The purpose of the class meeting: to guide students to reflect on life through activities, distinguish right from wrong, cultivate students' sense of justice, resolutely resist negative influences, and work hard in the right direction.

Class meeting process:

1. Story introduction: This is a true story that happened in Manhattan, New York, USA.

One day, a middle-aged woman in her 40s led a little boy into the garden downstairs of the headquarters building of the famous American company "Juxiang Group" and sat down on a bench. She kept talking to the boy and seemed very angry. Not far away, an old man with gray hair was pruning bushes.

Suddenly, the middle-aged woman took out a ball of white toilet paper from her handbag and threw it onto the bush that the old man had just cut. The old man turned his head and glanced at the middle-aged woman in surprise. The middle-aged woman also looked at him nonchalantly. The old man said nothing, walked over, picked up the ball of paper and threw it into the trash basket nearby.

After a while, the middle-aged woman took out another wad of toilet paper and threw it over. The old man walked over again, picked up the ball of paper, threw it into the basket, and then returned to his original place to continue working. However, just as the old man picked up the scissors, the third wad of toilet paper fell on the bush in front of him... In this way, the old man picked up six or seven wads of paper thrown by the middle-aged woman, but he never showed dissatisfaction or boredom. look.

“You saw it!” The middle-aged woman pointed to the old man pruning the bushes and said to the boy: “I hope you understand that if you don’t go to school well now, you will be as useless as him in the future. You can do such menial and humble work!"

The old man put down his scissors and walked over and said to the middle-aged woman: "Madam, this is the group's private garden. According to regulations, only group employees can enter."

"Of course, I am the department manager of a company owned by the 'Juxiang Group', and I work in this building!" The middle-aged woman said proudly, while taking out an ID and shaking it at the old man.

"Can I borrow your mobile phone?" The old man said after thinking for a while.

The middle-aged woman reluctantly handed the phone to the old man, and at the same time, she lost no time in teaching her son: "Look at these poor people, they can't even afford a mobile phone at such an old age. You must work hard in the future. !”

The old man returned the phone to the woman after making the call. Soon a man hurried over and stood respectfully in front of the old man. The old man said to the visitor: "I now propose to remove this lady from her position in the 'Giant Elephant Group'!" "Yes, I will follow your instructions immediately!" The man responded repeatedly.

After the old man finished his instructions, he walked straight towards the little boy. He stroked the boy's head with his hand and said meaningfully: "I hope you understand that the most important thing in this world is to learn to respect Everyone..." After saying that, the old man left the three of them and walked away slowly.

The middle-aged woman was stunned by what suddenly happened in front of her. She knew the man. He was a senior employee of Juxiang Group who was in charge of appointing and dismissing employees at all levels. "You...why do you respect this old gardener so much?" she asked in confusion.

"What did you say? Old gardener? He is Mr. James, the president of the group!" The middle-aged woman suddenly slumped down on the bench.

Students talk about their feelings and write on the blackboard as the theme of the class meeting--"Self-esteem, Self-love, and Self-respect"

2. Talk about self-esteem, self-love, and self-respect

( 1) What is self-esteem?

Respect yourself and know that there are some things you cannot say, some things you cannot do, and some things you must endure, and you cannot follow your own temper.

(2) What is self-love? I know deep down (I don’t just think so) that I am worthy of love no matter how I feel about myself no matter what I think no matter how I act no matter how I look no matter how good I am or not Well, no matter what kind of family I was born into, no matter what job I do, no matter what achievements I make, no matter what I have, no matter what I have done up to this point in my life, no matter what I am or what I do... I know that I don't have to have it. Only what performance, achievements or feats are worthy of love. I don't need to do anything about it. I know that no one can deny this evaluation - I am worthy of love - even if someone does not accept me, treats me ruthlessly, or even discriminates against me.

(3) What is self-respect?

Self-respect in a sense means self-discipline, being able to learn to control one's impulses, abide by regulations, develop good behaviors and habits, being able to use higher moral standards to demand oneself, control emotions, and adjust one's Mental state: being able to be strict with oneself, being lenient to others, blaming others less and demanding more of oneself, and being able to self-examine and reflect on oneself.

3. Crosstalk Appreciation: "Star Chasers"

4. Review: What other negative examples of this theme are around you?

Students can talk freely, such as talking in class, passing notes, cheating on exams, having fun and chatting during cleaning, material comparisons, puppy love, etc.

5. Listen to the story:

(1) A student with the worst academic performance raised his hand and asked to answer the teacher's question. But when the teacher asked him, he couldn't answer. When the teacher who was surprised later asked him why he couldn't raise his hand, the student cried and said, "Teacher, everyone else can. If I don't raise my hand, others will laugh at me."

"The teacher felt that the student had a strong self-esteem. He told the student privately that the next time he asked a question, if he knew how to answer, he would raise his left hand, and if he couldn't, he would raise his right hand. After that, every time he saw him raise his left hand, the teacher tried his best Give him a chance to answer, but never let him stand up when raising his right hand. After a while, the student became cheerful and his academic performance improved a lot, so the teacher quietly told the class this method. There were several other students who did not study well. As a result, he found that the whole class had changed. ----Self-esteem and self-love

(2) Yang Zhen, the prefect of Donglai in the Later Han Dynasty, passed through the jurisdiction of Changyi. When he was in the county, the county magistrate Wang Mi sent ten gold coins and said, "You are ignorant in the evening." Yang Zhen firmly refused and said, "Heaven knows, earth knows, you know, I know, what is ignorance?" " People therefore called him the "Four Knowledge Prefect".

(3) Yang Xu, the prefect of Nanyang in the Later Han Dynasty, loved to eat fresh fish. After hearing about it, a Fu Cheng sent two big carps, but Yang Xu refused. Accepted. But the prime minister was so sophisticated that he walked away without saying a word. Yang Xu had to hang the carp in front of the door to warn those who came to give gifts. Therefore, people called Yang Xu the "Hanging Fish Prefect." "---Self-respect and self-discipline.

6. Life also requires "self-reliance and self-improvement" and "open-minded optimism"

(1) Mr. Ouyang Xiu's father died when he was four years old, and his family is poor. , there was no money for him to study. The wife used reed stalks to write pictures on the sand, and taught him to read many ancient poems. When he got older and there were no books to read at home, he went to study nearby. People would borrow books to read, and sometimes they would copy them. In this way, they would work day and night and forget about food and sleep, just writing poems and poems from a young age to an adult level.

(2 ) There was a man named Sun Jing in the Han Dynasty who was diligent and studious since he was a child. He studied late every night. In order to avoid getting sleepy, he tied his hair with one end of a rope and tied it to the beam. During the Warring States Period, there was a man named Sun Jing. Su Qin wanted to do a great job, so he studied hard. Whenever he was studying late at night, he always liked to take a nap, so he would prick Sun Jing's thigh with an awl to cheer him up. The story of Su Qin moved future generations, and people used "hanging beams and thorns" to express the spirit of hard study ---------Self-reliance and self-reliance

(3) It is said to be popular among salesmen. There is such a little story. Two Europeans went to Africa to sell leather shoes. The first salesman saw that the Africans were all barefoot and immediately said with disappointment: "These people are used to going barefoot, how can they buy our leather shoes!" So he returned in frustration. Another salesman was surprised when he saw Africans going barefoot: "None of these people have shoes to wear. It seems that the market for leather shoes is huge." So he tried every means to sell his leather shoes to Africans, and finally made a fortune. This is the huge difference caused by mentality

(4) Napoleon. Hill once told a sobering story: Thelma was stationed with her husband at an Army base in the desert. Her husband often went out for exercises, and she was left alone in the Army's small tin house. It was extremely hot and there was no People were chatting with her, and she was surrounded by Mexicans and Indians who did not understand English. She wrote to her parents sadly: "I just want to go home..." Her father replied to her a letter in which There were only two lines of words, but they stayed in her heart forever and changed her life. What were these two lines of words? "Two people looked out of the bars in the prison. One saw the soil, and the other saw the stars." From then on, Thelma decided to find her own stars in the desert. She watched the sunset in the desert and searched for tens of thousands of years ago. Using the conch shells left behind, she made friends with the locals and exchanged gifts. She studied the plants and animals in the desert, and learned about prairie dogs. She turned what she thought was the worst environment into the best in her life. Meaningful adventures and the publication of a book, The Castle of Joy, she looked out from her cell and finally saw her own stars. ----Open-minded and optimistic

7. Learn to be a self-respecting, self-loving, self-respecting and self-improvement person

Think: How do you start from scratch in real life? Students talk about their thoughts

8. What famous quotes about "self-esteem, self-love, and self-respect" can inspire us?

Example: Don’t do evil because it’s small, don’t do good because it’s small—Liu Bei of the Three Kingdoms

Conquering all your weaknesses is the beginning of a person’s greatness— - Shen Congwen

If you want to conquer the world, you have to conquer yourself - Odostoyevsky

If you are strict with yourself, you will succeed in everything; if you are lenient, Treat others like no one you can't get along with. The sea accepts all rivers, and it is great to be tolerant!

If we want more roses, we must plant more rose trees.

The reason why a great man is great is that when he and others are in adversity, others lose confidence, but he is determined to achieve his goals.

There are no desperate situations in the world, only people who are desperate for their situations.

9. Conclusion:

Youth is like flowers in spring, rain in summer, leaves in autumn, and red plums in winter. If we know how to clean ourselves and love ourselves, we will cherish and seize what we have learned today. Opportunity will definitely make the flowers of youth bloom colorfully; let the rain of youth fall gracefully; let the leaves of youth dance lightly; let the red plum blossoms of youth bloom upright and proudly. "Self-respect and self-love" is one of the contents of our class style construction. Life not only requires "self-respect and self-love", but also requires us to be "self-reliant and self-reliant" and "open-minded and optimistic".

As long as we can always reflect on ourselves, recognize ourselves clearly, identify our strengths and weaknesses, set strict requirements, and study modestly, then all difficulties will be solved, and we will become the masters of our ultimate destiny!

Class meeting music options:

1. "Blooming Life"----Wang Feng

2. "Running"---Yu Quan

3. "Start Again"---Liu Huan

4. "Back to Back"---Xie Yuxin

5. "Believe in Oneself"---Lingdian Band