be a trap.
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In our primary school science class, there is a section about planting garlic seedlings.
The teacher assigned homework and asked each of us to go home and plant seeds, and bring them to school two weeks later.
I got into the kitchen immediately after school and found a packet of garlic. At this time, all I have to do is pick out a few plump garlic cloves and plant them in a flowerpot.
it happened that I had a crooked brain.
Because I found that in this packet of garlic cloves, some of them have sprouted, revealing sharp buds.
"If I plant garlic cloves that have sprouted, won't I save a lot of waiting time?"
so I specially picked the sprouted garlic cloves.
while other students are eagerly waiting for garlic cloves to sprout, mine has already begun to shoot seedlings and grow leaves.
"Oh, I'm so smart!"
in a blink of an eye, two weeks passed. My classmates and I brought the garlic seedlings into the classroom as agreed.
A blushing scene happened:
The garlic seedlings planted by others all point to the blue sky, like little soldiers in military uniforms. Only the garlic seedlings planted by me stagger like a messy hair.
Even the well-informed teacher was puzzled and tried to explain why my garlic sprouts were different: "Maybe the garlic cloves are sick."
only I know that garlic cloves are not sick, but because I am eager to take a "shortcut" and use the sprouted garlic cloves lying in the bag.
It's not a disease that garlic cloves germinate while lying down. It's a disease to believe in "pseudo-shortcut".
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The quickest way to ruin a person is to teach him to covet false shortcuts and enjoy the easiest success.
Someone once complained to me, "I really can't figure it out. Why do I spell it like this?"
"There is a little girl in our office who is one year younger than me. She is very spoiled and has a good relationship with our manager. She often misses work and can't do anything. The manager turns a blind eye and never cares about her. "
"sometimes I really don't understand why I have to spell a problem that can be solved by playing coquetry."
but after two years, she stopped complaining.
because of that muddleheaded manager, he was dismissed from the company because of his negligence.
The spoiled little girl, who lost her dependence and lacked the basic ability to work, soon fell into a state of hitting a wall everywhere and suffered all kinds of supercilious looks in the company.
But she didn't dare to quit, because she knew that she wouldn't do anything, and it would be the same if she moved to another place.
before she was fired, she could only ask for advice everywhere like a newcomer, catch up on all kinds of common sense in her work, and walk the muddy path that others had walked.
As the saying goes, there is no road in life, and every step counts. In fact, there is no way to walk less in life. Every step you take when you are lazy needs to be made up from other places.
people who covet shortcuts often think that success is really that simple, and they can water the flowers of success without any sweat.
I don't know that there is a kind of flower called "a flash in the pan".
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Young people who have just entered the society are often carried away by all kinds of "pseudo shortcuts".
Young people who like writing can get traffic when they see making things up, and they don't want to hone their basic skills any more.
Young people who like painting can be amazed when they see imitation and handling, and they no longer care about their creative ability.
Young people who like acting can easily become online celebrity as long as they have an awl face, and they will never polish their acting skills again.
There are too many "shortcuts" to success. They don't want to make stupid efforts, and they don't care whether what they are doing can produce value or not.
once a person chooses a shortcut, he will live in a short and vain harvest and gradually forget what a struggle should look like. In the end, they became the most humble of a batch of shoddy fakes.
Zeng Guopan wrote in his letter to his son:
"I have to work hard in everything, so I can't be too hasty in seeking fame and efficiency. If you get through this, you can enter less. If you go in again, you will be sleepy again, and then you will be excited again. "
It means: "Do things slowly, don't think about success at once. When you encounter difficulties, you will always get through it slowly. This kind of success is reliable."
As long as people are alive, they are faced with a marathon, and they are fighting for real skills.
And all the signposts of "pseudo-shortcuts" are traps to induce you to give up running. ? ? Youth inspirational article 2: those young people in their twenties who are embarrassed and confused
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Recently, they watched a live broadcast of Lu Yu's speech at Fushi Normal University on Weibo.
At the beginning of the speech, Lu Yu mentioned that when she interviewed Huang Xiaoming last year, she attended the premiere of the movie "Nothing to Ask" in Tsinghua University with him. A sentence in the movie left a deep impression on her:
"If you knew the life you were going to face in advance, would you still have the courage to come?"
In Lu Yu's view, although the young people in the film have different backgrounds, their experiences are similar, and they all face the most cruel test at the best age.
in his twenties, he is in his prime and embarrassed.
Pomelo is a senior this year, and she has experienced many feelings that she has never experienced in the past six months:
Her graduation thesis has finally passed with great difficulty, and she seems to have been torn off; When looking for a job interview, I was repeatedly rejected because I had no work experience, and my salary was very low; I was very envious when I saw my roommate preparing to go abroad, but she knew that there was no conditional support at home; I want to go to graduate school to escape into the cruel society, but it is too late for her to start preparing for her senior year. My boyfriend is going home to accept the job arranged by his family, and they are going to have a long-distance relationship in the future?
In the case of insomnia at night, grapefruit always can't help wondering:
Are all young people of this age so embarrassed?
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twenties, how embarrassing can it be?
There's a saying on the Internet that describes it very aptly: If you don't wear your sword properly, it's already a Jianghu to go out.
Time suddenly flies, and before you are ready, you will be pushed into a strange society; Occasionally high-spirited, I want to be a great adult, but I often feel that I am mediocre and want to continue to be treated as a child; All kinds of choices and problems come one after another, dreams and reality are intertwined, and love and work are confused?
In the face of the unknown future, my heart faintly rises with expectation, but it is mixed with many fears.
At the age of 26, Lu Yu had such embarrassment and confusion.
At that time, she was hosting Music Without Limits in Hong Kong. One day, her boss suddenly asked her if she would like to do an early morning news program. Lu Yu instinctively wanted to refuse, but hesitated. During that time, she has been considering the transformation, and found that news is more attractive to her, which may be an opportunity for her.
after struggling for a few days, she decided to take this program.
On the evening of March 31st, 1998, the boss took his colleagues to dinner. Everyone was busy grilling and pouring wine, but Lu Yu had no appetite at all, because her new program "Phoenix Early Bus" was going to meet the audience at 7: 3 the next morning.
Despite her rich experience as a host, she was still trembling with nervousness, speculating repeatedly about the best and worst results: the good performance of the program was a major breakthrough in her career; If she can't do it well, her hosting career may be over!
Hesitation, anxiety and fear make her feel on pins and needles every second at the dinner table, and finally she can't help standing up: "Ladies and gentlemen, I have to leave first, and I have to get up at 4 o'clock tomorrow morning!"
In the face of unknown uncertainty, Lu Yu resolutely chose to get ready, take action and rush forward with high momentum in fear. As a result, she created a precedent of "speaking news" and became one of the most distinctive hosts of Phoenix TV.
People often say that "all roads are Rome", but it was only in their twenties that they really realized that "all roads leading to Rome are forks and obstacles". Every moment of choice is like standing on the cusp of a storm, which may be overturned by a wave at any time.
But fortunately, the experiences of countless people prove that everyone has similar experiences and the same feelings.
In the face of embarrassment and confusion in their twenties, everyone is equal.
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what should I do when I am in my twenties?
The future is far more sinister than imagined. We must be prepared and use actions to choose the ending for ourselves: being knocked over by the waves or breaking the waves.
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learn to say goodbye: farewell is the only way in life
a sign of a person's growth is to accept every farewell in life.
Everyone chooses to say goodbye in different ways. A classmate named Zhu Xian from Fushi Normal University reported to school by bike. From Yunnan to Guizhou, then to Guangxi, Guangdong and Fujian, it took him 23 days to leap over five provinces, with a total distance of 2,712 kilometers. It's cool to say goodbye to my hometown and childhood in this way.
Twenty years old will usher in a series of farewells to life:
Farewell to the comfortable campus life and step into a more serious workplace;
bid farewell to the spacious and lively student dormitory and move into a rented room of 1 square meters in a big city;
Say goodbye to the social activities of singing K all night and gathering friends, and get used to the desire of lying dead at home after being exhausted on weekdays?
Youth life is an adventure. Although everyone goes through different processes, the essence is similar:
We all want to complete a growth with an unforgettable farewell. Say goodbye to the past and embrace the future.
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Grasp your desire and stick to your choice.
be prepared to persist, even if this persistence is "a little silly" or "very different" in the eyes of others.
Last year, when the IG team just won the LPL championship, Lu Yu interviewed them. Nowadays, many people talk about e-sports with pride and honor, but in the past, e-sports was something that everyone said was "playing with things", and e-sports teenagers were once called "Internet addiction teenagers" who were "doing nothing".
Despite the difficulties of strange eyes from the outside world, family members' obstruction and academic pressure, they insist on hard training every day, endure the boredom of playing the same game all the year round, grow faster than others, and keep moving forward, otherwise they will be replaced.
they persisted in such a boring and stressful day.
Many people can stick to it, not only to find their inner desires, but also to be down-to-earth, do things seriously and responsibly, and find their own sense of value.
It's quite possible that this desire and persistence didn't make us become our ideal self soon.
but at least, it won't make us become people we don't like and don't want to be.
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Be prepared to suffer hardships, no one will become famous overnight
You may get nothing if you suffer hardships, but you will get nothing if you don't suffer hardships.
Last year, when Lu Yu interviewed Chow Yun Fat in Hongkong, he talked about a film he made that year, Tiger Watch. There is a scene in the movie: Chow Yun Fat goes to the breakfast shop, picks up a cup, beats raw eggs in it, and then drinks it in one gulp.
just for this shot, he drank 12 raw eggs in one breath. No editing, no post-stage, and actually drink it again and again. In others' eyes, his hard work is admirable, but for Chow Yun Fat, it's just an actor's professionalism.
similarly, Wang Baoqiang drinks half a bucket of milk and Eric Wang eats 44 steamed buns?
in the era of social network, it is often heard that someone is popular, as if everyone has a chance to become famous quickly. But to be honest, don't be too superstitious about the so-called "overnight fame". If there is, this night is also a long night. Because you don't know what efforts they made and what they went through before they became famous.
But when we talk about suffering, we are not moved by ourselves, abused by ourselves, or showing off. We are trying our best to fight for what we long for.
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Fight against self-confidence and make peace with yourself.
among people in their twenties, some people are soft on the offer, some earn 2, yuan a month before graduation, and some rely on WeChat official account to start a company? And I seem to have been abandoned by my peers, which is hard to avoid.
Pu Shu was ashamed of his hard work in middle school, and played from junior high school to senior high school. The college entrance examination was afraid of losing the face of my parents, a professor at Peking University, and I took a blind test and got into a university. He always thought that he could have his own position without doing his best.
It was not until he signed a contract with Taihe Wheat Field that he first met Gao Xiaosong.
Gao Xiaosong stunned him as soon as he spoke, and he realized that there are so many talented people, people who have read so many books, and many very powerful people in this world.