ballroom dancing is a kind of visual expression of the artistic beauty of dance, which is performed by the physical contact between men and women accompanied by beautiful music. Her greatest feature is the intimate physical contact with the opposite sex at close range, which has aroused people's attention and heated discussion. Let's talk about the different feelings of men and women with various mentalities in the physical contact with the opposite sex. We divide dancers with different feelings into three categories for analysis.
The first kind of people are novices in ballroom dancing. Let's talk about men first. Men play an important role as the leader and leader of ballroom dancing. From the beginning of inviting a partner, the steps and patterns that run between dances are all displayed by men through the strength of their hands and physical contact. It is precisely because of this initiative that men with various mentalities in dancing are more likely to have different feelings.
This novice dancer is full of novelty, mystery and excitement. In their life, they rarely have the opportunity to get in close contact with the opposite sex hand in hand, smell the breath of the opposite sex body and hold soft and warm hands. Only he can experience the excitement, excitement and tension. Generally, at this stage, a novice can't take care of other ideas when dancing, because his attention is mainly focused on the movement of his feet, for fear of stepping on the other's feet in the wrong step. In addition, he has to listen attentively to the rhythm of the dance music for fear of stepping on the wrong remake dance point. At this time, there are often mistakes when gesturing for tricks. Because of these mistakes, some parts of the body may collide and touch each other. When such mistakes occur, novices will have a sense of remorse and fear that the other party will misunderstand their ideas, which can be understood when the other party knows that you are a novice.
so what are the attitudes and feelings of novice ladies dancers? Compared with men, women have different views on physical contact with the opposite sex. This is determined by the psychological and physiological characteristics of women. Women like to express their kindness and intimacy with physical contact, just as children like to snuggle up to adults and play coquetry, which is a kind of animal instinct. The shyness and introversion peculiar to ordinary ladies make her passive in the novice stage of dancing. In addition to having the same feeling as a male novice, most of them have a secret feeling about ballroom dancing at this time, and they are open to men who invite them to dance. They are ignorant of the technical level of ballroom dancing, and they are at the mercy of each other's limbs, and they don't think about the purpose of men with ulterior motives. This mentality and feeling of men and women at this stage will gradually disappear with the passage of time and the improvement of dance skills.
The second kind of people are the mentality and feelings that occupy most people in ballroom dancing. This kind of people is characterized by being familiar with all kinds of rules, habits and characteristics in local dancing. After mastering all kinds of dance techniques, most people treat the physical contact of the opposite sex with a normal attitude. There are different attitudes towards the purpose of ballroom dancing. Some middle-aged and elderly people aim at keeping fit and strengthening their bodies, some like to enjoy this kind of entertainment through physical contact with the appreciating opposite sex in beautiful music, some are complacent with their superb dancing skills, and their hearts are filled with a sense of showing themselves. Some want to get rid of loneliness and make friends in the dance floor and enjoy the joy of communication. People in these mentalities generally have no other thoughts in physical contact with the opposite sex. Because most of the dance music at a dance is a fast-paced opening and closing movement, when you dance these dances, your attention is focused on the dance mood and you won't have other thoughts. Of course, for those who are lovers, in the slow four-step romantic dance music, the two sides are in close contact with each other and embrace each other to find that feeling. At this stage, the female dancers' mentality of physical contact between the sexes has changed, and they have begun to ask out men to dance with her. They will refuse those who are unattractive, short, chubby and not good at dancing. They are fond of handsome, tall and handsome men with superb dancing skills, and it is a pleasure for them to have physical contact with these men and dance. It's like having that kind of innocent girl, climbing the dragon and attaching the phoenix.
The third kind of people are a few people who have bad ideas about ballroom dancing. Although the number of such people is small, it has a great influence, so people have a lot of criticisms about this kind of heterosexual physical contact dance. Let's make a concrete analysis: some people use their superb dancing skills to satisfy the psychology of some vanity ladies, and get it by touching the sensitive parts of the other party when dancing. At this time, the female companion is also well aware, so she pretends not to know and enjoys the pleasure from it. There are also some men who take advantage of the dim light of the four-step slow jump to hug the woman's lower back directly with their hands and rub their lower body with the rhythm of music to find a stimulating feeling. Some women also threw their arms at Li to cooperate with the men's movements. There are also some men who are looking for ladies who are novice dancers. Under the pretext of teaching each other to dance, they repeatedly do some large-scale movements, which are easy to touch each other's sensitive body parts and seek excitement from them, because at this time, women are the least alert, the easiest to be pushed around, and men are the easiest to make themselves succeed.
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