1. "If anyone blames me for being bad, I have to let you bear my madness or wildness"

Still starting from the last sentence.

The exclamation in Salon "In fact, life is not wasted, so there is no dust flying";

In "When the Grapes are Ripe", it is said that "everyone has been sad, and which one has not";

This melody with Eason Chan's voice, the last sentence, often pokes my tears, and this feeling is even worse in Bicycle.

If interpreted according to Huang Weiwen's emotions, then this last sentence is really an accusation. What a precious existence it is if there is another person at home who can bear and tolerate your willfulness and wildness when you are not understood and complained. However, because we are not good at words and ashamed to talk about it, there are too many regrettable alienated parent-child relationships around us.

this is a song for my father, no doubt. But the last sentence always reminds me of many people. Eason's "Unconditional" is probably the best interpretation of this sentence: "I am blamed for being bad in the world/I know that I only have you/bear my madness or wildness". There is such an unparalleled possession in life, that is, people who can understand and tolerate you after knowing your shortcomings and bad temper.

Second, "How good is love without saying a word"

We often say "Father loves mountains".

calm and silent, but persistent.

We often write "Father is not good at words".

yes, when misunderstood by you, you don't explain it very much; When you make a mistake, talk little but punish severely; When you do a good deed, smile quietly and affirm.

Huang Weiwen said that writing this song is an accusation, not a eulogy.

Yes, we can feel a child's dissatisfaction with his introverted father in every word of the lyrics.

when you don't say anything but care silently, don't assume that all children know and understand. Because naive children, when they are still young, where will they know how to "observe words and observe emotions"? They are just afraid and eager. I am eager to tell myself generously after what my father has done for me, and to have a big hug when I look forward to praise.

but no.

In the era of rendering "Men don't flick when they have tears", most men were introverted.

Therefore, those eyes or actions that make us feel caring without saying anything, most of the time, only after we have experienced a lot and even played the role of parents ourselves, can we gradually understand them.

When I was a child, my father never said a word of love for you, but that love was real. Such an understanding often comes too late.

so, how good is love without saying a word?

it may take a long time to make up for and repair the lag of communication caused by lack of expression, and in the meantime, how many opportunities have been missed for each other to hug and understand.

Third, "It's hard to leave, but I want to hold on to some boundless life like a wilderness"

When is my father's hug?

some people will say that when I was very young, he lifted me to his neck and looked at the world over his shoulders.

some people will say that when he was very young, he would deliberately hold and throw it up when he amused me and then catch it carefully.

The song says, "Only once do I remember touching/riding a bicycle/hugging our backs".

what happened later?

there is no future.

Because hugs are too scarce, the memories of hugging each other are fresh in my memory.

Family ties are probably the most precious connection for people to live in this world.

every time I hear the words "I want to hold on to it, and life is like a wilderness", I always feel scared and powerless.

when will life make people feel like a wilderness?

It may be the time when everything goes wrong but you can't find someone to talk to;

It may be a time when a person works overtime outside and misses the bus very late, and hesitates whether to spend so much money to take a taxi and walks in the street.

It may also be when you look at all the lights at night when you are away from home in Wan Li, only to find that none of them are lit for yourself;

when you can't feel the direction of the road ahead;

Feeling stressed and helpless, I even began to doubt that I missed the time when I was curled up in my parents' arms and didn't have to face the dangers of life ...

I especially needed a hug.

no matter who it comes from.

If life always has a support, as Eason Chan sang in the song, "If a child can fall on his father's shoulder/who wants to get off", who will want to face the outside wind and rain alone?

But Eason Chan also sang "People always need to live bravely".

therefore, no matter how much we don't want to leave, we have to get off when it's time to get off.

However, the hug on that bicycle can still make us feel comforted when facing the wind, rain and cold countless times.

unfortunately, there are too few. So little that hugs only exist in memory, so little that when you need comfort, you can only remember them, instead of hugging each other generously.

Third, "If you love me more, let me be stronger"

It seems that this is not an accusation, but a cry and a demand.

love me more, so that I can bravely face the wind and rain outside with this love. If you are not willing to pay all this care and love, who should I rely on to give this extravagant warmth?

every time I hear this paragraph, I will cry.

Actually, I'm thinking that people are sometimes really powerful, so powerful that they can walk far and far on a difficult road with temporary warmth.

Children hope that when they are at home, their parents can give more love, and then turn this enough love into a hard shield to resist the cruelty and cruelty of the outside world.

I agree with this. From a certain point of view, family love can make people strong, because it can build a firm social support system and let children know that even if one day you leave, you will go to a distant place to study, work and work hard, no matter how badly your defense system is destroyed by life, just turn around and turn around, and your home will always be waiting for you.

So, love your child more, so that he can be strong enough to face the cold outside, and let him know that even if he loses everything, he still has a home, and the power of home is enough to make him fearless.

Fourth, there is no accusation or praise. Love really needs to be expressed, but it also needs to be discovered.

As a creator, Huang Weiwen hopes that all fathers in the world will listen to this song. He hopes that every father can express more love for his children by way of accusation.

As a listener, after understanding the background of this song, whatever we hear from it is our feeling.

gratitude, regret, miss and sadness are all the songs that bring us * * * and are the charm of music.

Therefore, no matter where we listen to this song, no matter who we think of when we listen to this song, we hope that this song can arouse our attention to love and expression.