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If you need to remind yourself to do it with perseverance all the time, there is a high probability that it will be difficult to do it, and it will not be done by you. mission in life.

Because perseverance requires a continuous output of your inner energy to maintain, but your mission is the opposite, and will continuously pour infinite power into your heart.

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Focus on your own development and feelings.

People who care too much about other people’s feelings, causing their movements to become deformed, must learn to recognize one fact:

Whether others like you or not does not depend on how gentle and considerate you are. You will pay, but it depends on your ability to make him like you.

There is no truly good relationship between pleasing and giving in. A relationship based on respect, recognition and exchange can be lasting and warm.

Put aside the opinions of others and focus on developing yourself.

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Whether you are looking for a partner or making friends, try to choose someone with a stable mental state.

Understand whether the other person gets angry easily?

Does he often stop talking suddenly?

Is he full of negative energy?

Or often can’t be contacted?

Are the mood swings very severe, etc.

It is really useful to judge people based on whether the other person’s mood is stable.

Compared with how much someone loves you, the most important thing is continued emotional stability, a healthy financial situation, a controllable pace of life, and a rational concept of life.

327.

When doing things, in a competitive state, no one can be much worse than the other if they can compete on the same stage. It just depends on who can grasp it tightly and make no mistakes.

Pessimism will make you think you can do better, until you force yourself out of obsessive-compulsive disorder over and over again.

This is the truth that the ancients said that a sad army will win.

Therefore, in practice, we often tell novices not to be too optimistic, not to relax their vigilance, and to treat every opportunity as if it is the last. In every aspect, as small as making materials, we must develop compulsion. Only by your own habits can you be perfect.

This is the attitude towards doing things. On the other hand, you must also have an enterprising spirit that is better than just strolling around in the garden regardless of wind and rain.

If you have preset the worst outcome, you must adopt the most positive means. No matter what monsters, monsters or beautiful women are painted, you must choose to believe in yourself, have the confidence to win, and more importantly, the determination to die.

Only by struggling endlessly can we survive in a normal manner in the cruel competition.

328. On the highway, I will neither follow nor be followed by a large truck, because you have to understand the truth that an accident between a small car and a small car, even if it really hits a car at a speed of 120, As long as the car's safety factor is good enough and no one is killed, a VOLVO driver will go to Shanxi and have an accident. Two S60s rear-ended each other at a speed of 160, and everyone is fine. But what about a collision between a small car and a large truck? That means there is always more danger than good, so staying away from large trucks is the first priority when driving at high speed.

Either I overtake him, or I am overtaken by him, or I just don’t want to be with him. This is very, very important. Occasionally when I encounter a particularly powerful large truck or bus, I will let it pass first. .