Maybe it has something to do with his original family, or maybe he has his own "purpose". 01. Maybe it has something to do with the original family.

I haven’t seen the name Zhang Xiaohui for a long time, and probably no one knows her now. This person used to be the daughter of a wealthy family. She grew up with a silver spoon in her mouth. She was also extremely beautiful and was the goddess of many men at the time.

Later married Zhong Zhentao and had a son and a daughter. The son was named Zhong Jiajun. This question is also about Zhong Jiajun. Zhong Jiajun looks gloomy and says that life is very painful. If we look at it solely from the perspective of Freudian psychology, then Zhong Jiajun’s problem must be related to his family of origin.

When Zhang Xiaohui married Zhong Zhentao, she was not favored by many people because they were not in the right family and had different concepts. Although Zhong Zhentao is the lead singer of the Wenner band and has a very prosperous career, his family background seems to be less interesting than Zhang Xiaohui's. Therefore, many people at that time believed that Zhang Xiaohui married Zhong Zhentao for love regardless of her own safety.

However, the marriage of these two people did not live happily together forever like the ending of the fairy tale. After the two got married, they discovered that there were actually many differences between them. Zhang Xiaohui was used to spending money lavishly, while Zhong Zhentao was more economical. ?

And Zhong Zhentao actually didn’t earn much at the time. Later Zhong Zhentao lost a lot of money because of some things. It was at this time that Zhang Xiaohui fell in love with someone else, who happened to be a rich man. In my eyes, Zhang Xiaohui basically left Zhong Zhentao for money.

After the two divorced, their son went to Zhang Xiaohui and their daughter to Zhong Zhentao. Zhang Xiaohui took Zhong Jiajun to marry which rich man. For Zhong Jiajun, the divorce of his parents must have been a heavy blow to him. If Zhong Zhentao and Zhang Xiaohui did not properly handle their relationship with their children, it is very likely that the children would lack a father. Love or maternal love, so that children cannot experience the happiness of family.

Zhong Jiajun feels that life is very painful, and even has a somewhat depressed personality. It may be caused by the breakdown of his original family. Of course, this is only analyzed from Freud's theory of causes. 02. Maybe he has a purpose.

If you understand psychology, you should know that there are three giants in psychology, namely Freud, Jung, and Adler. The first two are relatively well-known now, and Adler Fewer people know.

Adler was a giant in individual psychology. He was originally loyal to the Freudian school, but later found that Freud’s ideas did not solve his own problems, so he stood up against it. Freud and established his own school of psychology.

Let’s get back to the point. If we analyze it from the perspective of Adlerian psychology, then Zhong Jiajun must have his own purpose when he says that life is painful.

I don’t know this purpose, because I don’t know much about him, and from a teleological point of view, the words he said and his depression are all due to him. His own purpose, even he himself did not realize that his emotions and words had a purpose.

Let’s give an example. For example, what Zhong Jiajun said and his emotions may be to get more attention, such as the attention of his parents. Of course, this is just my personal guess. He himself or people who know him may know what the purpose is.

As for appearance, it should be related to diet. Zhong Zhentao and Zhang Xiaohui were both good-looking men and women back then, but Zhong Jiajun was indeed fatter and did not have the youthful demeanor of the two at all, but it should be because they ate too much. He is actually the same when he is fat, maybe he will look handsome even if he loses weight.