Many parents are very concerned about their children's growth, so if their children make harmful friends, how should I persuade them? 1. Self-substitution method

Parents first ask their children to imagine themselves as the other person, and imagine how the bad behavior or dressing style of a friend would be in the eyes of others. For example, in terms of dressing, let the children imagine what a student who wears revealing and mature clothes and then goes to school to face the teacher will look like in the eyes of others. In this way, he will think that the change in style will surprise others, and he may be immediately treated as an alien. 2. Self-reflection method

Parents can also start with some bad behavioral habits and use rhetorical questions to make their children think, for example: When students are students, the most important task is to study, and truancy and failure to do so are Do behaviors such as taking classes seriously have a great impact on students' learning? ?Is it allowed for other students in the same school to wear school uniforms and wear fancy clothes that do not comply with school regulations? ?When children start to think about these issues, it can not only help children identify mistakes, but also take this opportunity to cultivate children's understanding of rules and guidance on correct behavior. 3. Third-party intervention

When children do not accept their parents’ persuasion, parents can also try third-party intervention methods, because this can reduce the sense of command given to the child and reduce the child’s rebellious mood. At the same time, children can also add reference suggestions so that children not only feel their parents’ opinions. The third party here can be some relatives, such as the child's grandparents, or a teacher. Usually, as long as parents are patient and communicate with their children, the children will think. 4. Introduce new friends to your children to replace old friends

For example, if you find that an introverted child in your family is always with the same quiet child, each other encourages the other's introversion. At this time, instead of breaking their friendship, you can also introduce more new friends with different personalities to your child so that his behavior and personality are not always affected by the same type of peers.