She is well-known for her talents in the entertainment industry. She can draw, write well in calligraphy, not only can act, but can also be a director.

She is the first celebrity blogger with hundreds of millions of views and the first mainland director with a box office of over 100 million.

For such a talented woman, her love affairs are also quite exciting. Ridiculed: The woman who "sleeps all over Beijing"! Her rumored boyfriends are all over the film and television circles, music circles, literary circles, and business circles. As she herself said: "I have never had a boyfriend since I was 19 years old."

In 1974, Xu Jinglei was born in an ordinary working-class family. Even though she was dark and thin, she was not What a school beauty.

Her parents were very strict with her education, forcing Xu Jinglei to memorize Tang poetry, learn calligraphy, and paint since she was a child. He cultivated her into a versatile and artistic girl.

Originally she wanted to get into the Academy of Arts and Crafts, but unfortunately she didn't get into it. He learned acting by accident and was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy.

1994 was a very special year for Xu Jinglei. She has just turned 20 and is in her sophomore year at film school.

Xu Jinglei, who seemed gentle and quiet, found that the film courses were boring after being admitted to the Beijing Film Academy. She was wild at heart, so she actually started skipping classes and started playing rock and roll with a few friends. It was at that time that I met Wang Shuo by chance.

Wang Shuo was married when the two met, but when love came, nothing could stop him. Wang Shuo was deeply attracted by this girl with a unique literary and artistic atmosphere.

He said: "Xu Jinglei was born in Rock Guoer. She liked rock music when she was a child. Rock Guoer is the most upright person in Beijing. She plays sloppily and is handsome. She is a completely unkempt young man. I particularly like it. . Otherwise I will feel tired, putting on eyebrows and makeup every day, and dressing up for everyone."

This speaking style is really like Wang Shuo's arrogant and unruly character.

Wang Shuo is 15 years older than Xu Jinglei. When the two met, Wang Shuo was already a big shot in the Beijing circle. He was known to everyone in the literary and film circles and was known as "Shuo Ye". .

I remember that the great director Feng Xiaogang admired Wang Shuo so much that he was willing to be his little follower, so he had the opportunity to get to know Zhao Baogang, Ge You, Jiang Wen and other big names in the literary and art circles. It laid a solid foundation for his subsequent directing career.

It is said that the success of anything requires three conditions: time, place and people. The same is true for love. When Xu Jinglei was in love for the first time, she would inevitably be moved when she saw such a talented person.

As for Wang Shuo, his career is on the rise and he is in a state of being sought after. If he has a little girlfriend at this time, he will instantly feel that his life is complete.

After the two met, they were naturally attracted to each other because of their talents, and they got closer and developed into a relationship.

At that time, Wang Shuo took Xu Jinglei to various gatherings. From this, Xu Jinglei met Feng Xiaogang, Jiang Wen, Zhao Baogang and other later great directors. It paved the way for her later acting career.

With the help of Wang Shuo, Xu Jinglei quickly became famous when she starred in Zhao Baogang's "A Romantic Story".

She has also been named to star in her own novels "Dreams Come into Reality", "There's a Place Only We Know" and "I Love You". This was a script that no one else could ask for at the time, but Xu Jinglei got it easily.

Having had enough of being an actress, Xu Jinglei said she wanted to be a director, so Wang Shuo roped in Ye Daying to star, and Jiang Wen and Zhang Yuan to guest star for free. Wang Shuo said: "As long as you want it, as long as I have it!"

This shows how much Wang Shuo doted on Xu Jinglei at that time. He even gave up his marriage for her.

Wang Shuo felt very happy at first when he gave up his marriage for Xu Jinglei, but now that Wang Shuo talks about it, he still regrets divorcing Shen Jiaxu. Later, he approached Shen Jiaxu and wanted to remarry, but Shen Jiaxu did not agree. His daughter has never been able to forgive him for this.

Speaking of Wang Shuo and Shen Jiaxu, there are still many stories.

Wang Shuo fell in love with Shen Jiaxu at first sight and launched a fierce pursuit to capture the beauty's heart. To this end, he also wrote a novel "Coming to the Surface" to commemorate their love.

Shen Jiaxu once accompanied him through the most difficult days. During the poverty-stricken days, when Shen Jiaxu lost her leather jacket and watch, he could only buy her a second-hand leather jacket.

After getting married in 1987, the two had a baby daughter. Since then, Wang Shuo's career has flourished. Many novels such as "Half Fire, Half Seawater" and "Out of the Sea" have been made into movies.

Wang Shuo began to become a prominent figure in Beijing circles. It was in this state of being sought after that he met Xu Jinglei and became fascinated by her. He completely forgot about the days of hardship with Shen Jiaxu.

At first, in order to win Wang Shuo's heart, Shen Jiaxu did not argue with him, and tried his best to save his face, saying that he just liked freedom.

But later on, the relationship between the two became more and more unscrupulous. Xu Jinglei once openly confronted Shen Jiaxu and said, "I'm already showing off in your house, so just give him to me." His wife looked at this. The little girl who came to the door said very calmly: "You don't understand, I am his mother, you can't replace me."

Maybe Shen Jiaxu has seen through it. Once a man's heart is gone, there is nothing he can do. use. Blind tolerance and tolerance cannot save a marriage at all. After two years of entanglement, she and Wang Shuo signed a divorce agreement. And left Beijing with her daughter.

I thought that Wang Shuo, who was single again, would marry Xu Jinglei. But I never thought that Xu Jinglei, who was becoming more and more famous, did not want to just be a weak woman who was protected and loved by others.

She began to write and direct "Letter from a Strange Woman". For this film, she won the Best Director Award at the 52nd San Sebastian Film Festival in Spain. In June 2005, the American "Times" magazine evaluated her as "a revolutionary representative figure in the Chinese film industry."

Maybe it’s because of the age gap, maybe it’s because the relationship between the two has gradually changed from the one where the woman is weak and the man is strong, to the fact that the two are equally famous. Xu Jinglei’s dependence on Wang Shuo is no longer so strong. . As she matures, she becomes more and more interested in the outside world.

After becoming famous, Xu Jinglei was with the musician Sanbao behind Wang Shuo's back. She left Wang Shuo for three years and even had an abortion for him. Insiders are tight-lipped about their relationship, and it is only a rumor so far. Later, Sanbao fell in love with another singer. Three years later, she returned to Wang Shuo, and Wang Shuo still accepted her. Judging from this, Wang Shuo definitely loves Xu Jinglei.

In the end, after a vigorous love affair, Wang Shuo and Xu Jinglei ended up breaking up. As for the specific reason for the breakup, the two have not explained.

Even after the breakup, Wang Shuo still said in public: "The people I am most sorry for in my life are my ex-wife and children, but after my death, my inheritance will be given to Xu Jinglei."

After the breakup, Xu Jinglei also After buying a house for Wang Shuo, the relationship between the two has transcended love and turned into family affection.

In addition to his relationship with Wang Shuo, he is relatively well-known in the entertainment industry. Lao Xu has several other relationships, which are also quite topical.

In July 2005, Zhang Yadong and Xu Jinglei were photographed holding hands and shopping intimately on the streets of Beijing. A love triangle between Gao Yuanyuan, Xu Jinglei and Zhang Yadong shocked the entertainment industry.

There were also scandals when she and Huang Jue were acting together. In 2008, it was also rumored that Xu Jinglei and Huang Jue had obtained their licenses. Later, both parties denied the rumors.

What is even more unexpected is that Gao Xiaosong also wrote on his blog: "In 1995, he wrote a song called "Lei" after his girlfriend's name." It is rumored that this song was written by For Xu Jinglei. Later, Xu Jinglei's unusual interaction with Han Han on Weibo led to scandals, and Gao Xiaosong was even jealous.

When counting her boyfriends, it must be said that the talented Xu Jinglei is really not easy!

Now she and her boyfriend Huang Lixing have been in love for many years. Although they are not married, they are as sweet as ever. It can be regarded as a happy ending!

It is said that she and each of her exes are now good friends. Xu Jinglei is the only one in the industry who can achieve such a level!

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