On the day of the experiment, psychologists handed out test papers, rolled them up half an hour later, and then went to the teacher's lounge next to them to correct them. As a result, these professors didn't sit down and carefully grade the papers, but just sat there smoking, drinking tea and chatting, as if forgetting the existence of the papers. Half an hour later, they randomly selected five papers from a large stack of papers, and then went to the parents and students who were very nervous and anxious to announce who was the genius. When the fifth place was announced, parents who were not declared as geniuses looked at their children with solemn faces, as if they had made a big mistake.
Twenty years later, this group of psychologists tracked all the students who took the genius test at first, and the results were surprising. These five students who were crowned as "geniuses" for no reason were obviously better than those who were declared not geniuses 20 years later. It was just a completely unfounded compliment.
Is a word, rewrite the fate of these five people, also rewrite the fate of others!
There is also a girl who has been practicing ballet since she was a child. She wants to be admitted to a regular college for training, and she really wants to know if she has this talent. So, when a ballet company came to the city where the girl lived, she went to see the person in charge of the company.
"Dance for me." The person in charge said. Five minutes later, the colonel interrupted the girl, shook his head and said, "No, you don't have this condition."
The girl came home sadly, threw her dancing shoes at the bottom of the box and never put them on again. Later, she got married and had children and became a waitress in a supermarket.
A few years later, she went to a ballet performance and met the head of the delegation at the gate of the theater. Think of the conversation at that time and talk about the present life. She said, "One thing I still don't understand. How did you know so quickly that I didn't have the talent to be a dancer? "
"Oh, I have hardly seen you dance. I just told you what others would say. "
"This is really unforgivable!" She cried, "Your words ruined my life. I could have been the best dancer! " "
"I don't think so," retorted the colonel. "If you really want to be a dancer, you won't care what I say to you."
Everyone's birth is the result of fierce fighting and standing out from hundreds of millions of competitors. In this sense, everyone is a leader, and everyone has a broad road and unlimited possibilities. But why are some people getting wider and wider and dreaming bigger, while others are gradually cornered and cornered? Of course, there are realistic limitations, numerous blows, setbacks and tests, but when you blame all this on the external environment and complain about the injustice of heaven, have you ever thought about: what kind of persistence have you made for your dreams? How much effort have you put into this?
Zhou said: "the pursuit that can be stopped by failure is a weak pursuit, which exposes the limited strength;" The pursuit that can be successfully stopped is a shallow pursuit, which proves the limitation of the goal. "Yes, no one can kill your dream, and no force can stop you from moving forward unless you give up and give in.
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