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With the progress of today's society, people's living standards are getting higher and higher, their pursuit of material is getting higher and higher, and the divorce rate is also getting higher and higher. The more serious it is. In the past, when women got married, most of them wanted to marry a man who had material capabilities and better family conditions. Nowadays, almost all women are financially independent and have enough food and clothing. Therefore, when women choose a mate, they not only look at the man’s material capabilities and family conditions. , and other personal comprehensives, etc.

Before getting married, men are a little immature, but after getting married, men gradually become mature and attractive. Why do most girls like uncles? It is because the uncle has gradually become mature, calm and charming through the years of ups and downs. Many women know that the man is married but still like him and are willing to be a "mistress". This is the reason!

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Married and mature men are more "in demand". When a man has a mistress, most of the wives will get angry and form gangs or fight alone. You fight to the death with the mistress alone, and then you appear on the news: "The suspected original wife beat the mistress violently in the street, grabbed her head, and then kicked her violently.

"You think this is very honorable, and you successfully defended it. Your husband, no, you are wrong, it will only make men think you are unreasonable! Maybe, your husband will still protect the mistress and take you directly to the Civil Affairs Bureau for divorce. You are very confused; why?

One slap can’t make a difference. Even if the mistress has the capital, your husband has no such idea. How can they be together? You should think carefully about where you have fallen short or gone too far. As smart women, if we can give our husband a chance and accept him, this marriage can still continue well. I will teach you a few tricks to make her quit voluntarily.

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Learn to give men face

As Chinese, almost all of us love face. As men, face is a man's dignity, and they are also good at face. There is a saying: "It depends on the owner when beating a dog", which refers to the importance of giving "face". As smart women, we must learn to give your men enough face outside. Otherwise, it is not an exaggeration to say that they will turn their backs and deny you.

When your husband has a mistress, many stupid women will cry and curse in the streets, and then go to all their relatives to complain, hoping that no one else will know that this is the same. The most terrible thing is Go to your husband's workplace or a good friend to make trouble. This approach is actually destroying your man's "face". No matter how reasonable you are, it will make a man who loves you deeply angry.

So as a smart woman, no matter what your husband does outside, you must not make a fuss outside without giving your husband face. If you make a fuss outside, it is equivalent to telling others that your husband did it. I'm sorry for you. You need to let everyone know that it will hurt his self-esteem. Once a man's self-esteem is hurt, he will feel embarrassed and won't want to be with you. So if you have something to do, talk about it at home with the door closed. , so as not to hurt your husband’s face. If your husband has a mistress outside, you can give him enough face and praise him as a good man outside as always. I think for such a good wife, the man will feel sorry for her.

Treating things wrongly, making men feel guilty

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When you find out that a man has a mistress, he will feel very guilty in his heart , at this time, if your attitude is focused on retaliating against the mistress, for example: falling out with the mistress, insulting or having a big fight, or even throwing acid and killing her are not uncommon, these are all stupid practices. woman practices. Then there is no doubt that you have exposed your scheming and fierce face to him. At this time, the man will only stand on the side of the mistress, not on your side.

As a wise woman, if you want to win back the heart of your partner, you must first investigate and analyze the reasons for the marriage, and control yourself. You must show your open-minded attitude and let your partner feel it. I feel guilty about my own elegance. There are many ways to deal with mistresses, but any method should be implemented on the basis of maintaining family or love. Let the man see that your tolerant attitude is "approaching the situation but not the person", making the man feel guilty and feel that he owes you. your.

Love yourself and convey confidence, which will make the other person unable to help themselves

In life, you will always find some people who have a kind of self-confidence and a different style, which always give people a very special feeling. It's a cool, attractive feeling that always affects you inadvertently. I feel very envious of other people's kind of life, which feels colorful.

Many people will become depressed, confused, grumpy, unkempt, etc. when they experience unhappy marriages. Maybe you don’t need to open your mouth to speak. When a man feels your state, body language, and energy field around you, he will subconsciously dislike you. Maybe the man himself doesn’t realize why he hates you so much, but he will. Such emotions are expressed from within.

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Loving yourself is a manifestation of self-confidence, rather than ignorantly surrounding a man. This is not the whole of your life, just the part of your life. part! Although the process of changing the previous vicious cycle will be somewhat painful, it is the beginning of a very important process of rebirth and recovery. Start learning to invest in yourself, improve your love and emotional intelligence internally, improve your own high value and personal charm through systematic learning, and externally change the packaging of your temperament and appearance. With some real understanding and skills of sexual emotions, you will have a certain temperament from within, and this kind of temperament can affect other people's subconscious minds. It's what I said above. There are always some "different people" in life that make you more attractive. This kind of attraction from the inside out is the real foundation of a strong relationship this time.

Convey your own value through social interaction

When encountering a crisis in a relationship, many girls often behave in a low-key manner, and their low-profile appearance often aggravates the other person. Disgust for you. "A weak country has no diplomacy" is the same in relationships. The values ??between each other are relatively equal. As long as the other party finds that you are quite charming and has no shortage of better choices, the other party will have a sense of crisis and will be more cautious. Value you and respect you.

It is a very important way to convey your charm through your own circle of friends. In socializing, you will definitely have your own suitors, so you should dress yourself up well at every party. You can even post some photos in your circle of friends where there are many people gathering, including both men and women, so that the other party can see your charm.

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It is inevitable for men to make mistakes sometimes in marriage. After all, no one is a saint. What is important is what attitude we have in the process of making mistakes. Face it, grow us up, make our marriage more harmonious and happy, and make our husband and wife more trusting and loving. This is what we want to do, what do you think?