Judging from the sound, Xu Ruoyun and Cao Xiaoqiang called Cao Xiaoqiang’s name at the cocktail party in episode 12. You can tell by listening to it. I also compared it using software, and it was indeed Ruoyun. At this point, the answer comes out - Xu Ruoyun!
In the play, Cao Xiaoqiang and Xu Ruoyun actually have the highest degree of spiritual compatibility. The scene where the two parted and met Cao Xiaoqiang for the last time in a coffee shop was very touching (it should be said that Xu Zheng's acting skills were very good as a bald guy), which shows that the two of them love each other very deeply. Before getting on the plane, Xu Ruoyun even sent a text message to Cao Xiaoqiang, saying, "I hope I will have the ability to love again in the future." The implication is that we are actually the most beloved to each other and both are devoted to each other. Some people understand that this means that it is impossible for the two of them to meet again in the future. I cannot agree with this view.
In fact, the possibility of Xu Ruoyun returning to China is very high: First, the rich generation sends their children to study abroad to study management and economics. Most of them expect their children to take over the management of the family business, not to let them do it for others. Working part-time, let alone going overseas for a long time and not being able to be around; secondly, Xu Ruoyun's father in the play is in very poor health. From his father's perspective, he would probably like his daughter to return to China as soon as possible to be by his side or participate in the management of the family business early; thirdly, Xu Ruoyun's father is in poor health. Xu Ruoyun's position in the United States is similar to a kind of job experience. He needs to work in a top position in a top company to gain experience, know how the company operates at this level, and know who is operating the company at this level and what kind of thinking it has. Ideas, expanding contacts, etc., actually does not mean that they will take root in the US headquarters.
Of course, it is more likely that after a period of thinking and settling, Xu Ruoyun will become clearer that Cao Xiaoqiang is the man she really wants and cannot live without, and she finally chose to return to Cao Xiaoqiang. Next to Xiaoqiang.
When two people are together, they are highly compatible mentally and emotionally with each other, and there is no problem. The reason that ultimately caused the two to separate was not even Gao Jianzheng, but the conflicts between the two parties in some living habits and thinking about problems due to different family backgrounds and educational backgrounds. In the final analysis, Cao Xiaoqiang actually has a bit of inferiority complex, or his self-esteem is too sensitive. Of course, Xu Ruoyun loves Cao Xiaoqiang very much but fails to integrate into Cao Xiaoqiang's life. This is also the main reason. The last episode of the play describes how Cao Xiaoqiang keeps working hard and how his body, mind and career continue to improve. This implies that Cao Xiaoqiang is trying to close the distance between the two. Presumably, when Xu Ruoyun appears again, Cao Xiaoqiang will be more confident. He is more determined to have her and will not let Xu Ruoyun go again (this technique is common in the endings of American movies).
The expression on Cao Xiaoqiang's head at the end of the play: an affectionate gaze with a hint of surprise and bitterness, followed by a sweet and happy smile - you are finally back! Based on the analysis of the plot, characters' emotions, etc. in the play, the most suitable one is Xu Ruoyun.
Only people like Xu Ruoyun, who have lived in the United States for a long time, have the mindset to value participation and witness every important moment in the lives of their loved ones. Integrating more into Cao Xiaoqiang's life is also the key to a happy life with Cao Xiaoqiang that a smart person like Xu Ruoyun can understand during his time in the United States, rather than buying a big LCD TV for Cao Xiaoqiang and how much money to put in his bag. .
Furthermore, Xu Ruoyun’s family and upbringing have shaped her habits. She attaches great importance to gift-giving. It can be seen that the gift given by Cao Xiaoqiang’s family for the first time is average. If she comes, she will definitely give it. A big flower basket or something. People who have lived in Europe and the United States for a long time are accustomed to calling others by their first name and surname. The same is true for Xu Ruoyun. On the contrary, our domestic habit is to only call people by their first name once they are familiar with them, and will not call them by their first name and surname together. Identity.
Attachment: In the play, Cao Xiaoqiang was unable to get married because he persisted in love, his family objected, housing prices were too high, etc. This is a social tragedy, but many of the girls he dated also did not get married (Cai Weilan did not clear). I always feel that behind every high-quality leftover man, there are many leftover women who feel sad. Vice versa, the same is true.
I hope that house prices can be lower, so that we can have more courage to choose our love, choose the person we love, and enter the palace of marriage. I hope parents can interfere less and let go more, allowing their children to truly choose the other half of their lives.
The ending of "When a Man Gets Married" provides an open ending full of suspense. I stayed up all night watching the movie and there was no ending. It was really frustrating! I can only deduce the ending myself.
First of all, from the perspective of the whole drama, Cao Xiaoqiang, played by Xu Zheng, is a good man, upright and kind, sincere in treating others, and has always taken love as the cornerstone of marriage to take marriage seriously - of course, this It was a very important reason why he didn't get married in the end. For every girl who appears in his life, he is sincerely good to them, cares about them, and takes care of them. This is also the biggest reason why he is favored by many girls, even excellent girls. The best proof is that Cai Weilan, who is as smart as a ghost, and Xu Ruoyun, who is well-informed, are also attracted by it.
The idea of ????Chinese dramas has always been that good people will be rewarded. The analysis of the ending should also follow this idea. On the contrary, good people are not rewarded, and it makes no sense that Cao Xiaoqiang did not get a good girl and a good marriage. In the play, he has shown a 35-year-old man's attitude toward love, marriage, and family. Very positive, very mature consideration.
Of course, it needs to be analyzed in conjunction with some of the plot, details, and expressions of the last scene in order to be comprehensive and consistent with the development of the plot.
Cao Xiaoqiang was promoted to the new store manager. On the opening day of the new store, a beautiful woman came to deliver a flower basket. The girl who knew about his promotion and the opening of a new store was either told by him himself (he obviously didn't tell anyone) or by his relatives and friends, and this relative and friend was most likely Huang Weiye.
Gu Qing has returned to his hometown and will generally not return to Beijing. In fact, what forced Gu Qing to leave Beijing was Beijing's high housing prices and living expenses. Gu Qing had to bear her sister's tuition and living expenses as well as her own living expenses. She couldn't survive in Beijing. She didn't want to implicate Cao Xiaoqiang and finally chose to leave. The play specifically stated that she would change her phone number when she returned to her hometown, and the play did not mention that the two had any phone contact. It was impossible for her to know about the opening of Cao Xiaoqiang's new store, and it was impossible for her to send such a large flower basket (which was not in line with her frugal habits ), obviously, Gu Qing is out.
Ma Xiaomei made it very clear in the drama that she and Cao Xiaoqiang were like brother and sister in the end, and Cao Xiaoqiang treated him like a sister, and Ma Xiaomei always called Cao Xiaoqiang "brother" and would not call him directly. "Cao Xiaoqiang", so Ma Xiaomei is not either.
Wu Xiaoliu has a big age difference and an obvious generation gap. What Wu Xiaoliu pursues is a 35-year-old man with a successful career and a tolerant man. After realizing that Cao Xiaoqiang is not such a successful person, he went to France. It is unlikely that he will return to China to find Cao Xiaoqiang. With Cao Xiaoqiang Or he probably has no contact with his relatives and friends. Moreover, with Wu Xiaoliu's personality, he is very straightforward and straight-forward. He would not call Cao Xiaoqiang like this, nor would he send a flower basket without leaving his name to create suspense. Therefore, Wu Xiaoliu is also impossible.
Cai Weilan has lofty aspirations, deep scheming, and meticulous methods. Like a female spider with a big web, it is always devouring moths that come over. In the play, she finally uses Wawa Food Company and its boss Chen Zhiming as a platform to meet a foreign bank executive in Shanghai and successfully captures him. She then ends up marrying a bank executive (with her skills to capture him). It shouldn’t be difficult to do this), or use bank executives as a platform to move towards higher goals. Even if her materialistic personality is seen through and abandoned, she will never look back to her previous "low-end" goals, but will only look for equal goals. Although, she knows that Cao Xiaoqiang's sincerity is It was valuable, but sincerity and sincerity were by no means the target of her hard work in weaving a net to capture her. Therefore, it is impossible for Cai Weilan.
Zhao Kai is contradictory in the plot of the play. On the one hand, she is career-mad and busy doing surgeries every day. Lian and Cao Xiaoqiang can only spare one hour to register for the surgery, but on the other hand, she is said to be a career-mad person. On the other hand, I often have time to watch movies and play CS.
If he could only spare an hour for such a major event as registering a marriage, would Zhao Kai take Cao Xiaoqiang's new position seriously and send flower baskets, and be there in person to spend this important moment in his life with him? Obviously not! Of course, if you have time to go to the movies or play CS, then you can go, but I tend to think that Zhao Kai will not think that the opening of Cao Xiaoqiang’s new store is important enough to take time to attend in person. Moreover, the relationship between the two is ultimately positioned as "buddies". Zhao Kai loves his career more and is unable and unwilling to assume the responsibilities that a woman should have in marriage (such as at least giving her husband a child and being a good mother). This is The most important factor that prevents both parties from entering into marriage. The important thing is that the two may actually get in touch in the days to come, watching movies and playing CS together like buddies. If they met frequently, Cao Xiaoqiang would not have this expression when he finally looked back.
Liu Chenxi chose her daughter, moved out of the community where Cao Xiaoqiang lived, and took her daughter away from Cao Xiaoqiang. Liu Chenxi's ex-husband was stingy and despicable. He used his daughter to force Liu Chenxi to agree not to talk about marriage anymore. Some people said that it was okay for Liu Chenxi and Cao Xiaoqiang to be together, but they just didn't need to register. But a good woman who likes an outstanding good man will not let this man live with her for a long time without having an upright marriage and family (the same is true for a good man, nor should she be with a good man). A woman is too lazy to give others a marriage and a family). If this is the case, it would be too bullying. Cao Xiaoqiang doesn't mind Liu Chenxi being divorced and having children, so how could Liu Chenxi drag Cao Xiaoqiang away without knowing why? Liu Chenxi is not such a woman, so she decisively moved out of the community and took her daughter away from Cao Xiaoqiang (but she should still live in Beijing). Therefore, it cannot be Liu Chenxi.