I had the experience of being isolated by my classmates. The reason is that I am a little beautiful and have a good relationship with my male classmates, but it's ok. Evolution is late because of my puppy love. Speaking of it, in the eyes of adults, this has done nothing wrong. It didn't sow discord or speak ill of others, which harmed their interests. But I was isolated. Of course, there is something wrong with my bad temper. At first, the dormitory administrator turned off the lights after managing the dormitory, so everyone in the dormitory thought I was too lenient. I tried to win their understanding through communication, but it was useless. Adolescent girls are unreasonable. You just have to be yourself and bury yourself in your studies. As long as it doesn't disturb your study life, let them talk. It's just a passerby relationship in the future. I don't care, and as long as you are good enough and work hard, your life will be better than theirs.

Another experience was when I was in college. At that time, I spoke with some ego, which made my roommates feel uncomfortable, but when I arrived at the university, I was more mature, so I realized my own problems and changed my way of speaking to make everyone sound more comfortable. This will benefit you a lot from entering the society (when you are isolated, you can find your own reasons first, but not necessarily your own reasons, such as my high school), and then everyone accepts it. Besides my best friend in the dormitory at that time, she was still speaking ill of me. At that time, I don't have to put up with it. I started a series of operations. First, I wooed several other roommates who were not hostile to me and went out to eat together. After the relationship was good, I began to criticize the girl slowly. Of course, that girl does have a lot of things that upset everyone. Later, our dormitory isolated her ... but it was not only because of my surgery, but more importantly, she also had her own surgery. Don't bully others, but we can't be bullied

After these two experiences, I realized that if there is anything wrong with me, you are willing to change, but you are not willing to change. You don't need friends, and you don't need to find friends who can understand you. The most important thing is that you are happy and comfortable in life. When you grow up, you will know that many people are just passers-by Your own strength is more important than anything else, and the person who needs to please you most is yourself!

In addition, when I was in high school, I found a way to save myself, that is, to make friends with myself, keep a diary, read books and precipitate myself. Then, in order to get rid of this unpleasant environment early, I participated in the independent enrollment of the university. After I got the letter of admission, I graduated early without waiting for the college entrance examination and left this annoying high school period!