If a girl agrees to marry you, will you give her a ***?

Not necessarily. It depends on what the girl thinks. I understand that there are many girls who want to save their first time for their wedding night. But if you are engaged, the girl will usually agree to have sex with you. Do you agree with girls having sex with their boyfriends before marriage?

Leave your first time to the man with whom you got the marriage certificate 2008-03-21 20:28 Men’s psychology of wanting their first time (a must-read for girls) Let me first say that I am not a feudalist boy. However, I can't bear to see many girls who devote themselves to their boyfriends and then suffer in pain after falling out of love. And some of the reasons why they devote themselves to their boyfriends are silly, and some of them are because they don't understand boys well enough. So, I want to tell you about some psychology and physiology of boys. The theme I want to talk about is: Leave your first time to the man who got your marriage certificate with you! First of all, girlfriends have no obligation to satisfy their boyfriend’s desires! Don't think that just because he calls you wife every day, you really think you are his wife. When your boyfriend makes that request to you, if you are not very willing to do so, you must use euphemistic language and a firm attitude to refuse. Don't be fooled by his comments such as: We will get married anyway, isn't it the same anytime? ; If you don’t do it with me, you don’t love me (this is a way to provoke me); or be soft-hearted because of his pitiful appearance and pleading, (although this is difficult to do, after all, you really love him, but Remember the song Zhou Hui sang: Sometimes being soft-hearted is a kind of misery, pushing yourself into the abyss! There will indeed be some discomfort, but it is not as exaggerated as they show, and it is completely controllable. He will see Your attitude is determined. If you show some softness, he will become more aggressive and ask you more frequently. "I even heard that there are boys. They lie to girls and say that if they don’t have sex with them, their erections will remain erect, but some girls actually believe them, which is really pitiful.") If he really loves you, he will love you more and cherish you because of your reserve and independence, because you will be more sacred and noble in his mind, and you will become more charming and attractive; if you do , he will temporarily express his gratitude and be surprisingly nice to you, but please don’t be happy too early. If one day you reject him again, his face will often make you feel chilled! Moreover, after doing it, I fell into passivity! Who doesn’t want to cherish their first time? The more you pay for him, the higher your expectations for him will be. The more afraid you are of losing him, the more you will accommodate him. In the eyes of many boys, this means that they have lost their character and will If you find it boring, he will disappoint you more. When you have conflicts again, he won't come to apologize to you as early as before, because you are the one who can't let go! Even if you get married in the future, it is not good to develop this habit. If he leaves you for this, congratulations, you have left a person who does not love you, or even a liar who has other agendas (although such people are often very charming). I am 100% sure that you will find someone who truly loves you and is better than him! No one can survive without him. After enduring the first half year and getting out of your life with him, you will find that the truth is not what you originally thought. Secondly, if you are no longer a virgin and after breaking up you meet someone who you love too and who really loves you, and you confess to him, he will still accept you because he knows that you are not wrong and may even Think you are innocent and the victim. It would be better if he is not ****. If he is still, I can say with absolute certainty that he will be very uncomfortable. It is very uncomfortable. When he closes his eyes at night, a picture will appear. , the scene of you being intimate with other boys will make him feel uncomfortable and almost have the urge to leave you. The more he loves you and the more he feels that you are pure, the more uncomfortable he will feel. There may even be a feeling of being insulted and ridiculed by others. He would rather hit himself with a stick on the head and forget about it all. You can put yourself in his shoes and think about it.

This is definitely a shadow. It may be good, but it requires a lot of effort. If he loves you, he will not tell anyone about it for the sake of your reputation. All the suffering will have to be borne by you. You may also act very strong in front of others. But he will experience all these feelings to some extent. And you must feel very guilty and may have regrets in your heart, and what you need to do more is to comfort him. A good girl will feel very sorry for him and have to compensate him for the rest of her life, and he will also think that you did this because you owed him. And his kindness to you and his emotional investment in you will be greatly reduced. Although he will still cherish you, he will not cherish you as much as before. Can you bear to suffer such torture to the one you love? Again, I know that every girl cherishes her first time. But a person who wants to leave you because you don't have sex with him is more important than someone who wants to spend a lifetime with you, someone who wants to take care of you a lifetime, someone who wants to give you a family, someone who is the only one who will give you a home when you are sick. Compared with someone who takes you to the hospital to see a doctor and takes care of you lovingly, someone who can understand you, comfort you, and make you happy no matter what mistakes you make or grievances you suffer, you don’t want to Give your most precious gift to the latter? Finally, the college stage is still an unstable stage. What the future will bring is still unpredictable. When you graduate, there are many people who fall in love but cannot be together. Although love can stimulate people's great potential, it cannot conquer the world. Yes, as you grow older, it will become more and more realistic. I hope girls who have romantic fantasies about love can realize it. When we vowed to make each other, I also believed that it was true, but the cruelty of reality is also quite cruel! Finally, I hope everyone can accept a point of view: keeping oneself clean is a virtue and does not mean being feudal and backward! (I believe it is the girls who benefit in the end) I am a boy. I only posted this post because on the one hand I can no longer bear to see many kind and weak good girls being deceived. On the other hand, I can no longer bear to see it. It’s amazing how many good, affectionate and sensitive boys have to endure so much pain and injustice! They are really pitiful and innocent. I hope the world will be more perfect and less regretful and regretful! Those who say they don’t care whether their girlfriends are virgins are mostly trying to take advantage of them. Girls, please don’t be fooled! He really met the girl he was passionate about and knew that she was no longer a virgin. He was also confused! The sage said: If you come out to hang out, you will have to pay it back sooner or later. If a woman wants to get real and long-term happiness in the future, she should tighten her belt before getting married! This is an eternal truth. Otherwise, no matter how angry and sour you are, Ah Q, as long as you lose things you shouldn’t have lost before marriage, your future husband will feel awkward, no matter how much he loves you.

There is no man in the world who doesn't care whether his wife is a virgin. 100% of men subconsciously hope that their wives are CN... Moreover, silly girls, when you easily handed over your first time before marriage. By that time, it has already been decided that your choices for future husbands have been narrowed down to a large extent. Really outstanding men have very strong possessiveness and self-esteem (including vanity), and they will not choose a man who has already been It’s unfair that someone else occupied the territory first, right? Yes, this is the reality. Men are so selfish. Excellent men have stricter requirements on their wives. Therefore, all CN girls, remember not to throw away your ticket to future happiness too easily... .... Otherwise, when others take away the prince charming who should belong to you just because they have more tickets than you, all you can do is to be angry and sour grapes... ... As for women who have handed over their first time, they must be more careful when choosing a mate. Those men who say "they don't care if they are virgins" can't escape the following types: 1. *** old* **, do you know what it means to be hungry and not choose food? It’s not that they don’t care about virginity, but because their own physiological needs force them to quickly find a woman to vent themselves for decades? 2. All beasts whose ultimate goal is “you lie down”, this kind of man is very good at pretending They themselves, and it can be said that they know the weaknesses of women very well, they will spend the least cost to trick you into lying down, because in their eyes you are just prey and a page (night) on the notepad, so of course they don’t care whether you Virgin (of course, it’s better if you are, you’ve earned it!) 3. I’m a kid who has never had a girlfriend and is idealistic. I just finished watching the romance novel and idol drama The Legend of the Condor Heroes, and I feel like I am the prince Yang Guo and the savior of the world. There are a lot of Cinderella and little dragon girls waiting for him to save. They often don't care whether you are a virgin (80% of them are still from the heart), but don't forget that little P children will grow up one day. When they grow up, they will have an accident. When he gets into society and has many friends, he will inevitably not think about this question: "I am still young, why do I have to marry someone who has been broken up by others?" Even if he marries you impulsively and under pressure when he is young, when he gets married, When the pressure is high and there are too many things to consider, when he is too busy with his grandson at work every day, and when he is stressed out like a bastard every day, when he comes home and lies in bed holding you in his arms at night, he will inevitably think of doing it for you. Is it worth the pain for such a woman who does not completely belong to him? If there are a few bad friends who are gossiping behind his back, I guess you are not far away from domestic violence... 4. Men who have little confidence in themselves think that they are average in height, average in appearance, average in income, average in family background, average in education, average in performance...everything is ordinary. Just think about finding a girl and having children for the rest of your life. They also don't care too much about whether they are virgins. To be precise, they think good girls won't fancy men like them who have nothing outstanding about them, so this kind of Although a man will reassure you when he is in love by saying things like "I will always be good to you", but as long as you sign your name on that piece of red paper, this kind of man will pay less and less attention to you in his heart, because Their goal of finding a wife to warm the bed and have children has been achieved... At this time, you are said to be "dirty", and the fact that you are not a virgin will slowly creep into his mind after marriage. It emerges from the bottom of my heart, don't worry, he won't say it to hurt you. This kind of men generally seek stability and will not divorce you, but they can be said to be the main force of the "3rd echelon" and the red flags at home will not fall. , colorful flags are fluttering outside... Haha, and most of this kind of man has no future. You may have to pay off various loans with him all your life, and you have to worry about whether he will be fired by the employer and pay back the loan. Loan, will you go with him to sell breakfast, eat subsistence allowances, sweep the streets... 5. A man with very poor conditions, I won’t go into details about this, everyone knows it.

And those true social elites, outstanding men who can bring you happiness throughout your life and dare to be responsible, 95% will not find a woman with "historical traces" to be their lifelong wife and share their happiness. Life-long partner (because their choices are very wide), of course it is possible to resolve lonely girlfriends before marriage, but marriage, haha, impossible...unless you lie to him, but paper can't guarantee it Those who live in fire, when the peep show is exposed, it will be the beginning of your life's pain... It is indeed unfair, but girls, this is reality, take care of yourself, don't wait until you are insulated from lifelong happiness. When I think about it, why didn’t I tighten my belt tighter? ... Supplement: When a man wants to put you down (regardless of whether you are a virgin or not), he will always say what you love and want to hear the most, such as "a responsible and broad-minded man" A man with a big heart won't care if the other person is a virgin, as long as he is confident in his feelings, that's enough." Words like this that even they themselves don't believe. But when they put on their pants, they still want to find a virgin as their wife (unless they don't have the ability, then it goes without saying, just pick one)... Haha, this is a man! Is sleeping in the same room with a girl inevitable to cause sex?

If you haven’t experienced it, you may not think about it. If it happens all the time, it may happen. If you don’t want it to happen, you can get tired from playing during the day and fall asleep. A girl is afraid of you and others* ** What does it mean

She is possessive and does not allow women other than her to touch you. A girl asks you to give her *** soles. Does she like you?

I often ask my boyfriend to help me fuck o(∩_∩)o Haha

If a girl fucks with you but doesn’t accept you, you are How do you understand?

Isn’t this good?

Don’t be responsible, just have fun.

Some girls think so too. If a girl who studies is willing to sleep with you, will you let you touch her?

If she is willing to sleep with you, then it depends on your ability. If the girl is innocent, the poster should pay attention to her morals. The problem is that a girl refuses to be your girlfriend. However, I will also let you hold your hand and let you hug me~ I will care about you! Why?

This friend, I know that what you are worrying about now is why she chose not to be your girlfriend, but her behavior was not right? Haha, it's possible that she likes you, but she doesn't see hope in you. In other words, it's not that she doesn't want to be your girlfriend, but that she thinks it's good as she is now. This means that you haven't worked hard enough. You If you have not reached her ideal, you are still far away from her ideal. So what you have to do now is to work harder and harder, because you have to know that if a girl doesn't like a boy, she will not let that boy get close to her. If she wants you to hug her, it means that she trusts you. I like you to a certain extent, but I haven’t fallen in love with you, just a little bit. I think you have a lot of hope. Don’t force her to make a decision, okay? You have to wait slowly and let her know that you will still care about her and love her even if you are not her boyfriend. One day she will understand how good it is to have you. What does it mean when a girl asks you to pick her up from get off work

She is interested in you, wants to make friends with you, feels safe with you, hopes you care about her, and wants to see your reaction. In short, a girl When a girl asks you to pick her up from get off work, that’s a very dramatic prelude. If you happen to like her, then you’re so beautiful that you don’t want to leave! If you have almost nothing to say to a girl and only asks you to buy her things, is she still a girlfriend?

There is almost nothing to say to a girl,

She will only ask you to buy things for her,

Is this still a girlfriend?

Hello, this is my girlfriend, just

a girlfriend who loves money and loves material things,

I hope you will adopt it!