At the kindergarten graduation ceremony, the same parents walked the red carpet with their children. Netizens: There is no harm without comparison

Nowadays, with the development of society, people’s lives are getting better and better. , many families only have one or two children, and the children have become the treasures of the family. In the past, life was poor, so many parents hoped that their children would no longer endure hardship, and wished to satisfy their children with all the good things. In fact, this may seem like doting on their children, but it is more like doting. If a child is "spoiled" and attaches great importance to material things and despises spirituality, he will easily develop a comparison mentality, which will harm the child.

This phenomenon often happens. No, at the graduation ceremony of a kindergarten, the same mother walked the red carpet with her baby, but there were two contrasts. Even netizens just wanted to say "No" after watching it. Comparison does no harm." This kindergarten originally wanted the children to walk on the red carpet to improve their self-confidence, but unexpectedly it changed. The graduation ceremony turned into a show of comparison with their families. Some mothers dressed up very richly and wore various famous brands. The way he walks is obviously to show off his wealth. Mothers from poor families dress much more plainly, making them inconspicuous among the crowd.

This video was uploaded to the Internet by netizens. Netizens expressed: Is it really good to let children feel the gap between rich and poor at such a young age? The behavior of this kindergarten was too much. It was obviously a graduation show, but it turned into a show of wealth. However, some people think that others think too much. They think that parents want the best for their children. This idea is not wrong, but the approach is wrong. So in the face of these controversies, how should parents better cultivate their children?

1. Cultivate children’s sense of responsibility

Generally speaking, when some children who grow up in a doting environment make mistakes, their parents turn a blind eye and say nothing. This matter will be over once the child has just one meal. However, this is not love for the child, but will harm the child. Over time, the child will easily shirk his responsibilities and develop the bad habit of lying.

2. Teach children to be independent

Today’s children are becoming more and more squeamish. They don’t like to do their own things, and even some small things have to be done by their parents, such as leaving toys alone after playing with them. In the eyes of these children, parents are more like tools. Therefore, parents should let their children develop the habit of doing things by themselves and not expect parents to help them with anything.

3. Encourage and support children

Many children are young and have no experience in doing things. Sometimes when they want to help with housework or other things, they will inevitably make mistakes. At this time, parents Don't laugh at your children, as this will make them doubt that they can do anything well.

In fact, no matter what the family conditions are, children are the most beloved treasures of parents. However, children should not only be satisfied with their material needs, but also need to educate them well. The children raised in this way will be good no matter where they are. You can become a great person anywhere.