People are eager to have three or two good friends all their lives. After retirement, they will drink tea and play chess together and laugh at the clouds. But as the saying goes, lovers are hard to find, and bosom friends are hard to find. In life, we seldom have the opportunity to make friends who really know ourselves.
Especially for people in the workplace now, most of the time is spent at work, and most of them are in contact with their colleagues every day. Although they get along well, they all involve various interests in the end, so it is difficult to have a heart-to-heart conversation at work.
After retirement, because there is no interest gap, it is a bit lonely to be idle at home. Many people will choose to chat with their former colleagues because they have common topics and will be more comfortable to get along with.
However, people are complex and seemingly harmless. Highly toxic? unparalleled
In the workplace, some colleagues can get along for life, but some colleagues must stay away.
After retirement, in order to avoid unnecessary troubles, please be sure to stay away from the following three kinds of colleagues:
1, the money owed is not paid back.
Borrowing money is a grandson, but owing money is an uncle. This society, I don't know why there is such a bad atmosphere. When I borrowed money from you, I humbly told you many good things. When I ask for money, I either don't answer the phone or disappear. Is it really like a popular sentence now? Why should I pay back the money I borrowed with my ability? .
Nowadays, many people are selfish and have no sympathy at all. From the perspective of empathy, what do you think if someone borrows money from you and doesn't pay it back? Be a man, be considerate. If someone lends you money when you are in trouble, it is to help you. Always be grateful. Don't take money seriously, value profit over righteousness, only get in and out.
As the saying goes, no one is perfect, maybe you and I both have shortcomings, or two people have different personalities and so on. But the friends we make have the same personality. I can accept your bad temper. It doesn't matter if you have different interests, but you can't be bad-tempered and keep your integrity. Such people are sorry for you once, and there will be a second time and a third time. It is better to stay away.
2. Have bad hobbies
Gamblers, people who like gambling, mostly have no principles and bottom line, especially now that online gambling is rampant, there are too many people who suffer in this respect. If you meet such people, you can persuade them, otherwise you will stay away from them, or there will be two results, either borrowing money from you endlessly or trying to drag you into the water.
It is said that the greatest enemy of mankind in the 2 1 century is? Bored? .
In modern society, a person has more and more private time, so how to spend his working time?
Some people like sports, some people like shopping and some people like outdoor activities. These hobbies are good for body and mind, but some people can't resist the temptation and get into some bad hobbies.
Once a person has a bad hobby, his body and mind will be affected. It is difficult to restrain ordinary people with their morality. Such people have been unable to control their behavior, and their bad habits have gradually eroded and changed their body and mind.
Maybe we used to have a good relationship, but now he is not the same person. Such people should stay away.
Step 3 pretend to be miserable and sell badly
Smart people have one obvious characteristic. They like to disguise themselves. Normal people will try their best to solve the problems of punishment and failure, but talented people are different.
Being scolded by the boss at work, he will only try his best to sell badly and tell his own pity; Being alienated from the people around him, he will also pretend to be poor in front of the public, which will lead everyone to think that he is the weak side.
People with deep thoughts are like this. They are good at building their own? Sad? People set up, and through such a person set up, let everyone have a good impression on him, or be more inclined to him, and think that he is the person worthy of trust and support.
You will meet all kinds of people with the same temperament at work, which can have a positive impact on you and keep in touch after retirement. On the contrary, if a person lives a luxurious life and is negative and pessimistic, we must cut off contact with each other in order to enjoy our old age.