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What is the most hurtful moment in feelings?
Maybe you suddenly found out that you are the only one who is taking this relationship seriously.
He plays an important role in your planned future, but he is planning how to leave you.
in all the scenery where things have changed, he has nothing to do with you anymore.
many people have experienced such unforgettable feelings, which once got you into deep trouble. Just like you love someone very much, knowing that there is an abyss waiting for you in front, you still choose to go ahead.
Just like a comment under the song Lesions:
I won't delete your friends, cancel my attention or delete your phone. All I have to do is to be lukewarm, lukewarm and lukewarm. I just want you to look at everything about me. All my movements have nothing to do with you, and I am not noisy or haunted by you.
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At one time, I thought that there were two kinds of scenes of breaking up, either waving and laughing and saying good-bye or making a scene with red eyes.
I learned later that there is a kind of parting, which is called silence.
There was no warning at all, and I didn't even have time to say goodbye and never saw it again.
someone said to me, "I obviously watched a movie together the day before we broke up, and I thought it would be him in my life. As a result, the next day he sent a message saying that he would not contact again.
Is the person who promised me my whole life really the same person as the person who coldly said not to contact again? "
The promise of "all my life" must be sincere at that moment, but it's a pity that the speaker is too casual and the listener is too serious.
the words "don't contact again" doomed the end of this relationship when they were spoken, but unfortunately, the speaker had left without a scratch, while the listener was getting deeper and deeper and unable to extricate himself.
He's gone, and you're still here. Seeing something related to him always hurts like a needle. I subconsciously want to find him, only to find that there is no one behind you.
The most terrible thing about feelings is this. From beginning to end, you are the only one who is serious.
Maybe you saw the dodge in his eyes from the beginning, but you couldn't help but be moved;
You are waiting for an answer, but little did you know that his silence was already the answer.
3
I like a passage very much:
"I'm just a little girl. I don't know anything about deep feelings. I just want to be happy.
I don't want your money, your house or your car. I just need to go out to see a movie and catch a doll, so I can be happy all day. I don't know what's the point. You just need to make me happy.
When I grow up, you can't afford what I want. "
No one will grow up in plain sailing, and every mature and independent woman has tasted the taste of an arrow piercing the heart.
It's never an instant to give up, but countless phone calls that can't be reached, messages that can't be answered, an unmoved heart and 1, disappointments.
But, you have to understand that you like each other, not others. Since you are tempted to take the initiative, even if you suffer a great injustice, it is what you expected, and you can't blame others. You are not a child. If you are unhappy, you will not die. As a result, you can only bear it yourself. No matter how sad you are, you can only endure it yourself.
you have the ability to like others, but you have no ability to make others like you.
4
At the end of the program, I will tell you a sad story.
Once upon a time, there was a bear. He kept a rabbit and prepared to eat it in the New Year. During this time, the two of them ate together, talked together and were in a daze together. Finally, the Chinese New Year came. The bear covered the rabbit with red cloth and prepared to eat it with a knife and fork.
Suddenly, the rabbit lifted the red cloth, and his eyes narrowed into a crescent with laughter: You are finally going to marry me!
as you all know, there are only two endings for rabbits, either they are eaten or they are constantly hurt.
this feeling is not wrong in the middle, but wrong from the beginning.
and you, like this rabbit, are separated from this wrong relationship, maybe sooner or later, but the pain will only get deeper and deeper.
shoes that don't fit you will never be comfortable, and your painful feelings will only be more wrong and outrageous.
don't talk about a person's serious love.
You should find such a person, see firmness in his eyes, sincerity in his actions and gentleness in his words.
the most important thing is that you know how serious he is about his feelings, so you have no worries and never doubt.
Don't lust after meaningless people. If they are not serious, just let them go, otherwise, you can't spare your hand to receive gifts with garbage.
The person who can really save you is the one who loves yourself.
The deepest seriousness I have ever seen is in this passage:
"What is loneliness?"
"a cool breeze, a sunny day, no smile. "
" can you be specific? "
" left hug, right hug, no lust. "
" Can you be more specific? "
" don't you.