Recently we had the opportunity to get together, and parents were discussing with each other:

"Do children play TikTok?" "Can they learn something from playing TikTok?"

Parents always feel that their children play TikTok just for entertainment. But is this really the case? Not really.

Some time ago, a friend also complained to me about her child playing TikTok, but later she was pleasantly surprised to find that her child was learning hand dance from a TikTok master! Do children play TikTok just for fun? No, you may have misunderstood. In fact, there are many good things on Douyin. If you use Douyin correctly, it can not only improve the parent-child relationship, but also help children learn and grow!

Let’s learn the correct way to do TikTok together!

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These parent-child games can improve your relationship with your children Closer

We all know the importance of accompanying our children, but how can we achieve high-quality companionship in limited time?

On the homepage of Douyin @美马游戏王, there are many creative parent-child interactive games to help parents achieve high-quality companionship. What to do if you have endless tote bags at home? It doesn't matter, "turn waste into treasure" with your beautiful mom!

NO.1 Game: Little Rabbit Pulling Carrots

Use colored paper to make some large carrots, place them on the ground arbitrarily, and let the baby get into the handbag to play the role of the little rabbit pulling carrots. .

Game No.2: Single-plank bridge

Use a handbag to make a single-plank bridge and let the baby send the carrots home safely.

Talking well to your children is a kind of wisdom

"You just know how to cry. If you cry again, I won't let you go." "I've told you so many times that I'm still up so late." "Don't go out if you keep going on like this" "..."

Many parents often say such things to their children, but have you ever thought that these words can actually hurt your children?

@ Baby Growth Season uses vivid videos to tell us how to talk well to our children.

When a child tries to achieve his goal by crying, the correct way to say it is: "When you stop crying, we will solve the problem." When the child doesn't want to go to bed, you can say: "You want to wash up first." Or do you want to listen to your mother telling a story first? "When the child is stalling, you might as well remind him: "You have to go out in ten minutes, see what you haven't brought with you?" "..."

The so-called parenting means not only raising children, but also teaching them carefully. Only by watering children with love and patience can children thrive. For this reason, we parents must continue to learn to improve ourselves, learn to respect our children, and communicate well.

How should parents deal with a child who has made a mistake?

What should you do if your child makes a mistake during parenting? @parentinggoddessmisidong told us a story:

The child spilled the soy milk. The father asked the child to wipe it dry and apologized to others. He also worked with the child to find out the reason for the spilled soy milk. He did not scold the children, nor did he do everything, but he taught the children four things: apologize in time, take responsibility, learn lessons, and master methods.

In fact, it is inevitable for children to make mistakes, but wise parents are good at turning every mistake of their children into opportunities for growth.

Interest is your child’s best teacher. Follow them and fall in love with learning!

Parents often complain to me: My child loses his energy when studying, and there is really nothing I can do about him! Do children really not like to study? No, the child just hasn’t found the effective and correct way to learn yet!

Can’t remember ancient poems? Come and listen to the poetry class of Professor @daijianye of Central China Normal University! He used humorous language to break down the originally difficult ancient poems clearly, allowing children to gain knowledge through laughter!

English pronunciation is not standard? It doesn’t matter, Sun Zhili, an @English film and television dubbing actor who has been engaged in English dubbing for more than ten years and has been teaching English for nearly 20 years, takes his children to experience pure spoken English.

Chemistry is abstract? After listening to Mr. Xiangbo’s chemistry class, children will discover that chemistry is everywhere in life.

"Toilet cleaning liquid and 84 disinfectant cannot be mixed, otherwise toxic chlorine gas will be produced." "The soldier in "Hacksaw Ridge" died of wound infection." "Wu Song drank it before fighting the tiger. "It's sorghum wine." @ the palace king who only shows his voice is none other than Mr. In reality, he is a university teacher studying philosophy of history and philosophy of culture. Due to professional reasons and personal love for the Forbidden City, it has become a "walking Forbidden City database".

Where can you pet the cats in the Forbidden City, what does the sunset look like in the Forbidden City, what are the famous drinks in the Qing Palace... all the strange things hidden in the Forbidden City are very fascinating in his explanation. .

Under his guidance, children can not only experience the beautiful scenery of the Forbidden City immersively, but also increase their historical knowledge unconsciously. It is really entertaining and educational!

In addition, Mr. Lu, who is known as @playerbones on Douyin, is also a scientist who has made great use of science popularization. She is a researcher at the Institute of Vertebrate Paleontology and Paleoanthropology, Chinese Academy of Sciences. She usually studies all kinds of "weird" paleontology, but she became a "little science popularization expert" on Douyin.

The bones of braised chicken, stewed turtle, and Beijing roast duck that she had eaten can be reassembled into a whole skeleton that "sees the Geological Museum" with her hands. It is really amazing!

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Every little boy has a music in his heart Dream

I believe that most children have a musical dream hidden in their hearts. But for younger children, complex music theory knowledge and superb performance skills cannot be mastered overnight. So how should we protect our children’s little dreams?

@Abaogui on Douyin is a very good teacher - he teaches step-by-step demonstrations, creates his own simple and easy-to-remember formulas and mental methods, and easily leads children into the wonderful world of music. .

From the moment our children are born, we want the best for them. But what is best for children? Is it good to deny children access to entertainment and mobile phones? In fact, everyone understands the world differently. What you see as "for his own good" may be a burden to your child.

The smarter approach is to accompany them to uncover the mysteries of the world bit by bit and let them freely explore the mysteries of the world. We just need to protect and accompany them! So what is the best gift a parent can give them? I think it is "a key" that allows them to personally unlock their understanding of the world, themselves, and the people around them.

Douyin is such a key. It not only allows children to see a wider world and choose areas of interest for in-depth study, but also lets them know that free exploration can be so interesting!