Before answering, confirm the premise: girls themselves are not recognized as exotic flowers, girls behave just right in the process of blind date and do not despise this blind date subjectively, and girls do not make relatively harsh demands before blind date. If the above premises are met, I can answer you.

The first is the wonderful proportion. Most men who are not exotic already have girlfriends.

Secondly, there are all kinds of birds in the forest. Blind date is the product of modern society and the information age. The distance between people is very short, but the forest is unprecedented.

? Then, the ratio of men to women, more men than women, excellent men (referring to emotional or material ability) have long been taken away, blind date is a shortcut for relatively poor men, among which there are more wonderful men.

? Thirdly, blind date women are different from courtship women. In the whole blind date process, women may mistakenly enter courtship mode at some point (this is the most fatal, because their efforts are in the wrong direction. ), which leads to the change of goals, and finally leads to the misunderstanding that the other party is great. Marriage is not the same as falling in love.

Finally, the principle of falling in love refers to older men and women who have never been in love and are now in contact. The socially recognized values are to do what should be done at the right time and at the right age; Since I didn't think falling in love was the right thing to do when I was young, or I don't think getting married is the right thing to do now, why force myself to even date? Don't say it's a waste of time, but also make yourself uncomfortable and feel that men or women are wonderful!

I sympathize with you, but you can completely avoid meeting strange men, as I said before. Now it's the man's turn to threaten you, so the problem comes. Since I met a wonderful work, why is there a second time? Since we have met for the second time, why is there a third time?