First of all, I am a man. My best friend J, male, is a junior high school classmate. On the first day of school, two strangers sat at the same table, and the teacher didn't adjust our seats, so we became deskmates. After that, all kinds of people went crazy together, played together, frolicked in the last class and played games after school. I got good grades, but he got poor grades, so I copied his homework. Later, the teacher couldn't stand it anymore and turned away all our seats, so I cried a lot. As a result, they still play together as long as they don't have classes.

Later, when he transferred to another school, we kept writing letters. The most important thing is that our circle of friends is the same. We play games together. There is no difference between separation and non-separation I feel that he has been in my life since then until I got married. Of course, I do the same for him.

In college, he told me that he was gay, which I couldn't accept or understand at that time. I persuaded him in various ways, telling him that it was wrong and morbid. I was sorry for myself and my parents. He also showed me that he was not sick, that homosexuality was born, and that many people around him were gay, but they didn't come out (publicly) and everyone didn't know. I said it and scolded it. It's no use. He still introduced his boyfriend to our circle of friends. Thanks to the fact that everyone in our circle likes to play Dotta and League of Legends, his boyfriend also plays well and soon integrates into our circle. And he will always be my best friend. I have no choice but to understand and accept him.

We used to sleep together. I didn't know he was gay before, so I thought it was nothing. Later, I thought about it. He really likes to get close to me and put his legs on me. But now that I think about it, it's not uncomfortable at all. All his performances are like a girl. He has no talent for playing games and all kinds of pride. He doesn't play girls at all. But he said that he had no feelings for me, because I was too ugly, and he liked handsome guys. Actually, I'm fine, but the two boyfriends he found are really handsome. Well, J is a rich second generation. He doesn't have to work for a day, and he just needs to take his boyfriend to play [covering his face] every day. Now that he is out, I have a family. He and his boyfriend have a stable relationship. We are not in the same place, so there are fewer opportunities to play and communicate together. But we all regard each other as our best friends and need each other at any time.

Regarding your question, I want to tell you that gay friends is actually quite easy to get along with. If ta prefers boys to girls, you treat ta as a girl; if Ta prefers boys to girls, you treat Ta as a boy. It has nothing to do with the real gender, otherwise, you are uncomfortable and others are uncomfortable. At the same time, we should also acknowledge each other's true gender. To put it bluntly, just don't laugh at Ta, give it respect. If you are not gay, you have to make it clear to Ta so as not to get along. Finally, and most importantly, you should understand that homosexuality is not a physical or psychological disease, they are normal people, born with it, which is the greatest respect and love for them!