1.

I haven’t seen Yanzi for a year. Yanzi sent a WeChat message saying that the wedding was on May 13th, and then sent me the address. Said he hoped you could come and attend. There were no other pleasantries, because she knew that I was busy at work and often worked overtime on weekends.

Yanzi is my best friend in high school. She has fair skin, long eyes, and a crooked smile. Lively and free-spirited personality.

When we were in our sophomore year of high school, we were in front and back, had similar temperaments, and soon we stuck together every day. We boarded and came home every two weeks. Every time I come back from home, I give all my living expenses to Yanzi. She is very virtuous and plans nutritious and balanced meals for both of us every day. She can also save some living expenses to buy books that we both like.

Sixteen or seventeen years old, a green age, bathed in sunshine and growing vigorously like grass.

We often wear the same red T-shirt, blue jeans, and canvas shoes and walk hand in hand on the playground. Each person has one earphone to listen to Stefanie Sun. We also often hide under the covers and share secrets.

In school, there are many boys who like Yanzi. There are often boys from foreign classes or senior students who come to look for Yanzi by the window after class, but she doesn't pay much attention to them.

I secretly like a boy, classmate A. He is one grade above us and has deep eyes. He is the announcer at the school radio station, with a warm and magnetic voice. I mentioned it to Yanzi, and she laughed and teased me.

Later, classmate A sent a love letter to Yanzi, and without any warning, he confessed to her.

Yanzi rejected him seriously.

Although Yanzi rejected him, I was still very disappointed, and my fragile glass heart was broken to the ground. We didn’t talk much to Yanzi, and we didn’t go to the cafeteria to eat. She bought me my favorite Yangzhou fried rice and brought it to the classroom. Buy me yogurt and fruits during recess.

A few days later, I finally realized my childish behavior. What a good friend. We agreed to walk together on the road ahead. I can’t lose this friend because of anyone or anything. We made peace as before.

When we were in college, we were not in the same city. We called and texted each other every day, and got together during holidays.

When I was about to graduate from college, I chatted with an old classmate on QQ. This classmate and Yanzi were neighbors and we had a good relationship.

She said that Yanzi had actually fallen in love with classmate A when she first entered high school, but the relationship between the two of you was getting closer and closer. She knew that you also liked A, so when faced with the confession of her favorite boy, she still I reluctantly refused. In her heart, you are more important than A.

I couldn't type a word for a long time across the computer.

On September 20, 2014, Stefanie Sun held a concert in Hangzhou, the city where Yanzi works. I bought a ticket to Hangzhou and went with Yanzi to listen to the concert of Stefanie Sun, whom we have loved for so many years. meeting.

It was a late summer and early autumn night, and the wind was a bit chilly. We both wore a large light green plaid scarf and looked at the noisy crowd in front of us, with dots of fluorescent sticks swaying.

With a big aperture, Stefanie Sun sang about our youth one by one with "Same Kind", "It's Dark", "Good Youth", "Honey Honey" and "I Miss Him Too".

I miss him too/We are all the same/I found wings in him/p>

But at that time, he/it was because of you/He started to fly

I miss him too/somewhere/I am no longer embarrassed/you are missing shoulders

But summer is still so short/missing you is very long...

I couldn't help but burst into tears. I turned my head slightly and glanced at Yanzi. There were faint tears flashing in the corners of her eyes, and her eyes were as clear as ever.

I seemed to see two girls with ponytails holding hands again, standing under the albizia tree in the playground. The sky was blue, and a few rays of sunlight fell, reflecting on their faces. She looked into her eyes and said, "We will be friends forever." She agreed that hanging with a hook would not change for a hundred years.

On May 12th, the company held a customer appreciation event. It was already 4:40 pm when I finished the event.

Put down the follow-up work, grab your suitcase, and go straight to the airport.

It’s nearly ten o’clock when we arrive at the hotel. After a simple bowl of noodles, I slept in the same bed with Yanzi. Thinking about getting married tomorrow, she tossed and turned and couldn't fall asleep. I was too excited to fall asleep for a long time, and we kept chatting.

In the long years of youth, he wiped my tears when I was heartbroken, and made me laugh heartlessly when I was happy. The girl who has been with me from the age of 28 to 28 is about to get married.

She wears white gauze, and I wear white gauze too. Standing on the red carpet, I held the ring and handed it to her Mr. Right. He picked up her hand and carefully put on the diamond ring for her. I stood aside and kept laughing, laughing and crying quietly.

2.

Kapok is a gentle and bright girl. Whenever I think of her, I naturally think of a sentence.

Be a bright and beautiful girl as long as you live. We meet everyone who likes us, even if we meet by chance, by chance, or by chance, but at least we have met.

Yes, this girl is my college roommate and the first friend I made in college. When I first saw her, she was thin and frail, with slanted bangs and long soft hair. Wear an aqua T-shirt, blue jeans, and burgundy flats. When she smiles, there are shallow dimples on her cheeks, which are beautiful and beautiful.

At that time, I had a strong and angular personality. When I first entered school, I put a quilt cover on my military green quilt in the dormitory, but I was so anxious that I didn't even put it on because I was sweating profusely. After Kapok saw it, without saying a word, she used her dexterous hands to quickly install my quilt cover. She also helped me fold the cups and put them on the blue and white checkered sheets.

Looking at the neat and clean bed, I am very happy. He took Kapok and invited her to eat boiled fish outside the school. In the time it takes for a portion of boiled fish, we have already explained our past to each other.

She has a boyfriend, Mr. F, who is studying in college in City C. She just met him during the summer vacation after the college entrance examination. And my Mr. Wang happens to be studying in university in City C. At this point, when the fourth grade kept going back and forth to City C, Kapok was always with him.

We are in the same class and major and travel together every day. I was tall and thin in college, and she was thinner and shorter than me, but much stronger than me. When washing clothes, I couldn't unscrew them, so I just hung them on the balcony. It rains three to five times a week on the balcony of the dormitory, soaking Lanzi's stool and Fei Fei's shoes.

No one was happy, and they didn’t say it in front of me, but later, whenever I finished washing my clothes, Kapok always put down the computer immediately, rolled up her sleeves and helped me twist my clothes. Afterwards, the clothes rarely drip anymore.

We worked odd jobs together to save money for traveling to find my boyfriend.

I sell green tea and she sells milk tea. I wore a very ugly green overalls, and she wore a maid-like white overalls. We are partners, and she talks very little when facing outsiders. While I was selling green tea, I also helped her sell some milk tea.

We help each other and get along very well.

Girls’ friendship is sometimes really simple. They wear the same style of clothes, carry the same style of bags, hold hands when eating, going to class, and going to the toilet. It seems that if this continues, the friendship between them will soon become indestructible.

In my junior year, the school organized a sketching trip to southern Hunan, and we lived in the same room. The two girls who love stinky beauty spend most of their time taking pictures of each other with their cameras, apart from painting and eating.

Southern Hunan has beautiful scenery in April. The stone roads are covered with moss, the wooden houses are mottled with red paint, and under the small bridges made of stones, the clear river water is rippling in the sunshine, and the clang is playing the lively music. movement. Our figures are left everywhere on the stone slabs, beside the redwood house, and beside the small bridge.

But the day before the sketch ended, the two of us had a quarrel over a trivial matter in the hotel, and ended up ignoring each other. In anger, I deleted all the photos of Kapok in my camera.

She sat on the edge of the bed and shed tears. I ignored her. She kept crying. I felt guilty. I sat next to her and tried to comfort her, even saying nice things and apologizing, but nothing improved.

I was anxious, grabbed the camera and deleted all my photos, saying, "Stop crying, we are even." Kapok looked at me blankly for a minute, then burst out laughing. Said, you are really lacking, I really admire you.

That time when the two extremely stinky girls came back, they didn’t have a photo to show off on their WeChat Moments. I regretted it and wanted to chop it off.

Later, she and Mr. F went to Suzhou after graduation and entered the animation industry together. But Mr. F’s family is from Anhui and Kapok is from Luoyang. Her parents have only one daughter and have always wanted her to find a local man and not want her to marry far away. So I firmly disagree with them being together.

In 2012, Kapok couldn’t resist his parents, so he came back from Suzhou and passed by Zhengzhou. I stayed here for two weeks and quietly wiped away tears every night. I hugged her and said, stop crying, everything will be fine.

Parents in the world always care about their children the most. After seeing her return to Luoyang for more than two months and being depressed every day, her parents couldn't bear it anymore and agreed to let her go back to Suzhou.

She called me and told me, Mo, I’m going back to Suzhou. I’m not ignoring my parents’ feelings. My parents are getting older and want to keep me by their side. I understand. I feel sorry for them too.

But I really can’t give up my relationship with F for many years, and we are both passionate about the animation industry. This industry only has more development prospects in Suzhou or Hangzhou. I can’t selfishly sacrifice our jobs. Go back to Luoyang.

F and I want to start a business and run our own CG online class. Then work hard to make money, earn a lot of money, buy a big house, take your parents over, and never separate. She choked up as she spoke

I was also in tears on the other end of the phone.

At the end of September this year, Kapok sent an invitation to the wedding of Mr. F and her in Suzhou, Anhui on October 18th.

I smiled lightly, put down all my plans for that week, and bought a ticket to Suzhou.

I hope Kapok will have a happy and peaceful life. Because seeing her happy makes me happy too.

If it weren’t for you, I wouldn’t believe it/A friend is more devoted than a lover

Even if I was busy falling in love and freezing you to ice/You wouldn’t hate me and just scold me a few times

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If it weren’t for you, I wouldn’t be sure/Friends know how to listen better than lovers

My overtones are what I say but I don’t mean them/I can’t live without darling and I can’t live without you

On October 18, Kapok's wedding was warm and lively, and Lanzi and I came as scheduled.

Kapok pulled up her hair to reveal her white neck, mature and elegant. I met Kapok’s parents, who were reluctant to let their daughter get married. The emcee was telling the story of how they met, and Kapok’s mother was wiping tears in the audience.

I held up the camera and clicked, for fear of missing even a little bit of happy time. The scene freezes as F picks up Kapok and spins around in circles, and I can no longer hold back the tears. The girl who likes to hold my hand and take sexy photos is really married. I wish you a long life together.

Kapok fulfilled her promise and set up a ghost monkey CG training class with F in Suzhou. They are very skilled and teach students conscientiously. Animation is a sunrise industry that is developing extremely fast. They bought a 150-square-meter house. Although it is not big, Kapok can live with his parents safely for a long time.

I am always embarrassed to cry at my friends’ weddings. Everyone's wedding is unique, and it is one of the most important events in everyone's life. It is a solemn and sacred event. Of course, I especially long for relatives and friends to witness it together.

Many times I want to attend a friend's wedding but I am always entangled with various things. The company holds an annual meeting, I work overtime, I just plan to travel, I am on the way to visit relatives, my sister-in-law has a baby, etc. Waiting for various kinds of things to leave. I actually wanted to give him a red envelope because he/she was so busy during the wedding that he couldn't take care of me, so it would be the same if he didn't arrive.

But if you can, please take time to attend a friend’s wedding. Witnessing a friend’s wedding is really a very happy and meaningful thing, even if you think about it many years later, the scene at the wedding Still as clear as yesterday.

Don’t let the reasons you didn’t attend at the time become the reasons you regret for years to come.

Even if you are gray-haired, you can still point to the photo of your wedding, pull your grandson and say, hi, let me tell you, the grandma/grandpa next to me is a fool, but the relationship between us is The best...

Today's life is getting busier and busier, and there are fewer and fewer connections. We are no longer with you all the time like before. I no longer share my thoughts immediately, nor do I wear the same style of clothes or sing the same song. We are not in the same city, we are working in different industries, we no longer have the same circles, and we no longer have topics to talk about all night. But so what, friends are a lifelong thing.

As Da Bing said, it is easy to fall in love with each other at first sight, but the difficult thing is that there is only so much time to come. Real friends have been apart for ten years, and when they meet, it feels like they just broke up yesterday.

This kind of friend means that I will definitely go to your wedding, no matter how far away you are, no matter how far away you are.

Life is lonely and long, but fortunately we have friends!