Author \ Editor Project Ice Ho

When I first saw Mr. Pan, I was infected by the hearty greeting. With more than 3 years of fitness experience, Mr. Pan Ruodi was like a sunshine boy. As a star teacher, he has already won the favor of many grandmothers in the fitness industry. All of Mr. Pan's classes were almost full, especially his own Funky Dance, which was written with simplicity and happiness to convey the concept of sports.

He said: Exercise makes people happy, even if they dance every day, they won't get bored. The secret of staying young is "true happiness is to like what you do", and along the way, they have their own mental journey: wisdom can't worry, and a person is much happier because he cares less. When the weather clears up, it is better to relax his heart.

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Couples have different parenting experiences, and the most important thing is to be "patient".

A wife with a double master's degree often only believes what the book says, but scholars and experts may not be applicable in reality. Pan Ruodi, on the other hand, relies on social experience to raise children. She has many years of teaching experience in actual combat. Because she loves children, she often studies how to get along with them. I will take part in the mother's classroom alone to take care of the newborn and try to hug my relatives and babies, just to take care of my daughter more personally.

This also allowed him to be a nurse alone to take care of the children for more than seven months after his wife gave birth. However, no matter how different the husband and wife are, he said earnestly: the most important thing in raising children is "patience". Without patience, the rest is out of the question! Seeing many abused children often makes him very sad.

In raising children, "method" is more important than coaxing

Pan Ruodi said that when raising children, encouragement or punishment is the first priority: don't cheat. If parents promise their children, they should do what they say. Threatening children is only temporary. If you want to punish them, you will be punished. I used to beat my filial son, but now I have to find a way to be a father myself, and the "isolation method" is his punishment, and we will talk about it when the child's emotions are not out of control.

He also laments that it is really difficult to educate children, because even if he teaches them to behave, when he goes out, he often meets parents who only skate and ignore their children. At this time, he will not fight for his rights because of his identity. When children eat in the restaurant, he also tries to prepare paintings, books and toys, interact with children more, and try not to use mobile phone 3C as a tool to coax children.

Being an artist, teacher, husband and celebrity, he said that his favorite role is to be a father.

After having children, life is completely different: "more responsibilities, less freedom, more stress, less sleep, more troubles, but less sorrow", but these hardships are finally enjoyable. Perhaps some men rarely interact with their children, but because they are single parents since childhood, they are more involved in accompanying their children's childhood.

Pan Ruodi also shared two tips for taking care of children:

First, burping:

You don't need a burping device. First, let the child sit on his lap and lean his head lightly on himself, then gently turn around and circle slowly. It's amazing that the child will burp himself.

Second, prevent the bottle from flatulence:

When soaking milk and adding water, remember not to shake the bottle up and down, rub the milk powder with your hands in circles, and needle two holes under the suction nozzle. When the child drinks milk, the air will be exposed from the hole, which naturally reduces the air being sucked in.

Third, quit the nipple:

As long as you cut a hole in the nipple, the child finds that it tastes different and can't suck it smoothly. Over time, the child will gradually quit. Although the above is his own experience, it is hard to believe that he is usually funny on the show, and the degree of careful parenting is also full of dad's classics.

Dad's heart is like blx.

At present, the most frustrating thing in parenting is that when my daughter grows up, she doesn't want him. With more work, she gets along less, but she still tries to find time and spend the rest of her time with her children. He is like a big doll in front of his daughter. After hitting him for 8 minutes, he feels that he can do the role of father better. Now he is very sentimental. He also joked that his daughter will take her by the hand on the red carpet when she is married, but she may not be handed over to her son-in-law. Moreover, he has already written a letter to his 18-year-old daughter, which shows that his love for her is extremely deep.

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When a husband and wife quarrel, think farther away.

Marriage management will inevitably lead to friction. There are several difficult things in the world: putting other people's money into their own pockets and putting other people's thoughts into their own pockets. The former is the boss, the latter is the teacher, and the wife is the one who handles these two things well at the same time; Because you don't want to work because you fight with your boss, don't fight with your wife unless you don't want to live. The best way to resolve the quarrel between husband and wife is to turn a blind eye.

Mom should be confident, and Dad must encourage more.