The wealthy marriage of Huang Shengyi and Yang Zi has always been controversial and not favored. However, after so many years, the couple is still as loving as ever, slapping many onlookers in the face.
The reason is their family.
The mother-in-law is not offside, the husband is not absent, and the daughter-in-law is not offside.
Huang Shengyi has been labeled with controversy since his debut, from the termination of his contract with Stephen Chow to the emotional entanglement with Yang Zi.
Every point is enough for people to judge her. She can be regarded as superior to the rich Yang Zi, but for Huang Shengyi himself.
Perhaps the luckiest thing is not to marry into a wealthy family, but to meet a "fairy mother-in-law."
Huang Shengyi's mother-in-law is called Liu Liqin, which can be referred to as "a humble lady" Describe her life.
Why do you say this? Because when Liu Liqin was young, life in the Yang family was not easy.
Huang Shengyi once talked about Liu Liqin’s past on the show. She said this:
“It was not easy for my mother when she was young. She did so much for us and established such a good reputation. She has a good foundation, so we must be filial to her."
How difficult was it for Liu Liqin in the past?
When Liu Liqin married Yang Zi's father, she was given a sewing machine as a dowry. In that era, it was quite good to be given a sewing machine as a dowry.
Liu Liqin said bluntly: "It's like a dowry to make a living."
There are five brothers and sisters in Yang Zi's family, and the burden of life falls on her thin shoulders.
In order to make ends meet, Liu Liqin worked with a sewing machine to make money. With her alone, she supported a whole life and a family.
Yang Zi’s brothers and sisters are very sensible. When they come home from school, they will help their mother with housework, cook pig food and feed the pigs. The family talks and laughs.
Although life is very poor, it is also very warm.
Liu Liqin recalled: "There was no time to sleep, so I took a nap. This machine was made of iron. If I took a nap like this, I would end up dozing off."
At that time, Liu Liqin was still wondering: "What happened? Why is there so much sweat?”
When I touched it with my hand, it was blood.
After her head was smashed, blood flowed uncontrollably, but Liu Liqin didn't take it to heart and grabbed a handful of ashes from the bottom of the kitchen pot.
She smeared the pot ashes on her forehead, then found a rag to wrap her forehead, and continued to sit at the sewing machine and work.
In this way, Liu Liqin raised five children with a sewing machine, and also obtained the first start-up capital of the Yang family business, Juli Group.
Liu Liqin is bold and careful, knowing that using a sewing machine is not a long-term solution. If she wants to make a fortune, she still has to embark on the road of business.
So, she decisively took her two thousand yuan savings and started her business.
Under the leadership of Liu Liqin, Yang Zi and several brothers entered the company to discuss business and run business, and made great contributions to the company.
With the efforts of the family, the company grew from small to large and gradually became a leading enterprise.
As Liu Liqin got older, she handed over the company to her children to take care of her. She retired and returned to her hometown, living a comfortable retirement life.
Yang Zi had a marriage. His ex-wife Tao Hong was a Shanghai girl who graduated from Fudan University. She was rational, independent and beautiful.
She relies on her talents to build a career.
After meeting Yang Zi, Tao Hong entered the Yang family business and quickly established a foothold.
Tao Hong is a typical professional woman with outstanding work ability and can be called a powerful figure in the business world. Her ability also deeply attracted Yang Zi.
After the two got together, with this good helper, Yang Zi's burden became much lighter.
However, although such a woman is very independent, she may not necessarily be welcomed in a traditional wealthy family.
As a traditional generation, Liu Liqin, as a mother-in-law, may hope that her daughter-in-law can become the woman behind her son.
I hope that she can go shopping, get beauty treatments, enjoy a good life like other wealthy ladies, and enjoy a good life with peace of mind to care for her husband and raise children.
But obviously Tao Hong is not such a woman.
She had her own independent ideas. After giving birth to her daughter, she did not return to the family and chose to continue working hard in the business world.
She manages both her family and career. With her smart mind and super ability, she has gradually become a influential figure in the company.
Looking at the strong and capable Tao Hong, Yang Zi felt that she was becoming more and more like him. What he needed was not a smart and capable wife.
But it is a woman who is in love with him and can worship him in life, coupled with the invisible conflict between Tao Hong and Liu Liqin.
Tao Hong and Yang Zi's marriage had problems, and they drifted apart. Eventually, they separated rationally, and Tao Hong took her daughter abroad.
However, after the divorce, Tao Hong remained very calm. Under her cultivation, her daughter became versatile and won many awards at music festivals.
Later he was admitted to Harvard University.
Tao Hong’s daughter has the same personality as her, she is very independent. She believes that this ability is the most precious thing.
After Yang Zi and Tao Hong divorced, they met Huang Shengyi at a party. At this time, Huang Shengyi was still having conflicts with the company.
She did not follow the route planned for her by the company and took large-scale photos, so she faced a series of legal issues.
The appearance of Yang Zi at this time was undoubtedly a life-saving straw.
Later, the two filmed "The Fairy Match" together, in which Yang Zi played "Dong Yong" and Huang Shengyi played his wife "Seven Fairies."
Inside and outside the show, the two came together.
However, after Huang Shengyi and Yang Zi came together, they suffered a lot of grievances, and were even regarded as the third party between Yang Zi and Tao Hong.
Many netizens believe that it was Huang Shengyi’s intervention that led to the breakdown of Yang Zi and Tao Hong’s marriage, and they faced criticism and abuse from the outside world.
Huang Shengyi has always endured the humiliation and remained silent.
Until 2015, Huang Shengyi appeared at the funeral of Yang Zi’s father with a three or four-year-old boy dressed in mourning.
The relationship between Huang Shengyi and Yang Zi came to the surface.
This time Yang Zi no longer concealed their relationship, openly admitted that they got married eight years ago, and praised Huang Shengyi for being generous and forbearing.
Said that he owed her a wedding.
After being "hidden" for eight years before being made public, I have to say that Huang Shengyi's ability to withstand is really admirable. Of course, she has also been recognized by Liu Liqin.
Liu Liqin believes that Huang Shengyi is sensible and understands the general situation.
After Huang Shengyi gave birth to two sons, she placed her eldest son in front of Liu Liqin to raise him.
Later, when Huang Shengyi wanted to take Andy back to her, she did not act too tough, but emphasized it to her son.
Remember grandma’s goodness and know how to be grateful.
When her mother-in-law proposed living with her son and daughter-in-law, Huang Shengyi immediately said that this was what children should do.
When eating, Huang Shengyi would take the initiative to pick up vegetables for her mother-in-law and help her pick fish bones, in order to take care of her mother-in-law's taste.
Huang Shengyi specializes in making some soft and glutinous food.
When her mother-in-law went to take a bath, Huang Shengyi considered that it was inconvenient for her because of her age and was afraid that she would fall, so he volunteered to help her.
Liu Liqin felt embarrassed and disagreed.
Huang Shengyi persuaded her, "Mom, it's okay. What are you afraid of me? Just pretend I'm not here."
After that, he helped her take a bath.
Yang Zi, who was waiting outside, felt happy when he saw that his mother and his wife were getting along so well.
He happily said to Liu Liqin: "Mom, it's really rare for Shengyi to do this.
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Liu Liqin was very grateful. She looked at Huang Shengyi with a smile and said, "There are several daughters-in-law who bathe their mother-in-law, which is worthy of praise. ”
Seeing that her efforts were seen by her mother-in-law and husband, Huang Shengyi was praised so much that she didn’t know how to answer the question, and tears welled up in the corners of her eyes.
Huang Shengyi even bought it specially for her mother-in-law. She bought a lot of clothes, and in order to look festive, she chose brighter colors.
But Liu Liqin liked it very much. She wore the clothes bought by her daughter-in-law and went out happily. When she met someone, she recognized him. Her queen.
Liu Liqin boasted that her daughter-in-law Huang Shengyi bought it for her, and her tone was very proud and happy.
Huang Shengyi is sensible, tolerant, and has a carefree personality. She is not pretentious, arrogant or picky like someone from a well-known family.
She is natural and generous in doing things without showing off.
Therefore, Huang Shengyi became the perfect daughter-in-law in the eyes of her mother-in-law. .
Liu Liqin praised Huang Shengyi greatly in front of Yang Zi. Even if the Yang family felt that Huang Shengyi was not good enough, she said that Huang Shengyi was the best.
Liu Liqin also treats Huang Shengyi as her own daughter. Sometimes even her own son Yang Zi is jealous of her.
Usually when Yang Zi comes home, Liu Liqin first asks: "Sheng." Has Yi come back? If you haven’t come back, then you can leave. "
If Huang Shengyi came home first, Liu Liqin would greet her warmly, hug her intimately and say, "My daughter-in-law, my eldest daughter, I miss you so much." "
When Yang Zi "tricks" the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Liu Liqin did not fall for the trick and said to Yang Zi: "Shengyi is the most filial person. Don't say bad things about her." "
When Huang Shengyi was cooking, Liu Liqin always told her when eating: "Shengyi, you have worked hard, eat more." ”
When Huang Shengyi and Yang Zi occasionally quarreled and bickered, Liu Liqin never interfered and let the young couple resolve their conflicts themselves.
When the young couple showed affection, Liu Liqin not only did not feel I'm sorry, but I still teach my son to take the initiative to cooperate with Huang Shengyi.
When rehearsing "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves", Huang Shengyi got up at 7 or 8 in the morning, and often had to dance until 3 in the morning.
Liu Liqin saw it and felt pain in her heart.
She said tactfully: "I heard that people who film TV are prone to health problems. I hope you and Yang Zi are healthy. ”
Liu Liqin suggested that Huang Shengyi should go back to her hometown of Xushui and arrange a job for her.
Although it was just a simple word of concern, Huang Shengyi must have said ten thousand things in his heart. Thank you very much.
A good mother-in-law and daughter-in-law means a good family tradition.
Therefore, harmony between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has become an indicator of the happiness of a family, and being a mother-in-law is "good" enough. time.
Men become a “match. ”
Of course, as a daughter-in-law, you must also give your mother-in-law enough respect and filial piety. Each member must not be offside, let alone absent, and everyone must return to their place.
In this way Everyone is happy with their talents.
Tao Hong and Huang Shengyi have taken different paths in life. One is independent and speaks on her own strength.
The other endures humiliation and obeys her husband's words and becomes the daughter-in-law of a wealthy family.
Different personalities have different life directions
But for Huang Shengyi, he has taken care of his mother-in-law, set an example for his children, and gained the favor of his husband, so why not. Not for it.
Love needs to go in both directions, and the same goes for family ties.