What’s wrong with growing up casually?

There are so many Tang poems. Why do you think today's children are so smart?

At that time, Xiaohe grew up next to her grandma.

After her father got married, he went to study for a Ph.D. and then a postdoc. Living on campus, Monday to Thursday.

Her mother chose to live with her parents-in-law because she said it would save her worries. On weekends, my husband leaves school and the two of us return to our small homes.

My husband is also an only child, so sooner or later we will need to move closer together. Even though Xiaohe's mother is a returned student who returned from studying in the UK, she is the most traditional at heart. She has a good tutor and a good-natured mother-in-law. It is rare for a girl to be willing to live with them.

Originally, this grandma was interested in her son and daughter-in-law. When she has a granddaughter, it will become even more unambiguous. Food, clothing and clothing are of course not a problem, early education? Must.

When Xiao He could not crawl, her grandma took her to a famous early childhood education center to receive education with the children. The teacher at the early childhood education center said that the youngest child who came to their place was three months old, which was a bit late for someone like Xiao He. The teacher also said that children who did not receive formal early childhood education were not sociable and prone to loneliness. , it is very easy for people to have social anxiety when they grow up.

Social anxiety when you grow up?

Early childhood education tuition fees are paid once a year.

In early childhood education courses, don’t skip classes, attend class on time, don’t be late, don’t leave early!

At home, you can’t be idle. Children’s songs are played everywhere, and music that children like to listen to is played.

From the time Xiao He could speak, grandma had to teach her to recite Tang poems according to the book, from simple ones such as "The moonlight shines in front of the bed", from "The sun is over the mountains", from "Red beans give birth to the southern country" She started to recite four sentences, and the more she recited, the longer she recited. Moreover, when guests came, grandma often took her to show her skills in front of the guests...

One year during the Spring Festival, she learned from her grandparents. Return to my grandma's home in another city. There happened to be a guest at home to visit Xiaohe's grandparents. Speaking of Xiaohe, he can memorize many Tang poems, so let’s show off his talent! Her father, who is a doctor, also took a lollipop and said to her, if you recite a song, we will take a break and you can lick the lollipop! Because I have to protect my teeth, I rarely give Xiaohe candy. Grandma’s point of view is that there is enough sugar in food now, and Xiaohe must eat less specialized sugar.

At the beginning, the little lotus memorized "Only when the little lotus reveals its sharp corners, and then the dragonfly falls on the head", in a cadence, reciting it well! The guests not only praised but also applauded, and Xiaohe even licked the lollipop. Then he recited, "Bashan night rain rises in the autumn pond". He recited it very skillfully, was praised again, and licked the lollipop. She got stuck while reciting "Du Shaofu's Ren Shuchuan". Everyone looked at her. She became more and more anxious. She repeated it once, but still didn't think of the next sentence. Her father said you should lick the lollipop again! Xiaohe cried all of a sudden, let my grandma carry it!

Xiaohe cried, but the adults also laughed, praising the child's brain reaction too quickly, thinking of asking grandma to carry it...

Grandma was still the same as always, and she still took over everything. In class, she took Xiao He very responsibly to learn painting, piano, dancing, and English. Her grandma said that people have no conditions and no time to squeeze out time and create conditions to take their children to learn this and that. How can we still fall behind? go? Besides, the child's mother is a master's degree graduate from a prestigious British school, and the child's father is a postdoctoral fellow. How can your child compare to other people's children?

On the way to school, Xiaohe actually started early enough! Moreover, she also has a grandmother who is absolutely responsible no matter what the wind or rain.

Not to mention what her parents had planned for her, if the two of them were to let loose, her grandma would definitely know Qiu Bo and would sternly warn Xiao He's parents, and even had a heated argument with Xiao He's mother because of letting Xiao He loose. They argued, but when the time came, it was Xiao He’s grandma’s persistence that overcame Xiao He’s mother’s desire to let go in secret.

Grandma has put so much effort into Xiaohe’s growth! Grandma would not allow Xiao He not to work hard in the correct and prescribed direction of becoming a top student...

When Xiao He was in her first year of high school, her mother unexpectedly became pregnant.

Dad said that mom was an advanced maternal age and should not give birth.

Xiaohe said that I don’t have any objections to the mother’s birth of the child, so I will just mention one thing: regardless of whether it’s a boy or a girl, just don’t let me take care of the child like you do me. Let it grow freely!

Mom and Dad were stunned.

Isn’t Xiaohe the closest to grandma?

Wasn’t it grandma who planned Xiaohe’s achievements today?

When Xiaohe’s father conveyed Xiaohe’s words to grandma, the seventy-four-year-old grandma cried...

Xiaohe’s mother gave birth to a seven-pound baby. There are boys and girls, and the girl is older and the boy is smaller. It’s great. The family is very happy.

This little boy is now five years old, and he has grown up really freely. Grandma is not only getting older day by day, but she is not even a little bit less energetic than before. In addition to casual thoughts, she could no longer drive her grandson around to learn this and that.

Xiao He lives on campus in high school and has half a day off every Saturday afternoon, and only has normal rest every two weeks.

Mom and dad have time to spend with this little brother.

This time, her parents took the child and learned step by step. In the summer, they took the little boy to play in the water and ride the waves at the beach, and took him barefoot to walk on the dam in the field, stained by mud. What's that? Take him to the farm and chase the big rooster, chase the dog, and lick the tail of the big yellow cat like the children there. If you want to grab rice and noodles with your hands, you can catch him! When traveling with him, you have to carry a small bag, think about bringing water and food, and do everything you can. Take him to see mountains and rivers, and he won't be afraid of anything. This little boy is so strong! Love to laugh!

When my father was reading, he would look at his own picture albums silently, and sometimes he would look through the books of his father, a university teacher. My father would just let him go without telling him, he was willing to read His father allowed him to watch "Peppa Pig" on the projection, but only stipulated a viewing time. He also plays with his mobile phone, but he can not only make calls and send WeChat messages, but also skillfully take photos and record videos. He can also find the songs he often listens to in the browser and Kugou Music without sleeping. No matter how much you coax her, you don’t need to persuade her to eat. You don’t have to worry about washing your face and brushing your teeth. You can always remind your mother: Don’t forget your car keys! No one has studied in detail whether the idioms he usually speaks and the integrity of what he expresses were learned at home or in kindergarten. He is just like a well-informed little boy, sunny and happy...

Xiaohe's grandma is now convinced, and this long and loose hair is really good!

Xiaohe’s father said, don’t you think you can’t trust us to take care of your children? As children grow, so do we...