When people reach middle age, their days are exactly the same: go to work, get off work, go home, and cook. This goes on and on, one day after another in the 365 days!
This afternoon when I was at work, I suddenly missed my best friend. I was about to make a phone call, and suddenly a WeChat voice came over. It was a message from my best friend! There was a clear connection between the two. ah!
My best friend said that our best friend Lao Ning is celebrating his birthday soon. It is the 7th day of the seventh lunar month, which is also Chinese Valentine’s Day. It is a very romantic day! My best friend said: “I don’t know what Lao Ning is celebrating this year. But birthday?" My answer was very overbearing: "No matter whether Lao Ning fails, we must give him a good life! Let's find a reason to get together!".
When a person reaches middle age, it is like being in a calm backwater. You work hard, but every aspect is failing every day. You will feel inadequate. Tasks that were once a piece of cake are now very difficult for you. No matter how hard you try, you will never be the mainstay. You are the one who is tortured by work. Very anxious and stressed! Go to work and get off work every day, as long as there are no accidents at work today, you are very stable, and you are considered lucky!
When a person reaches middle age, there is no love in the emotional world. It sounds like only family affection is left. In fact, this is basically self-deception! The two people each held a mobile phone, and each looked at the mobile phone to express their emotions! That kind of feeling is a sign that we will never have contact with each other until death! I really can’t imagine that the two people we fell in love with back then were still us? The original passion has completely disappeared, and it feels like a lifetime ago when I think of it!
Then we pretended to be looking for love, but pretending is just pretending. We no longer have the same mood as before. Every time we held hands and every kiss we couldn't help it! But doing so now seems very artificial, very abrupt, and very out of place! During the Chinese New Year the year before last, my husband and I went shopping for a refrigerator. There were only two of us in the huge shopping mall, and affectionate music was playing in the shopping mall. I suddenly and impulsively wanted to hold my husband's hand. The moment our fingers touched, my husband looked at me in surprise and asked unexpectedly: "What do you want to do?". I was so embarrassed at that moment!
After several years of marriage, I look back on the past with a lot of emotion. Back then, I didn’t see him for a day, and it was like three autumns! Now I don’t see him for several days, and I don’t even look at him twice when I see him. When my husband comes back from a business trip, the first thing he does when he enters the house is to run to the fish tank to see a group of fish that have reunited after a long absence, shaking their heads and tails at him. , and then stared at it for a long time, unwilling to leave, as if I was pouring out the pain of lovesickness. I stood aside and weakly asked my husband: "It seems that this tank of fish is much more important than me!" My husband gave me a divine reply: " Of course, fish don’t take care of themselves, and you take care of yourself.” Fish, fish, in my husband's world, I am not as good as you!
So, in the world of middle-aged people, we are very lonely, it is a kind of heart-breaking loneliness, loneliness It seems that we can only listen to our own heartbeat! So, we always want to find a reason to get together.
Find a reason to get together, sit in a KTV with a few friends, and sing a few songs that have been sung many times very emotionally and heartily. Let the loneliness slowly melt away in the singing, and you will become friends. We get together more often, and each other knows each other's preferences. The friends who arrive first will order good songs for the friends who come later. Because we get together for a long time, we have a tacit understanding. We sing, drink, and shout happy birthday, but in fact no one For birthdays, we just want to be happy every day and drink as much as we can. Lao Ning always tells a story about him from back then. Although he has to tell it every time we get together, we listen with great interest every time because of Lao Ning’s story. The bridge section can really push the party to a climax. The plot of Lao Ning is roughly like this: When Lao Ning was working in a certain place, he had a crush on a beautiful woman, but the beauty had no idea about it. At the company party, the beautiful woman danced with the boss. Lao Ning became so jealous that he smashed his cell phone and stood drunk. Direct traffic on the road. Many years have passed, and Lao Ning has long since let go. Lao Ning talks with a smile, and we listen happily, and then all the loneliness and worries disappear. Through wine, we complain about work, leadership, etc., etc.
Find a reason to get together and let your loneliness disappear temporarily through the gathering. Find a reason to get together, spend a sunny afternoon with your friends.