Love is not like shopping in the mall. As long as you have money and like it, you can buy the goods home at any time. However, love needs some luck or fate.
Love pays attention to time, place and people. Some men have been pursuing love all their lives, all kinds of obstacles. Some men may be lucky enough to meet the right person at the right time and then walk hand in hand for the rest of their lives.
When a man reaches middle age, if he is still unmarried, the situation may become a bit embarrassing. On the one hand, the age is there, and almost all the peers around are married and have children, which is very stressful. On the other hand, it is not easy for him to find a woman who really understands him.
So, what kind of women do men like to be with when they reach middle age?
When men are older, they will still like young and beautiful women, but they will prefer to be with really smart and wise women. A smart enough woman can really understand the thinking of middle-aged men.
When men reach middle age, they no longer have much enthusiasm for feelings. They can no longer say "I love you" to women ten thousand times a day like young men. Middle-aged men tend to be more rational and rational in mate selection. Compared with young and beautiful appearance, middle-aged men may pay more attention to women's inner self. When men reach middle age, they will like to be with smarter and more rational women. Middle-aged men are not wary of smart and wise women.
When a man is about 30 years old, he likes to be with a woman who can observe his words and feelings. The so-called feeling is that a woman's emotional intelligence is very high. When women get along with middle-aged men, they can understand what men are thinking. She is very sensitive to the subtle changes in the mood of middle-aged people. She can adjust the topic and tone in time. Such women are often more likely to win the favor of middle-aged men.
Middle-aged people prefer to be with women who are smarter and have higher emotional intelligence. Middle-aged men don't feel particularly tired because they get along well with such women.
The most difficult woman for middle-aged men to meet is a woman who knows herself and herself. This is what is usually called a soul mate. Having a soul mate who knows himself can give him inner comfort. Such a soul mate will fascinate men, because such people are often gentle, kind and considerate. It's better for men not to go too far. Looking at the bowl and thinking about the pot, the ambiguous ending is actually divorce, especially for men.