Dressing and grooming here refers not only to good or bad clothing, nor to whether it is gorgeous or not. I think taste and temperament are reflected in dressing appropriately and comfortably. It’s also very important. A person can dress so well, but the clean clothes really look very comfortable. These can reflect a person’s temperament and taste. Shengze doesn’t need to dress so well. He used to eat in the night market. , the restaurant owner is busy every day, but when he stretched out his hand to give me money, I found that his fingernails were very clean, not dusty at all, and not greasy at all on his hands, but he still wanted to do this. How much the boss loves to be clean! The aunt who sweeps the floors in our community wears work clothes every day, but I found that she wears white shoes every day. The white shoes are clean and white every time. She always looks so comfortable. There was also one time when she went to a friend's house I was a guest and went to a friend's toilet. The toilet at my friend's house was so clean that it felt like it could be used as a mirror. The bathroom also had a faint scent of incense, which made people think it was a toilet inside. Pour a cup of tea and read a book, and you can see that this family's inner cultivation, temperament and taste are extraordinary! So, to see if a woman has temperament and taste, just look at the toilet in her home! Then look at whether his fingernails and teeth are clean, oh, and whether his shoes are clean!

To tell you something different, my truest feeling is that since I met my wife, I feel that my life has changed a lot. I am becoming more and more confident and fashionable, and my daily life is like My wife takes care of it herself, so apart from her own quality, the most outstanding thing about a good woman’s taste is how well she manages the men around her. There are pictures to prove it:

The flowing long hair and the natural and elegant caressing of one's own hair not only show the slender charm of a woman, but also inadvertently reveal a very pure temperament.

It was natural and careless to help the boy tidy up his clothes, showing off the unique gentleness of women.

Licking your lips unconsciously always makes you feel infinitely charming. The indifference and calmness without make-up and confusion make people feel the beauty of confidence and comfortable temperament.

The lazy movements and blurred eyes displayed when stretching are indeed extremely sexy and charming at this moment.

Chewing silently and slowly when eating, lightly biting the tip of the pen when writing, makes people feel elegant and charming.

The light gait, elegant speech and behavior, and elegant and decent clothing show a noble temperament.

A woman who is open-minded and considerate is a fine and top-notch woman.

Reflecting a woman’s temperament include, for example, her usual dress, sitting and standing posture, and the way she handles conflicts with strange women. You can see how beautiful her temperament is.

Chanel once said - every girl should do two things: be tasteful and radiant.

Warning! This answer is very long, very long... I will tell it one by one from the aspects of videos/books/outfits/characters/apps, etc. It is recommended to save it first and then read it slowly.

The improvement of fashion taste takes time and learning, and watching movies is one of the fastest ways to grow.

All intuitive feelings about beauty can be felt in the movie screen. If you want to subtly improve your temperament and taste, watching more fashion movies is definitely a shortcut.

The following fashion movies that I have carefully selected are all high-scoring movies that are worth watching for girls.

Classic fashion movies include:

"Breakfast at Tiffany's", "The Killer Isn't Too Cold", "The Seven Year Itch", "Gone with the Wind", "Rear Window", "Sweet Girl" "The Devil Wears Prada"...and so on.

In addition to movies, if you want to show your temperament and taste, you don’t need to ask more questions and you need to read more books. The following three books are my recommendations. After reading them, make sure you have a new understanding of temperament and taste. .

1. "My Little Black Book of Style"

This book was written by Nina Garcia, the former fashion director of "ELLE" and "Marie Marie". I think this book It is really suitable for every girl!

I am often told that clothes look good and have my own style when paired with them. I am really grateful for this book. It made me understand that style has nothing to do with rules or price, but is precisely the expression of "what I want to be" from the inside out.

It is with this understanding that I began to consciously develop my own style, and when the general direction was set, I made additions and subtractions to increase the feeling of surprise.

In addition, this book also talks about the use of many items, especially "basic items". If you want to wear them with quality, it is really important to have some versatile basic items. La.

There are really too many tips to learn in the book, which can make every girl dress beautifully and uniquely.

Moreover! What is particularly worth seeing is that the world-famous fashion illustrator Ruben Torredo drew hundreds of charming illustrations for "My Little Black Book of Style". The whole reading experience is very great. !

2. "Luxury: Memoirs of the President of Hermès"

This book is Blanc Carter's memoirs after his resignation from Hermès in 2009. I think it is very readable. On the one hand, it completely displays the concept, craftsmanship, story and true value of a luxury brand. On the other hand, this book allows you to read about the designers hidden behind luxury goods. , the energy and time invested by workers, raw material vendors, and salespeople.

This book gave me part of the answer to what is the core point that distinguishes luxury brands from mass consumer goods. I hope you can also find the answer in it.

3. "I am Fashion"

Unexpectedly beautiful!!! I really like the author, he is a legend in the fashion industry. The first time I knew her story was when she was walking on the streets of London, people thought she was Vanwestwood, and she said: "I am who I am."

This book shows 50 years of history in the fashion industry. Legendary stories. You can read about Yves Saint Laurent in the 1930s, Kenz0 in the 1970s, and Assedin Araya in the 1980s.

More importantly, she talks about plastic surgery in the book. , the digital age, the birth of fashion blockbusters and other iconic events. It expresses its own intuitive views. For outsiders in the fashion circle, this book undoubtedly shows this mysterious event more truly than "The Devil Wears Pradae".

Improving your temperament and taste cannot be bypassed by dressing. If you want to learn dressing systematically, the information on the Internet is very complicated, and I don’t know where to start after looking at it for a long time. Combining these characteristics, I will give you Share several classic books on style, covering five countries: China, Japan, Korea, the United States and the United Kingdom.

1. Style Idiot

A guide for beginners, covering how to choose items that suit you and how to organize your wardrobe. How to choose a fashion instructor that suits you, and provide you with advice on dressing for different occasions.

2. Know your body type and wear the right clothes

There are comprehensive rules for making you look taller and slimmer. , and also provides specific dressing suggestions from the horizontal and vertical aspects for each body part

3. Elegance and texture

The purchasing experience and matching demonstration of basic styles are among others. It is rare in books. There are four volumes in total. You can read the first volume first, which is the picture book.

This is the 4.365 days of outfit inspiration. The first fashion book I read, with hand-drawn clothing illustrations, independent dressing skills, and strong readability. There are two volumes in total.

5. My 100 Fashion Items.

Sorting by English alphabet can be used as a reference when shopping, but each item needs to incorporate its own elements to find its own unique style.

6. Elegant Chanel Classic Givenchy

A more in-depth professional book, starting from the perspective of clothing, describing clothing silhouettes, details of each part, single product classification, and different styles of wear suggestion.

7. General History of Fashion

560 full-color pages, covering all important moments in the history of clothing from 500 BC to the present. It can be said to be an encyclopedia of the history of clothing, which is very useful for understanding the history of clothing. Quite useful.

8 fashionpedia

Original English fashion guide. This is one of the most expensive books I have ever bought. It contains complete categories of details about clothing.

Let’s talk about apps. How can you have an APP that is not perfect in terms of temperament and taste? Nowadays, there are so many different kinds of apps. I recommend 18 of the most practical ones.

1. Xiaohongshu

A universal app with everything you need.

2. Drinking water assistant

Reminds you to drink water when the time comes. Drink more water, your skin will be better and your skin will become more beautiful~

3. Mint fitness

Tailor-made weight loss app, food calories and weight loss recipes, a must-have during the weight loss period.

4.keep

Fitness tutorial videos, with comprehensive types and high-quality content, for doing exercises at home.

5. Duitang

A treasure trove of beautiful pictures. There are so many good pictures. I usually use it to find pictures.

6. Tick-tock list

Record inspiration, small things, and memos anytime and anywhere, and feel a sense of accomplishment when you complete the check-in.

7. Meiyou

A must-have aunt assistant for girls, who knows you better than yourself.

8. Birthday Butler

Remembering the birthdays of important people and sending blessings in time is a sign of high emotional intelligence.

9. Go to the kitchen

Follow along and learn to cook, and become a girl who is good in the hall and in the kitchen.

10. Live well

A complete collection of home decoration displays. You can rely on it to find inspiration for decoration. It is a must-have for girls at home.

11. Shark Accounting

It is simple and convenient to keep accounts at any time. You must be willing to spend money and know how to spend money. The page is clear and convenient to record.

12. Tide

A little sleep aid, you rely on it to sleep, and it can also detect sleep quality.

13. Meitu Xiuxiu

A universal photo editing software with powerful functions.

14.nothing

High-quality fashion bloggers share to improve their vision and taste. There are some good domestic designer brand activities.

15.vsco

A must-have photo editing software for little fairies. Filters come first and you can create good-quality photos.

16.picsart Meiyi

Edit pictures, edit photos, and make beautiful pictures. The resulting pictures will be full of high-end feeling.

17. Beauty Practice

Cosmetics testing and query, the ingredients are clear, and you have peace of mind with this software.

18. bilibili

A variety of videos, including beauty makeup, planting grass, and watching dramas, very powerful~

Finally, to improve your temperament and taste The core is the most important self-confidence in the character. How to rewrite it?

Most people’s lack of confidence comes from the education methods of their native families.

I was not encouraged for a long time and was always required. When I was a child, all my energy was used to cater to and prove my worth in front of my parents.

When we grow up, we have tigers in our hearts and smell the roses. We can only imagine silently in our hearts and be timid audiences.

First accept your imperfections.

Learn to self-accept, do not feel embarrassed and uncomfortable because of your imperfections, and accept your current situation, including your

needs, abilities and hopes. Express yourself truthfully and honestly without hiding yourself.

Start learning from where you are, and don’t blindly compare. Not only will the burden be heavy, but people will also be easily irritable and will become even more inferior.

Secondly, we must also accept the weaknesses and shortcomings of others, and treat them with tolerance and peace.

You may say, what is the relationship between building your own self-confidence and accepting the shortcomings of others?

Yes! Those shortcomings you stare at about others are just the comfort of your lack of confidence. Agents should live objectively and peacefully.

The ability not to be assimilated

No matter where you are, what kind of people you come into contact with, or what you do. You must have the ability not to be assimilated, you must have your own principles and bottom lines, do what you think is right, and don't blindly cater to others, otherwise you will lose many of your unique labels.

Maintain your own uniqueness, this is the key to distinguishing you from others.

Temperament and taste are pursuits that follow a woman throughout her life, and they have a charm that can penetrate the years. But we must also remember that women are like flowers. If they are not dressed up carefully, their beauty will be covered with dust.

Done.

By the way, here is another tip. I have an emotional tree hole that sincerely welcomes you. If you need to talk about and discuss emotions, you are welcome to tease me.

A person’s temperament refers to the external manifestation of a person’s inner self-cultivation or cultivation. Temperament is the unconscious expression of the inner self, not just superficial skills. If you have no idea, then just use it for gorgeousness. Decorating clothes, this person has no temperament at all, but gives others a superficial feeling. Therefore, if you want to improve your temperament and achieve outstanding temperament, in addition to dressing appropriately and speaking appropriately, you must constantly improve your temperament. Continuously enrich yourself with your own knowledge and moral cultivation.

1. A person's temperament is the sum of his internal cultivation, external behavior, conversation, and the way he treats others. Elegant, generous and natural temperament will give people a feeling of comfort, kindness and easygoingness

2. Temperament is not learned, but cultivated. As a woman, you can’t talk too much, but you have to understand everything. You should usually learn more and read more. If you have nothing to do, go learn to dance or exercise. You also need to learn more about communication.

3. Taste determines temperament

4. The saying "the one who is close to red is red, the one who is close to ink is black" is very reasonable. If you can get close to some people with good temperament, you will become I don’t know if I feel like I’ve changed a bit

5. Read more and think more. Temperament can’t be changed in a month or two. It takes a year, two years or even longer. Many people spend a long time after finishing college. People who have never met her say she has changed, but it is actually the influence of campus life. It is always good to study more. Another point is, be friends with whoever you want to be, a gentleman and a villain. Time As you grow older, your temperament will naturally reveal itself.

6. Reading is the most basic.

If you read less, no matter how much you practice, there will still be no connotation. Read more and your eyes will be brighter. After all, you can’t put makeup on your eyes. Although some girls are beautiful, they don’t look good. The words in the eyes are empty and full of sadness

7. Practice ballet yoga and so on. Hepburn’s temperament was developed by practicing ballet

8. Want a good living environment, good mentality. Only by cultivating a good temperament.

9. Temperament is a kind of charm that exudes inner beauty. Although makeup can change the appearance, temperament depends on inner cultivation. If you want to express your temperament with external things, that is Contrived.

10. Different environments since childhood will create different people. A person’s experience and knowledge will have a certain impact on his or her temperament

11. There are many types of temperament, such as publicity, spirituality, elegance, and charm. There is also a kind of nobility that is more difficult to achieve. Temperament is basically reflected in dressing, words and deeds, and every move is not out of line. It is so difficult. Master it! Some temperaments are really innate. If they are not born, they can only be cultivated. First understand what type you are, and then have your own opinions and create the acquired perfect temperament for yourself

12 .Temperament is indeed influenced by nature and nurtured by education. However, since natural factors and educational background cannot be changed in the short term, you can try to cultivate self-confidence! Only those who are confident will be beautiful, but they must not lose their humility! Here are some tips for a girl to walk. It goes without saying that she should hold her chest up, tighten her abdomen, etc. Secondly, when you start practicing, you can hold two thin books under your armpits to ensure that your upper arms don’t swing when you walk, and your shoulders don’t sway. . When walking, don't deliberately walk in one word, just move with both feet.

13. Temperament can be cultivated. You should always remind yourself: I am the most beautiful and the most temperamental. The most important thing is to have confidence.

14. The beauty of a woman’s temperament is the entire expression of a woman’s beauty. The beauty of temperament will make men ignore their appearance and keep their beauty forever.

Even if a girl with beautiful temperament is ugly, people will not call her ugly at all. The beauty of ignorance lies in appearance, but it is actually difficult to leave a mark of beauty in the hearts of men. The former is elegant, the latter is tacky.

A woman who cultivates her temperament to make herself beautiful must have a higher spiritual realm than a woman who uses clothing and grooming to beautify herself. The former makes people live a fulfilling life, while the latter makes people feel empty and careless. And the most perfect thing is the combination of the two. The beauty of temperament at least contains sincerity and kindness. It is hard to imagine any peace and beauty in a hypocritical and vicious woman. Almost all women desire to be more attractive to others in terms of personality and appearance. So, how can we cultivate a good temperament? Knowing how to leverage your strengths and overcome your weaknesses can greatly increase your charm.

Accept your own appearance

Everyone has their own unique temperament and advantages in terms of personality or appearance. Knowing how to use it can increase your appeal.

Trust and care for others

Enthusiasm and caring are one of the most attractive qualities. Showing concern and consideration to others will be rewarded in the same way. Others will be impressed by this temperament.

Be dignified and confident.

A woman who walks freely, is high-spirited and full of confidence is the most attractive to others.

Keep a sense of humor

A person who knows how to smile or laugh at the right place and at the right time will be welcomed by others.

Don’t be afraid to show your true emotions

No matter what kind of joy, anger, sorrow, tenderness and sweetness, you should not hide them. A woman who often suppresses and hides her emotions will be regarded as cold and heartless. No one would like to associate with an iceberg.

When you are in trouble, you should ask your friends for help

Friends will feel their importance when you ask them for help. Not only will they not look down upon you, but they will become close friends and love you even more.

Don’t be too fussy

Women should be open-minded and generous when interacting, and don’t be petty or petty. Don't get angry and fussy over trivial matters, or even embarrass everyone on many occasions. This will be annoying.

Don’t think of yourself as aloof

Women should not view themselves as aloof. In social interactions, you should not show impatience or look down on others just because they have different temperaments or identities. Of course, Don’t be overly humble because your position or status is inferior to others, or your looks are average, or your clothing is not good. You should be generous and neither humble nor arrogant.

Don’t show off your cleverness

Everyone has his own self-esteem and something to be proud of. Show off is a sign of lack of education. Of course, women generally think about issues more thoughtfully and meticulously than men. In front of a man who is so arrogant, if you show your thoughtfulness and meticulousness appropriately, he will value you very much. Don't think that this is being clever, it is just trying to get a position. The performance is also a manifestation of women’s delicate mind.

Don’t neglect your appearance

As a woman, you must pay attention to your dignified and tidy appearance in social situations. Appropriate grooming and grooming is a must during social events. Don't be tired or slovenly.

After doing the above points, plus the following points, your temperament will be better cultivated, and your temperament will naturally become more mature.

Read the most beautiful poetry;

Listen to the most beautiful music;

Choose the most exquisite magazines;

Read the best book.

Beauty can be innate, but temperament is acquired.

1. Stand: You must stand straight, raise your head, lift your chest, and retract your abdomen. Don’t raise your head to the sky, don’t push your chest out, and everything should be flat. This is the most basic standing posture, and no matter where you are, No matter what the occasion, you must maintain this form as long as you stand, and it will become a habit over time. If you say no, I can't stand up to that effect, then go home, put your heels, buttocks, shoulders, and back of your head against the wall, put your hands vertically down, and stand at attention with your legs together for an hour and a half. Do this every day, no matter what I believe you can't stand that effect.

2. When sitting, the sitting posture must be elegant, the upper body should be upright, and the buttocks should only sit on one-third of the chair. The legs can be placed together to the left or right, or one leg can be placed on top of the other. On the legs, the legs hang naturally. But be sure not to spread your legs or tilt your legs on a chair. If you are not used to it yet, use your breaks at work to exercise yourself.

3. Walk: When walking, use the word "stand" first. Keep your head up, chest out, and belly in. Don't always lower your head and count your toes. When walking on the road, treat the road as your home, your T-shaped stage, but it does not mean that you walk in a domineering manner. You need to walk as if there is no one around, look straight, and show your own momentum. Don't walk in a hurry, and don't walk in fear. I stepped on the ants on the road, neither fast nor slow, just steady. The rest is walking posture. You can crouch. The crotch movement of the hips will show your waist posture, but don’t move the whole upper body with it, which will make people look frivolous. Keep your hands vertical and sway gently back and forth. Don’t walk in a military posture. , it’s not about going straight, it’s about being natural.

4. Another thing to pay attention to in terms of appearance is clothing. It does not have to be a famous brand, but it must be suitable for your age and figure. You must wear it to reflect your own personality. A good one Clothes may look good on others, but they may not necessarily suit you.

5. Now that you have the appearance, what you need now is confidence, confidence that you are the most beautiful and the best. Don't just say it, you must be humble as a person. Smart people always praise others. Don't publicize how you are or how you are doing on the Internet. The more hope you give, the greater the disappointment when people see you. Keep it in your heart, spread it out from your heart, and show it on your face.

6. When it comes to face, let’s talk about facial expressions. Smile, remember to smile, don’t be dumbfounded, and don’t smile so wildly. If you can't smile without showing your teeth, then slightly raise the corners of your mouth. The most important thing is your eyes. When listening to others or talking to others, you must look directly at them and don't look around. Remember there is a book that says that a woman's eyes are a gate to her heart, so make good use of them. Gate, show your confidence.

Okay, everything is ready. No matter you are tall, short, beautiful or ugly, give yourself a little confidence. Believe that you are the most unique. Show your confidence and give yourself an extra point. temperament.

I almost forgot the most important thing, that is, you must be cultivated and have connotation. Don’t be talked about behind your back. That person looks very elegant, but he talks dirty words. Remember, Regardless of whether you are a beautiful woman or a person with good temperament, never curse others, as it will ruin your entire image. Temperament comes from the heart, keep your pure and kind heart.

A girl’s temperament and taste refer to the external manifestation of her inner cultivation or cultivation. It is reflected in a person’s internal cultivation, dressing, behavior and conversation, the way of dealing with others, and so on.

1. Internal cultivation:

(1) Kindness, cheerfulness, and a sunny temperament

(2) Open-minded and generous

(3) Confidence. Don't think of yourself as arrogant, nor too humble

(4) Rational and calm. Live calmly, be able to handle all matters in life well, and will not cause mood swings or ups and downs due to certain bad things

(5) Have rich knowledge and experience

(6) Continuous pursuit and progress

(7) Independence

2. Dress up: Walk with your head held high, and you don’t need to wear too fancy clothes. . Natural, fresh, generous and elegant, no need to put on any disguise, just dignified and decent. Don't be tired or slovenly.

3. Behavior and conversation:

(1) Elegance: know how to listen carefully and not interrupt casually.

(2) Peace: Be calm and persuade others with reason. Never make any noise.

4. How to treat others:

Able to control one's emotions and not get angry when feeling sad.

Able to calm down one's anger and remain silent when furious.

Be able to restrain your arrogance and hide your appearance when you are overjoyed.

We must constantly improve our knowledge and moral cultivation, constantly enrich ourselves, read more books and think more. In a good living environment, better temperament and taste can be cultivated.

Good personality and high emotional intelligence.

I think you have empathy and are reasonable.

Not strong, not humble, and mature.

It’s okay to have a little temper. No one is perfect. People should not be idealistic. I think these details can reflect a girl’s temperament and taste.

Girls’ temperament is generally highlighted through the following points

1. Posture: Whether walking, fighting or sitting, they must always maintain an elegant state and can no longer Too casual outside;

2. Conversation: When speaking, you must know what to say in any situation, and keep smiling and looking at each other when the other party is speaking, pay attention to listening, and give the other party respect;

3. Clothing: The matching of clothes must be generous and appropriate. You must know what kind of clothes to wear for what occasion. It does not necessarily have to be expensive from big brands, but you must ensure that the matching is reasonable;

In fact, a girl’s temperament mainly radiates from the inside out, and cannot be manifested overnight. The key is to enrich her own connotation, which can be gradually improved by learning piano, guzheng, tea and other arts!