Children's excessive dependence will produce "Oedipus complex". What methods can you master to eliminate dependence and move towards independence? Reasonable arrangement of time to get along In order to reduce children's dependence on their mothers, it is necessary to appropriately reduce the time spent with mothers and children, so that children can get in touch with other major family members, such as fathers, grandfathers and grandmothers. And let children contact and integrate into people other than their mothers, which will also reduce their psychological state of dependence on their mothers.

Open your child's social circle. Whether he is a perfect child in a family or not, he can't have only relatives in his life. Mothers must open their children's social circles, especially the little boys in divorced families who have lost their fathers. Mothers should let their children know that many people in life can want to get along with them and cherish them. At the beginning, children of the same age can be invited to their homes to clear their sense of urgency until they are integrated, and then they can get in touch with more group life.

Let dad participate in children's lives and refuse widowed parenting without dad. Of course, it is the baby's mother who occupies the specific content in the child's daily life. Because of spending more time with her, children will like to rely on their mothers. After a long time, it is hard for children to think that there is no Oedipus plot. Mom at home doesn't mind dad joining. Many mothers think that their fathers are careless and worry that their careless thoughts will hurt their children, so they simply don't let their fathers take care of their children. This is not right. We should give confidence to our fathers and children, and firmly believe that they can get happiness and development in the process here.

Take the initiative to "make mistakes" The reason why children rely too much on their mothers is because their mothers have done everything for their children and helped them do everything. Usually wearing shoes, the child's posture is very slow, and mothers can't help but help their children. When eating, they also help the children to serve and feed. At night, they will pat the child on the back and put him to sleep. All along, children have a habit of relying on their mothers. If we want to solve dependence, we must first weaken this practice. In other words, mother should never "help everything" and change it to "do nothing".