1. Most sophisticated people are good at adding subtle hints and double entendres to their words. Smart people don’t need to say too many words to make things clear to you. Regardless of whether the speaker is deliberately hiding something, the listener must understand his true intentions in order to respond appropriately. If your brain is unclear and your ears are not working properly, you will definitely be in trouble.
2. A promising person matures and grows up through continuous suffering. Thus becoming smarter and wiser. If you become sad, depressed, or even depressed because of a loss, you will only be hurt in the end. The secret recipe for diagnosing and treating this kind of injury is only four words: loss is a blessing!
3. A person There is absolutely a difference in loyalty and effect between being willing to follow you sincerely and being forced to do so. People in high positions are accustomed to using the power in their hands to subdue others. Don't you know that when people are driven by you, they always have different feelings in their hearts? There is such an uncomfortable feeling that one might "betray" if given the opportunity. Therefore, a master of controlling people specializes in touching the other person's flesh to make them willing to do things for him; he learns to smooth things over so that others will follow him without hesitation.
5. Remember, when giving benefits to others, you must give generously! Don’t give lightly, let alone give indiscriminately. But there is one exception, that is, when you want to win people's hearts or when the situation forces you, you should give generously. Don't be afraid of giving more, just be afraid of giving less; don't be afraid of giving quickly, but be afraid that you won't be able to give.
6. Selfish people want to eat all the cakes in the world and not let others take advantage of them. Therefore, people with narrow nature cannot achieve great things. The strongest ability of the strong is to tolerate those who are intolerable and prevent them from ruining their affairs at critical moments. In fact, if you give someone a little sweetness, your sweetness will not be taken away by others. Isn't this the benefit of tolerance?
7. Learn to refuse when it is time to refuse; stay away from people who have no conscience ; Even if it is a relationship of mutual use, if it is beneficial to you, trying to maintain the relationship may one day do you a big favor.
8. Whether a person does well in society depends on how many people can accept him or her.
9. There are two major taboos in mixed society: one is to underestimate the abilities of others, and the other is to overestimate one's position in the hearts of others.
10. When you start complaining about the environment, you have already put yourself at a disadvantage.
11. As long as someone steps on our head, it doesn’t matter whether he is a tiger or a lion. Even if we can’t beat him, we have to let him lose a piece of meat.
12. Women are so great now. Unknowingly, I have a big belly and a child without a father!
13. Under no circumstances can you play with others. If you play with others, you will be played by others. No matter how smart you are, you are not the most powerful one.
14. Spit is used to count money, not to reason.
15. Don’t read what you shouldn’t see, don’t say what you shouldn’t say, don’t listen to what you shouldn’t hear, and don’t think about what you shouldn’t think. Please concentrate on your soy sauce.
16. When you meet someone who is showing off, encourage them to show off, instead of talking nonsense.
17. You must give gifts when it’s time to give them, but don’t accept gifts from others casually. If you don’t have desires, be strong.
18. When others are toasting, don’t talk so much nonsense, just finish it in one go. People who are too eloquent in the wine shop can play with them, but do not do business;
19. Say more words of praise to others, and harmony will make you rich. When flowers are not used as shit.
20. Not everything can be taken seriously. Some things can be taken seriously, and some things cannot be taken seriously. Some things, if they don't violate principles, just laugh and let them pass.
The Reader's Opening Lines for the Fourth Issue
The Reader has received positive reviews from its launch to the present, and the theme of The Reader's Fourth Issue is gifts, so what are the opening lines for The Reader's Fourth Issue? < /p>
Reader's Opening Lines Issue 4
This word makes me think a lot,
When we look up at the stars and look at the vastness,
This The blue planet is the best gift from the universe to mankind;
When we lower our heads to think and focus,
One flower, one world, one leaf, one bodhi in nature is the most pleasant Gift;
Children are gifts from parents;
Rivers are gifts from the earth;
Eight thousand miles of clouds and moon are gifts from the beautiful country; < /p>
Five thousand years of splendid chapter is a gift of long history.
The fourth guest reading list of "The Reader"
1. Li Yapeng - "Back View"
His gift is his daughter Li Yan
"Back" is a retrospective essay written by the writer Zhu Ziqing in 1925. This prose describes the situation when Zhu Ziqing left Nanjing for Peking University. His father took him to Pukou Railway Station, took care of him on the train, and bought oranges for him. The most profound impression in his mind was the back of his father climbing up and down the platform while buying oranges for him.
"I saw him wearing a black cloth cap, a black cloth mandarin jacket, and a dark blue cloth cotton robe. He staggered to the side of the railway and slowly leaned down. It was not a disaster. But he crossed the railway. , it is not easy to climb up to the platform over there. He used both hands to hold on to it, and then retracted his feet; his fat body leaned slightly to the left, showing his effort. At this time, I saw his back. My tears flowed down quickly." Zhu Ziqing used simple words to express his father's love for his children in a profound, delicate and sincere way, showing his father's care and love from ordinary events.
For Li Yapeng, his daughter Li Yan is the best gift God has given him. He said that the best education is to teach by words and deeds. "Education really has methods, but if there is a lack of love, all methods are dogma." In more than ten years, his daughter Yan'er has shed the label of a child with cleft lip and palate. She has grown into a sunny and confident girl. During this process, Li Yapeng, as her father, accompanied her growth with love and education through words and deeds. This kind of education method is closely related to Li Yapeng's father's education. His father once gave him a saying: "People can't be arrogant but they can't be arrogant." In the program, Li Yapeng dedicated "Back View" to his father, Expressing my memory and gratitude to my father.
"Collection of Zhu Ziqing's Prose"
Zhu Ziqing's prose is elegant, meaningful, simple, rich, radical and profound. It has a distinct mark of the times and shows his unique artistic style and aesthetic taste. He inherited the excellent tradition of Chinese classical literature and created a prose system and style with Chinese national characteristics under the background of cultural exchanges between China and the West.
2. Hu Weiwei - "The Song of Bicycles"
Her gift is to light up the city with bicycles
"A wide street without scenery, except for Occasionally passing buses, Dongfeng or Jiefang trucks, and cars are very rare, and the busy traffic is mainly reflected on the two wheels of bicycles. Everyone knows that when you see the ocean of bicycles, you see China.” In the article, Su Tong described his fond memories of childhood and his nostalgia for the past years: Times are changing and advancing at a flying speed. Not only bicycles, many things will change, but they will all become classics. The past is especially precious.
Hu Weiwei is the founder of Mobike. It took her ten months from the idea to the first Mobike to appear in the city. Now, bicycles have become a unique scenery in Beijing. She said, "If a city is suitable for cycling, then the city's happiness index must be very high." By reading Suman's "The Song of Bicycles", Hu Weiwei affectionately explained her love for bicycles, which also awakened the Cycling episodes in our hearts.
"When We were Children: The Song of Bicycles"
This book tells the story of the author's southern childhood growing up on the streets of Suzhou.
Boats, flowing water, bridges in the north of the city, and crowds of people in twos and threes on the streets in summer are all filled with the watery atmosphere of the south, making people feel leisurely and indescribably desolate. The full text is delicate and realistic, showing true feelings.
3. Ni Ping - "Grandma's Quotations"
Her gift is the audience that accompanies her
Ni Ping said in the book: She was the one who pulled me when I was a child. , I was the one who pulled her when she grew up. In so many difficult moments, my grandma used her words to educate me; in many difficult questions, it was my grandma’s classic metaphors that made me suddenly understand.
Grandma said: "No matter what you can't figure out, just think about it backwards. If you don't like someone, you will get used to it." "You have to suffer when you are born, don't complain. Complaining is the same. "Bitterness is bitter even if you don't complain." "What is sweet? It is sweet to have no illness or disaster; it is sweet to have no arms or legs; it is sweet to be able to read a word even if you are illiterate."
Ni Ping was once. The Spring Festival Gala memories of a generation, her voice accompanied everyone through 13 days of bidding farewell to the old and welcoming the new. However, in 2004, Ni Ping's 4-month-old son was diagnosed with a rare disease. If not treated, his eyes would slowly become blind and he would even die. Ni Ping went to the United States to seek medical treatment for her son and quit the CCTV stage. In 20xx, Ni Ping returned to the CCTV stage. For Ni Ping, the audience waiting for her is a long-lost "gift". On the stage of "The Reader", Ni Ping read "Grandma's Quotations" written by herself to express her gratitude for the days spent with her 99-year-old grandma, and also dedicated these words to the TV audience who grew up with her.
4. Shan Jixiang - "The Greatest"
His gift is to protect the Forbidden City
The Forbidden City is a precious legacy left by history for future generations Gifts carry the vicissitudes of time and witness the changes of the years. Shan Jixiang, director of the Palace Museum in Beijing, spent five months wearing more than 20 pairs of rag shoes and visiting more than 9,000 rooms in the Forbidden City. He was constantly busy with the Forbidden City, China's gift to the world. He dedicated "The Greatest" to all those who love the culture of the Forbidden City.
This text comes from the documentary "Forbidden City 100", which tells the fate of one hundred buildings, presents the history, current situation and future of the Forbidden City, and constructs a holographic architectural image of the Forbidden City through one hundred spatial stories. The system uses a modern and diverse method to interpret the functions, images and aesthetic values ??of the Forbidden City architecture, and then promotes the universal significance of Chinese culture to the world, making the audience excited.
5. Zhao Ruirui - "Hold Your Right Hand"
Her gift is the days of hard work during the women's volleyball team
"I often see girls stretching their arms solemnly. Her hands seemed to be holding a transparent khata. The palmist said: Male left, female right. The girl put her left hand behind her back and pointed the palm of her right hand towards the blue sky."
We. Our right hand is powerful, and our destiny is in our hands.
Former women's volleyball player Zhao Ruirui was injured many times in her career. During the injury, she also complained about the unfairness of her fate, "I kept asking why, but I didn't have the answer...yet Well, I prefer reading. I feel that books give me a lot of strength." In Bi Shumin's "Hold Your Right Hand", she seems to have found the answer: "Fate is my cowardly shield, and it is most unfair when I cry out. When it rang, it was the prelude to my escape." She no longer lives by complaining, she learned to face life with gratitude. After retiring, she transformed into a professional writer. Four years ago, she won the Silver Award for Best Science Fiction Novel at the 4th Global Science Fiction Nebula Award for a science fiction work.
"Hold Your Right Hand"
I often wonder if there really is such a thing as destiny in the world. Is it material or spiritual? Could it be that our whole lives are determined by a spell early on? , no one can change it? Are our hands really laser discs, in which all the blessings and misfortunes are like miniature notes?
6. Students and friends of Professor Zhao Jiahe
—— "How can I thank you"
Their gift is to let more children see hope
"How can I thank you? When I walked towards you, I originally wanted to I harvested a ray of spring breeze, but you gave me the whole spring.
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In this poem, Wang Guozhen uses his full and deep feelings to contain the most beautiful scenery in the four seasons, and uses the rich images and sincere language in the four stanzas to express his sincere and touching gratitude.
Professor Zhao Jiahe spent his life savings to donate to poor children in the west, but he did not want to give his name. He only spoke in the name of "a retired Tsinghua professor" and his colleague Professor Chen Zhangwu *** The Xinghua Youth Student Aid Fund was established to support poor students. During his lifetime, Professor Zhao Jiahe was an extremely frugal person. After he was diagnosed with terminal illness, he refused to take imported drugs or live in a large hospital. He only wanted to live in a large hospital. In the Tsinghua University Hospital. At the end of his life, Professor Zhao Jiahe donated his body as a gift to his children and society. On the stage of reading, Professor Zhao Jiahe’s students and friends. He recited "How Can I Thank You" affectionately, expressing his deep respect and gratitude to Professor Zhao
"Love Life: Wang Guozhen's Classic Poems"
"Century. The poet "Wang Guozhen" is a miracle in China's contemporary poetry world. He has won three consecutive National Book "Golden Key" Awards and is known as the "Prince of Contemporary Poetry"! Wang Guozhen's poems are not only rich in philosophy of life, but also filled with emotion between the lines. With a youthful and romantic atmosphere. The third issue of classic sentences in real society
1. If you have seen through a phenomenon and still want to torture yourself, it is your ignorance and stubbornness. No more. People are divided into noble and inferior, and equality is only written in articles and slogans. If you advocate equality of personality, it can only be your wishful thinking and self-righteousness. You don't discriminate against others. If others don't discriminate against you, it's just a matter of time.
2. If a person is far away from you, he must be a friend when you are brilliant; if a person is far away from you, he must be a friend. Very close, when you are brilliant, you may be a villain.
3. Those who say good things about you are really good; those who help you behind the scenes are really helpful.
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4. Nothing is permanent in this world. Except for death, you can try to believe in everything, but you cannot believe in the word "forever"
5. Forever. Don't mess up your life. Don't mess up your life because of someone else's slander or a blow. The only person who will be hurt is you. If you are not truthful, you will regret it for the rest of your life; if you are not truthful, you will regret it for the rest of your life. This is a survival skill that no one will teach you.
6. Keep a line in everything when dealing with people, so that you can meet each other easily in the future. , breaking up is the most undesirable.
7. In fact, there are no definite good or bad people in this world. People who are good to you are good people, and people who are not good to you are bad people.
8. Just mind your own business. Do what others are happy with. If it doesn’t threaten your interests, don’t talk too much.
9. It’s bullshit that everyone is equal. Only when you are strong will no one dare to bully you.
10. No matter what you do, no matter where you stand, remember that strength is always greater than anything else.
11. When you go out, it’s not about how big your temper is, but how strong your ability is.
12. If you do what others don’t want to do, it means you are a handyman; if you do what others can’t do, it means you are awesome.
13. Money is not everything, but it will make the other person better than you in appearance, temperament, dress, mind, connections, and spending power.
14. When you give someone a favor, they owe you a favor, and they must repay it, because this is human nature. Doing favors is like depositing money in a bank. The more you save and the longer you save it, the more dividends you will get.
15. People can be roughly divided into four types. Scum, crowd, talent, outstanding people. A scumbag is the kind of person who brings harm to society and brings negative points to society. People are the broadest group of people in society. They live hard, work hard, have a stable job and family, and live an ordinary life. They are the broadest foundation of society. Talents are industry leaders or pioneering talents, including what we call intellectuals, experts and scholars, or the middle and high-income classes. Their numbers are relatively small, but they have made outstanding contributions to the development of society and are the backbone and mainstay of society.
Outstanding people are the leaders of society. They are very few in number. They are mainly top politicians and scientists with global influence. They are very rare but can influence the direction of society and the world. They are the cutting-edge key core figures of society.
16. Technical, academic, and professional talents mostly come from ordinary families, because they can persevere through hard work and seriousness. . Most leadership talents come from political families, because the way of governing people is learned from their families. Except for geniuses, artistic talents generally come from wealthy families who have money and time to study without any scruples.
17. The biggest taboo in a mixed society is that you can’t let go of face, and you are embarrassed to do anything. If you are embarrassed, not only will you not be able to grab resources, but even the few resources you have will be exhausted.
18. When you give someone a favor, they owe you a favor, and they must repay it, because this is human nature. Doing favors is like depositing money in a bank. The more you save and the longer you save it, the more dividends you will get.
19. When asking for help, praise the other person's ability and authority. If he can't help you with things, his self-esteem will be unbearable and his face will be tarnished. As long as you praise appropriately and satisfy the other person's self-esteem, nothing is impossible.
20. Most sophisticated people are good at making subtle puns in their words. Smart people can make you understand clearly without having to speak too much. Regardless of whether the speaker is deliberately hiding a secret, the listener must understand his true intention in order to respond appropriately. If your brain is unclear and your ears are not working properly, you will definitely be in trouble. 59 classic social quotations_classic sentences from real society_classic sentences from surreal society
1 People whose hearts are filled with their own opinions and ideas will never hear the voices of others.
2 Some people have never had the opportunity to meet them. When they had the opportunity to meet them, they hesitated. It would be better not to meet them than not to meet them.
There are some things that I have never had the chance to do, but when I get the chance, I don’t want to do them again.
There are some words that have been buried in my heart for a long time without a chance to say them. When I had the chance to say them, I couldn't say them out.
Some loves have never had the chance to love, and when they have the chance, they no longer love them.
Life is sometimes ironic. Some things change forever once you turn around.
3 Don’t be too sure of your own opinions, this way you will have less regrets.
4. Don’t do things rashly. Acting rashly will only harm yourself.
5 If I know more truth than others, it is because I make more mistakes than others.
6 Make good use of the Chinese psychology of "three points of love when meeting". If you respect the other person, the other person will also respect you.
7 Time is like a net, wherever you cast it, your harvest will be there.
8 If I find that my wife is wrong, it must be me who is wrong; if I am not wrong, I must be the one who caused my wife to make a mistake; if my wife does not admit her mistake, she is not wrong!
9 Laughter is the shortest distance between people.
10. Live easy and make the best plan and the worst plan for everything.
11 If you fall, you must get up. If you don’t get up, others will look down on you, and you will also lose opportunities.
12 The market controls my mood, the K-line controls my heartbeat, and profit and loss determines my life.
13 The elegance of life is not a result of training or dressing up, but the calmness after hundreds of experiences, the wisdom after suffering vicissitudes, and the indifference after countless ups and downs.
It is to take worldly things lightly, life is full of ravages, learn to be willing and let go, and only when you pack lightly can you move quickly;
It is to take interpersonal relationships lightly, with less strife and fighting, and the greatest There is nothing more precious than cherishing the fleeting time; it is to take gains and losses lightly, and favors and disgrace come and go carelessly, so that the heart is peaceful and elegance follows.
14 The most beautiful scenery is the most urgent thing to leave, and the most true feelings are the most painful thing to hurt.
15 Facing the sea, spring flowers are blooming. It is a state, a state that a poet interprets with his own life. Don't discard it easily.
16 Don’t live in other people’s mouths, don’t live in other people’s eyes, but hold your destiny in your own hands.
17 Eat less and eat well.
18 Not being able to tell the truth is a personal shame, and being unable to tell the truth is a shame to the times.
19 Slowly I realized that many things can only be owned once; Slowly I realized that two people who are together every day may not be friends, and may be nothing; Slowly I realized that a mobile phone is Others come to you when they have something to do, not to exchange feelings; slowly you realize that happiness often comes from memories, and pain often comes from the gap between memories and reality.
20 A person’s life is fragile, but the life of a group is strong.
The greatness and perseverance of life lies in the connection between hearts and the holding of hands.
No matter how big the disaster is, no matter how big the difficulty is, we will work hard to overcome it together!
21 To love someone is to give your heart and hammer to the other person at the same time. From then on, he has the right and ability to break your heart.
22. When you point your finger at others, please don't forget that your three fingers are pointing at yourself.
23 It is shameful for people to cover up their own shortcomings by hurting others.
24 Just touch the hair and he will listen to you. No matter how big your temper, no matter how deep your city is, no matter how strong your personality is, you can’t stand this trick.
25 Be a tortoise, not a rabbit. People with rabbit qualifications are prone to pride, and pride will become a stumbling block on the road to success.
26 Don’t turn over the past page again, the dust will make your eyes blurred.
27 Don’t fall in love with each other. If you love too much, your love will be devalued.
28 When you are honest with yourself, no one in the world can deceive you.
29 A side effect of success is that the past practices are also suitable for the future.
30 If you tell a lie, you have to make up ten lies to make up for it. Why bother?
31 Over the years, I have been learning one thing, which is not to look back, only to regret the things I have not done, and not to regret the things I have done. Every step in life has a price to pay. I got some things I wanted and lost some things I didn't want to lose. But among all the living beings in this world, who is not like this?
32. When you are honest with yourself, no one in the world can deceive you.
33 The most contradictory thing between lovers is that they fantasize about each other's future while thinking about each other's past.
34 When men look at women, they are most beautiful when in love, most ordinary after marriage, ugliest when divorced, and become beautiful again after divorce;
Women look at men, most sincerely when in love, and when married He was most boring in the end, most hypocritical during the divorce, and became sincere after the divorce.
35 Try not to gossip about colleagues and friends.
36 All love must be married to reality, because life and days are real, and no matter how sweet the air and love words are, they are not as important as a steamed bun in reality.
When facing a real life, getting married is a sign of identifying lies and determination.
If a man truly loves a woman, he will definitely be able to marry her.
On the contrary, only if you don’t love or don’t love deeply enough, you will find thousands of reasons to shirk.
37 The heart is a bag. To hold less is called the heart, to hold more is called the eye, to hold more is called the scheming, and to hold more is called the scheming.
38 No matter the ups and downs outside, the stormy waves, no matter the vicissitudes of the world, give life a trace of calmness, give life a truth, give yourself a gratitude, and give others a tolerance. We just want to live lightly. Everything is calm and calm, giving us the most real life.
39 Behind the scenery is either vicissitudes of life or filth.
40 You can have love, but don't be persistent, because separation is inevitable.
41 When we remove the stumbling blocks placed by others, we may be paving the way for ourselves.
42 Marriage is like eating. What you order must be what you like, but when the food is on the table, you still can't help but look at other people's plates first.
43 Don’t let too many pasts occupy your present. The past is the past, and recalling it is just the past.
44 Those who dare not get angry are cowards, and those who do not get angry are wise.
45 Don’t lie, because one day you will be exposed.
46 Never give a friend who has betrayed you a chance to betray him a second time.
47 If God gives me another chance to be born again, I must choose to be born in the Tang Dynasty, so that I don’t have to learn English or lose weight.
48 The bitterness and sweetness of coffee does not depend on how you stir it, but whether you add sugar; the pain of a period of time does not depend on how you forget it, but on whether you have the courage to start over.
49. Become an expert in your field as soon as possible. If you work hard, you will succeed.
50 You must always thank the sentient beings who gave you adversity.
51 Life can be arrogant, frustrating, joyful, painful, ridiculous, and tearful, but it cannot be ordinary, dull, or boring.
52 No one is so rich that he does not need help from others, and no one is so poor that he cannot help others in some way.
53 The eyes of the masses are sharp. Just smile knowingly when you hear or see this sentence. Believe the masses, that is Ge You’s advertising slogan to make money.
54. Secretly regard yourself as a boss or supervisor and gradually develop your ability to be a boss or supervisor.
55 Be careful when speaking, be independent, and learn to compromise while also adhering to your most basic principles.
56 The beauty of life comes from your love for life, and the innocence of friendship comes from your sincere treatment of your friends.
57 Love your parents, because they gave you life, and they are also the most selfless people who love you.
58 Do a good job that is neither busy nor idle, and live a wonderful life that is neither salty nor dull.
59 There are many ways to destroy friendship, and the most radical one is to borrow money.