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The psychology of a man meeting his love rival

Please see below for the inner emotions of a man when he meets his love rival

1. Sweet possession

You are with her in a bar, accompanied by a group of friends. You notice someone striking up a conversation with her, and when she comes back to you you get a drink, a business card, and more. At this time, you just need to gently hold her in your arms with your arms. Such a simple gesture is telling her, "I know you're looking gorgeous tonight, and I also know that some other men are paying too much attention to you." Silent and sweet. And what to do will have the opposite effect - make trouble in the bar and solve it violently - this is unnecessary!

2. Be jealous

The way you really overturn the jealousy situation is completely different from the above situation - no matter what stage your relationship with her has progressed, you will Throwing a tantrum regardless of image. For those brothers who are still in the process of "looking for a girlfriend" or in the early stages of a relationship, don't be overly protective of her or show too much possessiveness. Be calm. This will be very helpful for the long-term development of both of you. For those friends who have been in a relationship for many years, when real jealousy appears, it may be that you lack trust in her, and then the relationship may be in jeopardy. Therefore, the following situations should be avoided.

3. Potential rivals

Do you imagine that the male friends she goes out with are your potential rivals? Even if you haven't discovered that she is with another man yet, would you still consider such an imaginary enemy? If so, then you need to be careful. This kind of irrational jealousy has no other effect than making you look extremely insecure - and if she is deliberately cheating on you, no matter how jealous you are, it won't change anything. In fact, this usually leads to her finding a new love.

How should men face their love rivals

1. Keep making progress in learning and cultivation

Learning is endless, cultivating the mind and character are the goals that life constantly pursues. It is not only the cornerstone of love, marriage and family, but also a highlight over rivals in love. No woman will like a man who is ignorant and self-righteous.

2. A correct view of wealth

If your love rival is a rich man, you don’t have to be discouraged. Wealth is created through labor, and the endless pursuit of wealth is not advisable. As long as your girlfriend isn't the kind of woman who only wants to marry for money, he won't be enough to threaten you. As long as you work hard and strive, coupled with self-respect and character, you will definitely win.

3. Stand with your girlfriend

You are a unit: if the other person says, "Come and have a drink, this wine is good," you can stop in front, " "She's not feeling well these two days/she's inconvenient/she doesn't drink, so let's have some iced tea." This shows your thoughtfulness and attentiveness to your girlfriend. At the same time, it also shows potential suitors: This is my girlfriend. I understand her, but you can't.