I'm also the mother of two children, and I'm twins. I've been sleeping with me since I was born, and I've been taking care of myself since I was 2 years old, without help.

I'm tired. Before my children are three years old, I always sleep with my clothes on. It's certainly uncomfortable to sleep in such a thick coat, but only in this way can I avoid catching a cold when I get up at night to take care of them. Emergency also reduces the time to get dressed.

At one time, I always shed tears, complained about others, and took care of my children with emotion. I always needed the comfort of my husband or others to feel that I could continue. But children not only bring you pressure, but also bring great pressure to their fathers. Besides making everyone more tired, what changes can I bring to my life? After all, the child was brought into this world by himself, and he doesn't owe you anything. How can you bear to treat her badly? It is because of the sense of responsibility of being a mother that I am strong as a mother.

I began to change, because I was worried that no one would take care of my children when I was sick, so I began to be cautious about my health, worried that my sensitivity and fragility would affect my children's growth, so I learned to be tolerant and optimistic, and worried that the tense family atmosphere would suppress my children's nature, so I learned to accept and enjoy my present situation.

There is nothing a mother can't change and nothing she can't learn for her children. As children grow up, you will be more and more relaxed. Although you feel tired of everything in the past, it is gratifying that you have come over and your mind has really grown.

Therefore, when you feel that you can't support it, think about your children and think that you are no longer a child, which will increase your courage and self-confidence.

honey, you are not fighting alone! Remember, there are many mothers fighting with you in this world.

I have too much say in this issue. My two babies are close, and I have gone from being weak to being strong (although I still lose gold beans now, it is much better than before). )

I was pregnant with Erbao when my family was ten months old, so when I gave birth to Erbao, my family was just one and a half years old. It was my own business to give birth to Erbao and take care of her children. I couldn't take care of her, and my emotions were not taken care of. Grievance was like a flood that opened the floodgates, and I felt that the whole world was the most wronged.

Later, I slowly adjusted my mentality. Don't be too demanding of perfection in everything, just try your best. For example, when I feed Erbao, Dabaoguang's feet run on the ground (my Dabao takes off his shoes and socks every time he goes to bed). In the case of ensuring safety, I will let him.

For example, if I want to hug Erbao at the same time, I will put Erbao down, hug Dabao for a while and then tell Dabao that Erbao is crying and needs a hug from his mother. I don't know how your baby is, but my Dabao usually promises to let me have two treasures at this time.

accidents are inevitable in life, not to mention taking care of two babies who will be in a lot of trouble at any time. After arranging the baby, it is not impossible to be fragile and indulge.

There is no such thing as "being a mother is strong" in this world.

taking care of one child's mother will be very tired, and the pain of taking care of two children will increase exponentially. Rest when you have time, after all, you can stay away from collapse with spirit.

May we all be treated tenderly by the years, and may all our sufferings shine.

This shows that your body has not recovered yet. First, you should adjust yourself in diet, and then tell yourself psychologically that you are a child of two, and you can't fall down. For the sake of the person you gave birth to and the person who gave birth to you, life is a pool of mud, and you should also take your children to wade through it. If someone can ask for help, they can also ask for support to survive the physical recovery.

When I started a business with my husband, Erbao was seriously ill. During that time, we had to do business with three meals, get up at 3: 3 in the morning to do business, and take care of the hospitalized children. I felt that I couldn't stand it, but what could I do? I said to myself in my heart, "For the sake of my children and this family, as long as I have breath, I can't fall down." As soon as this idea appeared, it seemed that the whole person was full of strength and we successfully overcame the difficulties.

Believe in yourself. When you have a firm belief, people will have an extraordinary perseverance to support us through the difficulties!

Hello, everyone. I'm glad to answer this question. I'm a mother of two children. The older one is 11 years old, and the younger one is 2 years and 5 months old. How can I say that most of them are around 3 years old after giving birth to the second child? I really don't feel tired when I give birth to the first young one, and my financial conditions can keep up. I bought everything new, and I grew up before I knew it. After giving birth to the second child, everyone with the help of the elderly can go to work. It's all right, if there is no elderly person. The economy is a little hard, but the big ones are treated as babies and the small ones as pigs. Haha, that's right. I've brought my baby's father to raise a family by myself since I was 2 years old. All the children's clothes and shoes are given to me by a baby who is 1 to 2 years older than him in our building. Actually, it doesn't matter that the children's clothes are small. They are good and very good clothes. < P > The landlord may ask questions that every family will encounter. When it comes to the upper and lower levels, it's definitely not possible. When two people disagree with each other and the doll is noisy, you may have the idea that you can't go on. When you calm down, you will have to live. Let's cheer up. The lover is chosen by yourself, and the second child is born after two people agree. No matter how hard it is, both of them should understand each other. Let's get through it and enjoy it when the doll grows up.

Taking care of two children is definitely more tiring than taking care of one child. For those who think that two children are relaxed, the premise is that the age gap between your Dabao and Erbao is relatively large. If the age gap between the two children is relatively small, it will really be very tiring to carry.

I am also the mother of two children. My two children are more than one year apart. Dabao had Erbao when he was more than one year old. At first, the two children took some, because Erbao slept more, but it was more difficult for them to take care of Erbao after three months. I started to take care of two children by myself when I was out of the month, and my whole body aches with my children every day.

Of course, I feel very tired in my heart. Sometimes I cry when I feel so tired that I will collapse. My husband is not around, my parents-in-law are working, and I have no economic foundation to find a nanny. I also think that it is better to do it myself, so I have to take care of my children myself.

My husband comes back two days a week, and I'm tired of taking care of my children at home. Every week when my husband comes back, I let him do nothing. He also knows that I'm tired of taking care of my two children alone at home, so he takes the initiative to do housework, which is also a gratifying place for me.

Now that my daughter is in kindergarten, I only take care of Xiaobao at home, which is a lot easier. Moreover, now that my two children are a little older, they will fight and cry every day. Many times, they play together, get along well and have a very good relationship. I feel that all my efforts are worth it.

It's hard to take care of children in the past three years. When the children go to school, it will be much easier. Bao Ma usually needs to adjust her mentality. It's certain that she is tired of taking care of children. It's great if someone helps her. If no one helps her, she will be lazy and save trouble.

Be sure to have a good rest, because if you don't have a good rest, the whole person will be in a very agitated state, will break out because of a little thing, and will be in a state of complaining all day. Therefore, Bao Ma seized all the time to rest.

I'm glad to be invited to answer this question. As a one-child mother, planning to have a second child this year or next year is also a great determination. Everyone knows that only a woman can understand the hardships of raising a child. The birth of a second child requires Bao Ma to pay more energy.

After the birth of the second child, my mother faces many problems. I think there are two things that must be adjusted. The first is the body, and the second is the mood.

First, the body must be well maintained. This point starts from the second month, and Bao Ma must pay attention to it. If someone helps to take care of the children, it may be easier. If she brings her own treasure. We must pay attention to daily life and help the body recover quickly. For example, if you can lie down and feed, you don't sit and feed; When washing milk powder for children, hold the kettle with both hands to reduce the force of one arm; Wash clothes for children, try to use warm water and so on. And don't forget to supplement calcium, iron or vitamins after delivery. In short, with a good body, you can take better care of your children.

Second, the mood needs to be adjusted. This is my personal experience. Because I didn't adjust my mood well after childbirth, I was in a low mood for a long time, which later led to severe postpartum depression, so that my children were over one year old. I still cried and wiped my tears on my way to and from work every day.

I believe that many women have faced the problem of irritability or depression after delivery, and most of this problem comes from the fact that the father of the child can't understand the mood of the woman after delivery. If both husband and wife can communicate deeply on this issue, so that mother can feel Bao's care, then I believe Bao's mood will be relieved a lot. If Bao Dad can't understand, then Bao Ma doesn't have to insist, don't take anything too seriously, and must realize that it is the most important thing that children and themselves can be good.

I didn't realize at that time that Bao Da's love for his children was not always accompanied as he imagined. Therefore, it is paranoid that Bao Da lacks his own role, which eventually leads to the constant contradiction between husband and wife and the increasingly serious depression. Bao Ma must deeply realize that Bao Da's love for his children is sometimes reflected in hard work and better economic conditions for his family, but the company of his children may not be as good as Bao Ma's. As long as Bao Ma can take it easy, she won't feel unhappy.

also give yourself a positive hint, how happy the two precious mothers are, and with two lovely children, what is the hurdle?

If Bao Ma falls into a long-term emotional depression after delivery, it is suggested that she can listen to soothing music more and find a good sister to talk to. After all, emotions need an outlet. If no one can understand them for a long time, it will inevitably lead to pessimism.

Finally, it should be remembered that husband and wife are United, and everything is based on sitting down and communicating well. If husband and wife can't communicate well, it will be useless to let Bao Ma work hard alone, but it will lead to Bao Ma's physical and mental exhaustion.

There is nothing a mother can't change and nothing she can't learn for her children. As children grow up, you will be more and more relaxed. Although you feel tired of everything in the past, it is gratifying that you have come through and your mind has really grown.

Therefore, when you feel that you can't support it, think about your children and think that you are no longer a child, which will increase your courage and self-confidence.

I admire the second-born mother so much. Anyway, I made up my mind not to. One has been so tired that he has collapsed physically and mentally many times. It's unthinkable to have another second child.

if my suggestion, it is to lower the requirements of everything. For example, the house doesn't have to be clean, and things don't have to be neat. If the baby can eat by himself, it's not a pity to buy more cheap clothes or wear them as gifts from others. If the baby is not in great danger, you can let them toss and scream without paying attention to them immediately. Give the baby to her father or aunt or the old man when she is free every day, and go out to play by herself.

if you endure it, your baby will grow up, and your life will be complete! [yi tooth]

This precious mother wants to give you a big hug first. It's not easy to bring up a child, let alone two children. I understand your exhaustion, your helplessness, and your lingering heart.

Every time, I can hear the treasure mother who takes care of the children say that taking care of the children is more tiring than going to work, but it is more tiring. When I see the children smiling, when I hear the children calling their mother, and when I see the children making progress in life and study, my tired heart will be melted, and I think the mother of the subject is the same!

Every mother loves her child, no matter what gave birth to the child at the beginning, but after birth, we should actively face this child and face our future life. The child is not only our weakness, but also our armor.

But on this road, we are exhausted, anxious and often insomnia. Maybe no one told us what problems we would encounter after giving birth, but we still embarked on this unknown road. Although we are confused and unknown ahead, we have love for our children in our hearts, so since we have chosen, we will go through thick and thin.

Being a mother is rigid, as many people say, but we are not iron men, so we can put it down:

◆ When we are tired, we should seek help from people around us, especially our husbands. The growth of children needs the participation of fathers, and no matter how hard we try, we can't replace fathers' love;

◆ When we want to go out to the movies, go shopping and have dinner with friends, we can also give our children to the elderly, and the father of the children will take them for a day, believing that they can live well even if they are not at home for a day, so don't make themselves nervous at any time;

◆ When the child is older and we don't want to cook breakfast or wash dishes, we can tell the child appropriately that it is ok to ask the child for help or order takeout. Maybe we have time to play with the child;

Children's study and homework are their own business, and we can help now, but in the future, children's ability to learn independently and their passion to be responsible for their own lives will be gone, so we can choose not to intervene. What we have to do is to set an example for our children, such as learning by ourselves;

When children can go to school and play by themselves, all we have to do is take time to improve ourselves. Even with children, we can't lose ourselves. If we have the opportunity, we can return to the workplace. After all, everyone has his own value in his life, and this value is not all on children.

◆ If conditions permit, I still suggest exercising. When exercising, not only will you drive away bad emotions, but also your physical resistance will become stronger and stronger, and a good body can improve your happiness;

We can't balance our family and work well, and there is no need to balance them. We are not superhuman, and there is no need to live ourselves as superhuman, accept ourselves as ordinary people, and then admit that our children may be ordinary people, so our anxiety will be reduced. When the heart is not tired, the body will naturally get better.

We don't need to compare with the people around us. There is no such comparison.