Speech script of super speaker Liu Yuanyuan

1. "Ugly Girls Don't Make Mischief" Liu Yuanyuan

One day I asked my brother seriously, why do you think I am Can't get married? My brother looked at my face and answered me more seriously, "Don't you always know that you are ugly?" I said I don’t know. He said that many things in this world are related to appearance. For example, was Cinderella chosen by the prince because she was poor? That's because she's good-looking.

But is there no way to save being ugly? The first type of typical arrogant girl forwards wonderful quotes on Weibo every day. For example, I will make trouble unreasonably, nag, and shed tears. I will argue with you, just like Monroe, but if a man can't handle my worst side, he doesn't deserve my best side. My only purpose is to see if you can still care about me. Every time I see this kind of thing, I feel that it is so well said. This is how I feel. I must comment and forward it. If you meet such a girl, just dump her. The second type is the hypocritical tomboy. Nowadays, whenever a woman is rude, she thinks she is a tomboy. In fact, everyone really misunderstands that the three characters of tomboy represent tenderness, and han represents competence. , every time you remind them tactfully, the other party will bring out the domineering and leaky mode, squirt you, then call you hypocritical, and question you sadly, do you dare to be yourself? I would like to ask Can I not be myself? Can I be Tang Wei, Zhou Xun, and Fan Bingbing? Friends and family often tell you that you can't find a boyfriend because your standards are too high. Don't believe them. What they mean is that you are simply not worthy of the man you like. An ugly orange will work hard to become sweeter just because it is ugly. Are we still embarrassed not to work hard? The standard man you like will work hard to be sweeter because he is ugly. Are we still embarrassed not to work hard?

Finally, I would like to give you four words: Sometimes in life, you have to have it, and sometimes in life, you have to force it. If you want to find a partner, you are not afraid of being ugly. If you work hard, you will have a boyfriend.

2. "Facing an Unsuccessful Life" Liu Yuanyuan, Ma Weiwei

How to face an unsuccessful life, first of all, what is an unsuccessful life? I think I include all the people on the scene None of you can say that your life is an unsuccessful life, because your life is not over at all. As long as we are not dead, we just encountered failures in life. No one is allowed to say that our life is unsuccessful. Life.

Yuanyuan told us that as long as a person is not dead, success or failure cannot be judged. The popular chicken soup for the soul often tells us that as long as you persist and risk your life, you will definitely succeed. , and if you don’t succeed, everyone’s standards for success are different. As long as you are spiritually satisfied, it can be considered a success. I don’t know how capable you are of self-deception. Anyway, I always find that I am not the protagonist in this drama of life, but just a side character.

In this drama of life, I am a supporting role in your life, but I am the protagonist in my own life, so when I fail, when I am booed by the audience, I am the only one. One can and must also be able to sing. Yes, I am from Peking University, but when I was in high school, no one would have thought that I was a poor student. I was the kind of poor student who didn’t do any homework and ranked among the top 180 students in the class. One day, this poor student suddenly wanted to get into Peking University, and then he worked hard like a lunatic, but I still failed to pass the college entrance examination. Some people say you have failed, have I failed? It is so easy to admit failure. It is much easier than perseverance and patience day after day. But I am not convinced. Four years later, I took the postgraduate entrance examination and returned to Peking University. So a person will never try anything in his life, he will not do anything risky, and he will not work hard for anything. He will never fail, and he is not qualified to encounter failure. But you are different, you have dreamed, You have gone crazy, you have cried, laughed, struggled, you have loved, hated, and regretted. So, you are such an ordinary person among all living beings, but you have tried your best to live the best version of yourself, and you have also regretted it. Who has the right to say that your life is unsuccessful.

It is the instinct of every animal. But do you know, every friend here, that the pursuit of this almost slim success is what distinguishes us humans from other animals, because you are almost destined to fail, so every day you expect to succeed is full of something called Uneasy happiness. When you try your best and failure still comes, you will know that your life has never been wasted because it was wasted on ideals.

Every ideal is worth your whole life. Life is so short, so I choose to be that kind of fool who is blind and passionate. I will always be young and always have tears in my eyes. I will always believe in dreams and the meaning of hard work. , I believe that regret is more terrible than failure, because an unsuccessful life is only imperfect, but it is complete.

Tagore said, "Birds fly across the sky, but they leave no traces." But my friend, you know, you should know that you have flown in this sky.

3. "What Young People Can Do for the World" Liu Yuanyuan

I am a student in law school, and every professor of mine has taught it in his class In this sentence, they often say that this is what the law stipulates, but in real life,... Real life is a very magical life. In real life, honest people who respect the rules often remain unknown throughout their lives, while those who cheat will gain both fame and fortune. So for young people like me, seniors who seem to be very experienced often come over and pat you on the shoulder and tell you, young people, you still don’t understand. What I want to ask is what we young people can do for this world. What. One day, bank presidents will be post-90s, entrepreneurs will be post-90s, and even national presidents will be post-90s. But when the whole society is occupied by post-90s, I want to ask you, post-90s, what do you think? What society has become. I know that not everyone can be a person who stands on the cusp of the storm and controls their destiny. You and I are just ordinary people living a prosperous life. He is a small screw in this huge social machine. When I was studying, my parents told me every day, "Don't delay my studies no matter what you do." When I graduated, I sent my resume everywhere. He waited for a company to take him in, and was forced to get married during the holidays. When he got married, he had to spend the best 20 years of his youth to repay the loan, leaving every young person busy with survival without dreams, no time to care about politics, and no I have no time to care about the environment, but no time to care about the fate of the country. How can I have the energy to do anything for this society? But later I discovered that there is still one thing that you and I can do, and that is, our generation People, we must not become bad as we grow old, and we must not become the kind of adults you hated and loathed the most when you were young. It is very, very important for an ordinary person to be a good person in his or her position, because each of us is destined to change the world when we are born. I am a law student. If I am a fair and strict judge in the future, Then this society will become a little better because there is one more good judge. I hope everyone will remember that even if you are given a hundred thousand reasons to do evil, you must maintain your integrity and bottom line, just for one reason, and this reason is that you are not a beast, you are a human being. I hope that all of us who are born in the 1990s can become that kind of precious young people who will hate evil all their lives. Never despair of human nature.

So my dear post-90s generation, if someone tells you again that you should not look down upon young people and that you have to adapt to this society, then you should face them like a true warrior. You tell him that I am different from you. I am not here to adapt to society, I am here to change society.

4. "Please fall in love without the purpose of marriage" Liu Yuanyuan

It is said that everyone has had a crush on someone else. Do you still remember the person you had a crush on when you were seventeen or eighteen? Is she the kind Shen Jiayi who studies well and is pretty, or is she the cool Rukawa Kaede who loves to play basketball? When you think of her now, are you smiling or silent? Or do you feel that what you wanted back then was nothing more than this.

I found that the time when we are most willing to love someone is exactly when we have a secret love. I have been secretly in love with a boy since my sophomore year in college. Secret love is a thrilling thing. Every time I see him and him When we talk, it's like fighting, trying hard to talk and laugh. I'm afraid that he knows, I'm afraid that he doesn't know, I'm even more afraid that he knows, but he pretends not to know. Secret love is also a lonely thing. I feel that his name is only safe if it is placed in my mouth.

Do you think there is pure friendship between boys and girls? Yes, as long as one of them refuses to tell the truth, the other will pretend to be stupid until the end. From the beginning to the end, I played the role of his most loyal buddy. Every time he needed help, I was the first one to rush over. He said that I was the person who understood him best. How could I not understand? Already? No one knows him better than me. I know he likes girls who are petite and delicate. I started losing weight from a fat man weighing more than 120 pounds and lost more than ten pounds. He often praised me to others and said that I am that kind of girl. A good and sensible girl. Yes, because besides being sensible, I don’t know what I can do. I want to give him everything I have, but I have nothing. I want to give up everything for him, but I have nothing to give up.

What about you, do you still remember the feeling of liking someone so much that you can’t help it? One day when you fall in love with someone, you suddenly feel as if they have a weakness or an armor. Maybe after experiencing a few hurts and a few unforgettable love, they will become smarter, more rational, and more skillful. But I want to ask you, do you really not believe in love? Then why do you still cry when you watch "Titanic" or "Beijing Love Story"? Would you really rather be smart and sophisticated than impulsive? No matter you are new to the world or have already been scarred by love, you long for a love in your heart, which is sincere, specific and lasting. If a person is in love, because he loves others truly and deeply, and he is hurt, does he look stupid and pathetic? No, I think those people who have considered various conditions before getting married only to find that there is no memory of love at all when they get married, and love seems to have never happened, are pathetic, so I hope that we can still try to be with someone again. Like a seventeen-year-old girl, she doesn’t love someone for the purpose of getting married. I love him in my heart so much that I love him so much that he can’t hear me. I love him in my heart so much that I love him so much that he can’t see it.

But I loved him so much like a lonely goddess of war, embarrassed and brave. Until the day I die, I am willing to think back on this matter. I think it is valuable and valuable. It's wonderful, I won't regret it.

If someone tells me now that I love you for the purpose of getting married, or that I am in love with you for the purpose of getting married, he is too underestimated of me, he is too underestimated of my love. , because for a 23-year-old idealistic girl who is still unable to be down-to-earth, it is quite scary to remain unmarried for a lifetime, but what is even more terrifying is that some people stay in marriage their entire lives, but have never received love.

5. "If you don't do it, you won't live" Liu Yuanyuan

In 2013, one of the top ten Internet buzzwords.

No zuo, no die, have you all heard, if you don’t do something, you will not die, but what I want everyone to remember today is not this sentence, No zuo, no die, but No zuo, no die, no life,” What is "zuo"? "zuo" means tossing around uneasy about the status quo. I really like "zuo". I have been scolded by my brother countless times when I came to participate in the Super Speaker program. He said you are okay. Looking for things to mess around with, you are not studying acting, nor are you studying hosting. If a law student participates in a TV show, what use will it do to your future? Maybe I just love "making", I suddenly feel that every day A repetitive life is very boring, so here I am, I "write" by myself, and I can accept it by myself. Every time I write a manuscript, I have to stay up late until one or two o'clock, and every time I stand on the stage waiting for everyone to vote, I will clench my fists nervously, but I don’t regret it at all. I will always remember these moments. There is someone on this stage who can “act” better than me. You will see him in a moment, and he is me. Lin Yijie, the new idol, his mother's expectation for her is to go to college well and become a doctor, teacher, anything in the future, but he chose sports, a path that is extremely risky and has an extremely low success rate. , he likes to run for adventure. His legs have run across the North Pole, across the Antarctic, and across the world's largest tropical desert, the Sahara Desert. I sighed in my heart, this man's life is a life of "seeking" death. This death does not mean that if you fall down and lose a companion on the road of life, you will really die. But I am also feeling that his life is a particularly wonderful life. If he had taken the exam according to his parents' wishes, In college, he may succeed in the future, but in his current life, what he sees is not just success one after another, but miracles of life one after another. Dear friends, since we were young, we have been listening to other people’s voices to draw a grid for our lives. The line on the left is for academic success, and the line on the right is for having a stable and good job. The above This line is to get married before the age of thirty. The following line is that after you get married, you must have a child. It seems that only within this grid can you be safe and be considered happy by others. Once you want to jump out, In this grid, someone will say that you are "doing it". But I know that when everyone is young, they have the urge to "make a career". You should obviously take the entrance examination into a department of economics, law, or civil engineering. If you say you want to study acting or act in a movie, you You should obviously find a suitable person and get married now, but you are still waiting. You still say that you want true love. In fact, most young people have no idea what they want. You know what you want in the future. What kind of life do I want to live? Think about it. In fact, I don’t know. I don’t know what kind of life I want to live in the future, which city I want to go to, or what job I want to do. I just know what I don’t want, and I don’t want that kind of life. Follow the rules, live a stable and ordinary life, and don't want a life where you can see death at a glance. You may say, life, ordinary is the real thing, what are you "doing" blindly. Every time I hear a young man in his twenties or thirties say something like this, I don’t think he is wrong, I just think it is a pity. The world is so big and wonderful, and you haven’t seen anything yet. But I am willing to stay in a grid, follow the rules, and live a peaceful life. This kind of life does not have any risks and will not be laughed at by others. But I always feel that a person who has not tasted all the liquor is not very big. A person who understands the taste of clear water, a person who keeps to himself all his life, and does not dare to "do anything", has never had a wonderful and rich life. After all, no zuo, no die, no life!

6. "The Son of a Poor Family" Liu Yuanyuan

A few days ago, there was a senior HR who had worked in a bank for ten years. He posted a post on the Internet called "The Son of a Poor Family" "No matter how hard it is to have a noble son", it means that in our current society, it is more difficult for a child from a poor family to get ahead and succeed than it was for our parents. This post has caused a lot of discussion. Do you think this sentence makes sense? Let me talk about myself first. Our family comes from a poor family. Our family is not a poor family. We don’t have any family. Now I think about my father and my mother, such an ordinary rural couple, how they raised their three children, me and my two brothers, from the countryside to go to college and graduate school.

I have always felt that I am very lucky. Neither my father nor my mother have read much. My mother has not even been to the first grade of elementary school. She actually thinks that studying is very important. No matter how much hardship she endures, the three of us still have to endure it. When my children go to college, I will never compare myself with, for example, children from wealthy families, and say there are any differences or inequalities between us. But we must admit that there are some inequalities in this world. They have many advantages that we do not have, and they have many shortcuts that we do not have. But we can't complain. Everyone's life is different. Some people are born with golden keys, and some people are born without parents. There is no comparison between life and life. , how our life is depends entirely on our own feelings. If you complain all your life, then your life will be a life of complaining. If you feel moved all your life, then your life will be a life of being moved. You will be inspired to change this society all your life. , then your life is the life of a fighter. There is a British documentary called "Seven Years in the Life". In the film, 12 children from different walks of life were interviewed every seven years. Go back and re-visit these children, and by the end of the film you will find that the children of the rich are still rich, and the children of the poor are still poor, but there is a poor child named Nick who in the end became a University professor. It can be seen that there are fish that slip through the net in the palm of fate. Moreover, in real life, there are countless examples of children from poor families counterattacking. Therefore, when we encounter failure, we cannot blame all the reasons on our birth, let alone complain about why our parents are not as good as other people’s parents because their family background is not good. Good things do not cut off all possibilities for a person's success. When I encounter difficulties in life, I will walk on the streets of Beijing. At that time, I thought, Liu Yuanyuan, you are in this city. You really have no one to rely on. All you have is yourself. You have nothing. All you can do now is to carve a way out in this society single-handedly. This speech is already the last one. In fact, when I asked, I discovered that most of us were not born into wealthy families. We all have to rely on ourselves, so you have to believe that fate will give you a lower income than others. The starting point is to tell you, let you use your life to fight for a Jedi counterattack story. This story is about independence, about dreams, about courage, about tenacity. It is not a fairy tale that comes naturally, without any human suffering. This story is that if there is a will, things will come true. Even if the cauldron sinks the boat, a hundred and two Qin passes will eventually belong to Chu. This story is that if you work hard, God will not let you down. If you sleep on the salary and taste the courage, three thousand Yuejia can swallow Wu.