Introduction: There will always be such helplessness in the world: the person I love doesn’t love me, and the person who loves me I don’t love! Maybe you will be lucky enough to be loved by others, maybe you You don’t know at all, maybe you are pretending not to understand, but no matter what, being loved is also a kind of happiness. This is not just love, but also a kind of recognition. At least it proves that you are worthy of being loved, and it will give you a sense of happiness. A pride of being appreciated.

1. Two people have been together for a long time, just like the left hand and the right hand. Even if they no longer love each other, they will choose to stay together, because it takes a lot of courage to give up so many years of time. Maybe someone you love will appear in your life, but that person is just a passerby after all. You will still hold your left hand or right hand and keep walking. Happiness really has nothing to do with love.

2. The person who truly loves you wants to walk with you into the future; true love is not a commitment and confession at a certain moment, but the years spent together; true fate is not It is a predestined arrangement, but the determination of two people to recognize each other.

3. Know that everyone is looking forward to a true love, a companion to accompany you through the long road of life. Love is like fleeting time, many things will be worn away in time, only love is the unchanging eternity; only love is the warmest place in our hearts.

4. Love turns out to be just one of the contents of life. In addition, there are family affection, friendship, sense of accomplishment, artistic aesthetics, and various interests and hobbies that bring you great pleasure. Only the sum of these is A rich life, if love is the only one, is like a chair with a long leg, which is not stable.

5. The best relationship is to find a partner with whom you can talk. You can never run out of various topics; you won’t get tired of repetitive language. Companionship is a habit of loving each other; understanding is a attachment of mutual connection between two hearts.

6. What you need to love someone is to talk, not to accuse; to be unforgettable, not to forget; to communicate with each other, not to explain everything; to pray silently for the other person, not to make many demands on the other person. ; You can be romantic, but don’t waste it; don’t hold hands casually, and don’t let go casually. Please remember to cherish the happiness in front of you.

7. When two people are together, whether they are in tune or not is very important. The so-called well-matched does not necessarily mean materially, but means that two people have similar growth experiences, similar outlook on life and values, and can walk side by side for similar goals. I always have to explain for a long time when talking, or I can't talk about going together at all. It's so annoying. It's really important to be able to chat.

8. In order to maintain the relationship, it is always necessary to find a form of existence for the relationship in real life. Maybe it's an ideology, such as love on a spiritual level. It doesn't matter whether we meet or not, as long as there is always that person in my heart and becomes a warm cloud in my heart; maybe it's a daily life form, such as When you wake up in the morning, you can see her smiling face, when you open the door after get off work, you can smell the fragrance of her hair, with food on the table and someone by your side.

9. When you love someone, you always think that he is stupid and you have to take care of him everywhere. When you don't like someone, you must be smart, take advantage of him, and don't worry about anyone. Be kind to yourself. You don't have to keep expecting "effort" and "sacrifice" in exchange for love. You can love yourself first. Love yourself and others, and love will never dry up.

10. Like is just to get a present; but love requires a future. Like is the starting point of love, and love is the end of love. The reason why you care about someone is because you feel it in your heart. The reason why you feel sorry for someone is because you are willing to love. If you like it, express it sincerely and leave no regrets; if you love it, cherish it and put your best efforts into your feelings. In this world, the truest love is irreplaceable.

11. People who really understand you will never stay away and will share everything with you without asking for anything. People who truly love you will not abandon you and tolerate everything about you without regrets. People who understand you are always kind to you. The people who love you are always by your side. To love is not to really understand; but to understand is to love naturally. Love is simpler than understanding, and understanding is more important than love.

True love is wonderful when you touch it with your heart. Touching love is the harbor of the soul. Exchange sincerely and let love last.

12. Love is not a transaction, and there is no need to bear the debt of conscience. Every girl has the right to pursue happiness, so why should she compromise herself with a man she doesn't like? If you want different things, you can't live together, and you'll be happier if you let go.

13. It is easy to fall in love with someone, but it is not easy to stick to that promise after the love has faded. Love is never about catering. It is true love if you can't break up the quarrel and can't leave after scolding. True love strives for results. If there is no result, it can only be called once loved. In fact, if you really love someone, you will fall into a whirlpool of emotions. He makes you cry and disappoints you. Even so, as he stands there, you will still go over and hold his hand, involuntarily.

14. The most difficult thing about love is not whether two people really fall in love. It is difficult to maintain and last love, because life is not only one day. After all, life is real, and people have to go through various tests, which cannot be solved by just saying "I love you". There will be many unexpected things in life, and you must have enough patience to face them. You always have to experience something to understand some truths, and many changes happen through experience.

15. Love is like a debt. We are willing to accept the uncertainty of owing something to others, and leave ourselves to the other person's disposal, letting the other person decide how and when they should pay off the debt. The source of its joy is our own burning emotions, and just like that, we fall in love with love.

16. Love and fear of fakes. True love may not have a smooth appearance, bright colors, exquisite packaging, or boastful advertisements, but it has an inherent quality assurance. True love is not immune to short circuits and damage, but it has a warranty, which is the promise of two hearts, written between heaven and earth.

17. Love is the most beautiful emotion of mankind. When two hearts finally come together after a long journey, they look after each other like mirrors and are one with each other without any suspicion. Every beat is saying to the other person: I will never leave you! Then, love has come quietly, and no force can separate them!

19. Love is such a simple thing between two people, but we want to make it vigorous and gorgeous enough. Under the too gorgeous coat, mixed with too many accessories, the essence of love becomes more and more blurred, and in the end, it becomes more and more difficult.

20. There is a kind of love called twists and turns, because love always takes several turns to arrive. There is a kind of love called regret, because after the love is gone, you realize that you have really loved it; there is a kind of love called touching, because love will take off your cotton clothes to give you a moment of warmth in the cold winter; there is a kind of love called heartbreak. , because love is frozen in the cold season; there is a kind of love called bone-burning, because the traces of love are like shackles that lock the soul and will never decay.

21. Love may not have completely died in my heart, but I hope it won’t bother you anymore. I have loved you silently and hopelessly, suffering both shyness and jealousy, and may God bless you that another may love you as I do.

22. No matter how difficult the road is or how the environment changes, love cannot change, or you just say you don’t love. When you say you love, your heart must be sincere, your will must be strong, be tolerant in understanding, and deepen in tolerance. Only by not being swayed by the world, not falling into the clouds, and not changing your original intention can you achieve a happy future.

23. Love needs to be expressed. After living together for a long time, the expression of love becomes some trivial living habits. For example, make a cup of hot tea for your lover, tuck your lover into bed, make a little joke with your lover, and stuff a piece of tomato into your lover's mouth. Of course, the tea might be hot, the quilt might not be tucked in, the joke might be a little vulgar, or the tomatoes might not taste good.

24. Now I don’t blame anyone, laugh at anyone, or envy anyone. Sometimes I really don’t know if everything I insist on for you is worth it, when you are sad. I wish I could be by your side. Do your best to make you laugh.

The love in your eyes is just a self-centered obsession, but I love you for the whole past time.

25. Whether we have loved or just missed you, I will always thank you. Because of meeting you, I know what it feels like to miss someone; because of meeting you, I know that feelings really cannot be forced; because of meeting you, I know that my heart is not really dead; because of meeting you, I know that I You can also have beautiful memories. Therefore, no matter how you treat me, I will forgive your cruelty with my heart and remember your kindness with my heart.

26. If you are in love, then rush to get married. Don’t gamble on love with your youth. The longer the time, the weaker the love and the less youth. If you gamble on love with youth, you will definitely lose. Love is not just for a while, responsible love is for a lifetime. Therefore, to grow old together, both of us need to love each other and be willing to sacrifice for each other.

27. The heart is the most important thing in love: carefulness can make love last forever. Caring can make love sweet. Attention can make love last forever. Heart-to-heart talk can make love warm and bright. Sincerity can make love joyful and fulfilling. Compassion can make love thicker. The distance between hearts can be very close or very far. When you are confused by love, you might as well calm down and listen to your need for love and whether your sincerity is surging.

28. What love requires is taking care of each other. When our loved ones are tired, we don’t just sit aside and ignore them, but we talk to each other more. When the other person needs something, we try our best. To meet the needs of the other person, at least let the other person know that the feeling of being around you is so warm.

29. You will only meet a few people who are truly good to you in your life. Someone will light up the world for you, and someone will clear away the dust in your heart. But an extra inch of distance between people can easily turn into a ridiculous loss of contact. The more independent we are, the fewer important people we have. You are not sure when you will lose them. The only thing you can do is to Those who are still by your side are better, enduring the dullness and excitement of life.

30. When you love someone, you can’t help it but yourself. I can't help it just because it is unforgettable, and I won't leave it just because it can't be replaced. Only when you have expectations in your heart can you have the eyes to wait in the dim light; only when you are always kind to others can you be willing to give everything and become accustomed to dependence. Maybe you have nothing in the world, but in the hearts of those who love you, you are the whole world. Cherish a person who loves you deeply, and even more, cherish a heart that is integrated into your life.

Editor’s Note: Because of choice, you will miss; because of miss, you will lose; because of loss, you will cherish; because of cherish, you will get... Everything, cycle is like a play, don’t deliberately If you insist, there will eventually be a cause and effect. Because you have love in your heart, you can be loved! There is love in the heart, and the flowers are blooming.

Life is so unremarkable that it just passes by, and occasionally a few splashes are a great fate.

In my hometown, there are people who miss you, and there are people who you miss.

Love is not a vigorous vow, but a plain companionship.

When I was young, I thought that the relationship would be unforgettable for the rest of my life. It will also be lost bit by bit. Although the scars may last a lifetime. But I will never feel as distressed as I did at first.

Nine out of ten things in life will be unsatisfactory. Face the world and the future with a positive heart.

The ebb and flow is life

Suffering, joy, crying, laughter, sadness and joy are life!

May a beautiful, bright and fragrant flower bloom in your heart every day!

There is no pain when you like someone. Loving someone may cause long-term pain, but the happiness they give me is also the greatest happiness in the world.

What is life? It's the stop-and-go, the scenery and tasks passing by in front of you, the cycle of hope and disappointment, the heart-wrenching momentary mistakes and the even more heart-wrenching permanent miss. What is the truth of life? It’s the sense of absurdity that suddenly arises in my mind during every pause.

What is life’s inescapable paradox? You clearly feel the absurdity, but you are resolutely pushed to the next round of stop-and-go by an inertia that is so powerful that it is simply irresistible.

"I Picked Up the Secret Book"

A small tree fell in love with a huge boulder next to it. The boulder also fell in love with the little tree. So they each made a wish, willing to spend five hundred years of practice in exchange for the same body and mind as the other person. The Buddha was moved by their sincerity and fulfilled their wishes. Immediately, the small trees turned into boulders, and the boulders turned into small trees. The fate of love is often just a little bit away, but it's just like the two banks of the Ganges, just out of reach.

As I get older, I understand the short-lived nature of love, and I realize that relying on love or relying on others is wrong. When love goes bad, so does commitment. When you have love, please try to cherish it and learn to understand that it, like all impermanent things, will disappear; only when two people know how to cherish it, it will stay and we will fly. As long as you live longer than it and never see it leave, that's winning, that's forever.

The relationship between women and feelings is like a cat and a mouse. Young girls treat feelings like a kitten that has just debuted. When they see a mouse, they always think that after passing through this village, there will be no more. Shop, I wish I could swallow it in one gulp and treasure it for the rest of my life. If I catch it and lose it, I will cry heartbrokenly. If I catch it, I will worry about the gain and loss.

After watching a movie that I couldn’t understand, looking around, and finding others focused and intoxicated, I suddenly understood what loneliness is.

Being a good person is actually very easy, and having a happy life is also very simple: first, don’t punish yourself for your own mistakes; second, don’t punish others for your own mistakes; third, don’t Punish yourself for the mistakes of others.

It is easy to change old people's hearts, but it is easy to change old people's hearts.

The reason why we feel lonely is not that no one cares about us, but that the person we care about does not care?

Some people spend their whole lives lying to others, while some people spend their whole lives lying to one person.

If you don’t come, I don’t dare to grow old. . . .

There is always a relationship between us that lasts forever. Unfortunately, it's not love, or just love.

Some people dare to die heroically for their ideals; some people live humbly for practical benefits

I know when to stop, when to let go, when to Move forward. But, I know that doesn't mean I can.

The heaviest burden in life is not work, but boredom. - Romain Rolland

Love is like shells on the beach. Don’t pick the biggest one, nor the most beautiful one. If you want to pick, pick the one you like best. Once you pick it, you will never go to the beach again. .

Pretending is in vain and increases suffering.

Sometimes, one person, half a pack of cigarettes, two people, a few cans of wine. Strange old streets, gray old rooftops. At this time, the silent distance and thoughts filled my mind. Worry for no reason. . . . . .

Looking at the dark night sky, I began to feel anxious

Maybe I was too persistent

Looking at the noisy city alone

But I found myself Always alone

Gradually falling in love with the night

Is the night too quiet or the heart is too tired

Maybe the quiet night has infected the tired heart

Whatever we cling to, we will often be deceived by; whoever we cling to, we will often be hurt by. Therefore, we must learn to let go, take everything lightly, do not worry about it, do not care about it, it does not matter what is right or wrong

Youth is a state of mind, not years; The body appears in the spirit of a lofty ideal, the state of reverie, and the excitement of emotion. The fountain of life is endless and evergreen.

Youth should be brave and courageous rather than timid and fearful, and should be proactive rather than content with the status quo.

Although such a spirit can be found in those born in their twenties, it is even worse in those in their sixties. As you age, you are not necessarily old; if you lose your ideals, you are already in your twilight years.

As time goes by, aging only affects the skin; abandoning enthusiasm will lead to decadence in the soul. Worry, panic, and loss of self-confidence will definitely make people feel as angry as ashes and their hearts will be as cold as iron.

No matter whether you are sixty or twenty-eight years old, people all have curiosity in their hearts, the joy of life, and the child-like innocence that lasts forever. There is a radio station in everyone's heart. As long as you receive the signals of beauty, hope, joy, courage and strength, you will be young and graceful forever.

If the antenna falls, the vigor is covered with ice and snow, and the person is cynical and self-defeating, even if he is only 20 years old, he is already very old! But as long as you put up an antenna and capture optimistic signals, you will still be very young when you die at the age of eighty.

I think I am far away from you, and I can’t help but feel sad. Will I be abandoned on the desolate snowy land where the dusk has already darkened before it gets too late? Even a prosperous area like New Arbat still cannot hide this sadness. A person and I are walking in this desolation, but no one can help anyone. This is the ultimate problem: in the final analysis, no one can help anyone, and we don’t know what the future will be like. At a certain moment, we feel that our years have passed, and we are about to usher in another ten years of misfortune, depression and boredom, which may even be longer and longer. Who will think of me in the years to come? Just for a moment. How many moments like that will there be? In the blink of an eye, in a flash, I hear you say. The time for Chinese to linger in my mind has become less and less. Most of the time, they are even squeezed out. They are no longer chattering in my ears, and they are no longer as smooth and abundant as the fish in the streams and streams. Maybe The chipping is just a little bit, but I feel it's serious. Here I am isolated to a certain extent from the original people and things, and the postal and communication network is very inconvenient. It's like my arms are pinned down for a long time, and countless small blood vessels are not unblocked, which will cause numbness. My friends were scattered in all directions, and when I looked up I could see their silhouettes reflected in the accumulated haze in the sky. And the group of people who used to play online games together were still there, making noises. I was afraid of my numbness. I was afraid of deviating from your path. I didn’t want to be separated from you. Suddenly, I knew a little bit about my mother tongue. Suddenly, I knew what my mother tongue was. Understand a little more things. So I went down happily but with a little worry and melancholy.

The original appearance of life is colorful, with red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple coexisting. But when we look at problems, we often only see one color. If we only see red, we may whitewash life; if we see gray, we may expose life; if we really have the ability to If the richness in life is expressed, the evaluation criteria will be different from our traditional evaluation criteria. If there is love in the heart, the world is heaven.

1. If there is love in the heart, the world is heaven.

2. It is better to decorate the body with wealth than to beautify the soul with morality.

3. A person’s biggest challenge is how to overcome his own shortcomings.

4. Those who master the secret of happiness are those who regard the happiness of others as happiness and the joy of others as joy.

5. Have good intentions, say good words, do good deeds, make good friends, and be a good person. If people have good intentions, God will bless them.

6. Anger - The person who is hurt the most is yourself. Only by forgiving others can you release yourself.

7. When you cannot see the shortcomings of others, you can gain infinite wisdom from other people's actions, words, and thoughts.

8. People who love themselves will be cautious in their words and deeds to protect themselves, and spend one-third of their time reflecting deeply on themselves.

9. Worry and depression are life-killers.

10. Life does not require us to be the best, it only requires us to do our best.

11. If you have the courage to commit suicide, why not take the courage to commit suicide and continue living?

12. Respectable people have different characteristics; they know how to care and can understand the feelings of others; they know how to forgive and sympathize with the situation of others; they speak softly and behave politely, and always protect their own beauty. quality.

13. Some words can only be stored in one's own heart as a wise education. Speaking out seems to be instructing the other party, but instead reveals one's own ignorance. You have to do well for yourself and respect others.

14. What is needed to understand someone is not time, but to remove each other's guard.

15. Knowing how to care for others is the real beginning of growth.

16. The courage to take responsibility is a moving force.

17. Only by experiencing all kinds of hardships in life can we realize the value of life.

18. Only by being compassionate can you benefit others; only by being understanding can you be tolerant; only by being patient can you be a good person. There is love in my heart! Just cherish your woman

You are tired of finding a daughter-in-law. You can't bear it every now and then. I can't stand it anymore. I say she has a bad temper. Let me ask you, can you have a movie about a little girl? What a temper. Did you hug her when she acted coquettishly? Did you comfort her when she was wronged? Her little arms and legs were full of tears. What can you use to argue with her? Are you embarrassed!

Do you think she is willing to be so angry with you every day? Do you think she is unwilling to act like a fresh little princess in front of you? You are such an old man, you should understand. It’s time to say she is ignorant. Let me ask you, she has to make foresight in front of you every day. How dare you not feel inferior? She always seems to be unable to speak or do things. She is not good at it. How smart do you think you are? Ah! If she really does it, you won't even know where to cry.

In this world, which woman is unrealistic? Who is stupider than the other? Except for you, there will be no second person around her who calls her stupid. She is only stupid in front of you, and she is willing to be stupid. Those who are willing to act stupid in front of you are the ones who really love you. You don't understand this at all, and your life is in vain.

She said she doesn’t care about you, she doesn’t care about you. Let me ask you, are you blind or heartless? When you are sick, who else is anxious except your mother? You will come back later. When you are at home, who else is urging you besides your mother? What does care and concern mean in your dictionary? Don't wait until she wipes her tears and leaves pitifully before you remember that there is a little girl who is really nice to you.

If you say she is disobedient and does not pay for you, let me ask you, is it obedience that requires humility, and giving is called compromise? The most precious thing for a woman is her youth, and she consumes her most Precious things, choose to stay by your side. Do you think she can't survive alone after being full? What do you want to prove? To prove how proud your love is, or to prove that you have the ability to make her love so humiliatingly. .

I remember why you didn’t dare to brag and glare when you chased her. You used your efforts as a reason to breed desire. You regarded her efforts as a legitimate benefit, not Because she loves you, she must be a slave of love, a pet in your mind. A mature man must first learn to respect his own woman. How old is he to act as a self-centered person? This is the old socialist thinking. Women are emotional animals. , most of the things she wants are unrealistic. What she wants is sincerity and someone who understands her.

If someone chases her, it means that she is capable. She can’t be crushed by others, but you can hold her. If no one chases her, it means that there is something wrong with you. No one wants to talk to a woman except you. You Why are you here? A woman who truly loves you will have her own bottom line for making friends and standards for judgment. If you are really afraid that she will run away with someone else, show some love for her like a man and treat her well so that she can find no comparison. You are the better person, let her always remember your goodness, this is the most effective way to tie a woman.

Don’t think that she can’t resist temptation, loneliness, and can’t distinguish between principles. You underestimate a loving woman too much. You always think that you are at a disadvantage if you treat your wife too well. You are mentally deformed. Or what, then it’s your own wife, not someone else’s. If you don’t love her, who should love her? If your own daughter-in-law doesn’t love her, blame others for always looking for opportunities to love you. Ask yourself, you man. Whether you are qualified enough or not, time is cruel, cherish the people in front of you. If you have love in your heart, cherish your woman!