"When the time is right, I will teach you some mind-reading."
With more and more attention paid to emotional problems, the market demand for emotional counseling is emerging. Accompanied by it is a large number of emotional counseling institutions under the banner of "100% to save emotions" and "teach you a thousand routines". However, after paying thousands of "consulting fees", are you learning routines or doing routines? Find someone to marry, that's for sure.
Real case:
In late September 2020, Mr. Zhang broke up with his girlfriend who had been in love for five years because of emotional disagreement. The sudden emotional blow made Mr. Zhang very painful. He kept drinking and smoking all day to save his girlfriend. However, no matter how he communicates, his girlfriend seems to be very determined and has no intention of getting back together.
There's really nothing we can do. Mr. Zhang suddenly remembered an emotional master added by a circle of friends.
Many years ago, after Mr. Zhang inadvertently added the emotional master WeChat, he often saw the love and marriage teaching articles published by the emotional teacher in the circle of friends, including many cases in which the teacher instructed others to make friends with the opposite sex successfully.
Seeing that he was drifting away from his ex-girlfriend, Mr. Zhang contacted his emotional teacher and wanted him to help him.
Who knows, the two sides haven't talked about it yet, and the emotional teacher took the initiative to talk about the price. 19800 yuan-the emotional teacher who calls himself a "professional coach" told Mr. Zhang that if he wants to find one-on-one guidance, he must pay the money in one lump sum.
Mr. Zhang, eager for success, agreed to the request of the emotional teacher and asked the emotional teacher to give him remote guidance and seek the possibility of getting back together.
However, after paying the money, my attitude is completely different. I can't find a teacher all day. Finally, I returned to Teacher Zhang and asked him to disconnect. Teacher Zhang did disconnect, and he was completely disconnected from the teacher. What's more, these institutions are charged monthly!
Time goes by little by little, and I will contact Mr. Zhang when it is about to expire. The purpose of contact is to renew the fee!
However, under their deception, Mr. Zhang actually renewed his fees twice, and changed two teachers, saying that he would build a tutor group, and the three tutors helped Mr. Zhang together. As a result, few people returned to that group, and spent nearly 40 thousand back and forth, but it was useless!
Xiao Wei warns:
Briefly talk about the routines of these "mentors" and "salvage teachers":
Routine 1: Case analysis.
If you go to consult, they will say that we are a professional organization and have saved many people's feelings. You see, these are our past clients, and they successfully saved their love under our careful guidance. This is the first step. You must keep your eyes open. Customer information is absolutely confidential. If they show it to you, please leave. They are liars and don't even have to doubt them.
Routine 2: Grasp your psychological weakness, scare you with "facts" and make you pay for it.
This is a typical routine of cajoling and cheating. No matter who consults them, they will say that your situation is very serious, and it will be too late if it is too late. You will be anxious to ask them if there is any other way. They will be embarrassed, there are ways, but it is difficult. Scientific name, playing hard to get, sitting on the ground! Their purpose is to make you feel that your money is worth it from the beginning. Remember, anyone who gives you a plan and says it can be saved before fully understanding your situation is a big fool.
Routine 3: psychological insight method, predict your experience, win your trust, and constantly increase the code.
The general "mentor" is psychological. Many emotional problems are regular, such as extramarital affairs. People who cheat will definitely turn black and white and push their noses into their faces. They can "predict", and they will say how your lover is and how he behaves. As soon as you listen, it really is. You will think that they have some skills, and then you will not be far from being cheated. In this case, they may suggest that you take such a course. Please remember that emotional problems should be solved sooner rather than later. I'm telling you that your situation is urgent and you have to take a long-term course. Fake! Listen to them, the cucumber vegetables are cold and the money is gone!
Routine 4: convince you with grey mechanism.
This is the usual trick of many swindlers. If you go to consult, they will say that they have skills, detectives, and can locate and collect certain evidence. You were in a hurry and just wanted to know the result as soon as possible, so you were trapped. After you give money, people will say that they want to get through the relationship and continue to ask you for money. When you really can't get the money, they will hack you. Please stay away from this "skilled" recycling institution. Anyone who uses gray means is a liar.
Routine 5: Linkage mechanism, recommending "better" advanced institutions.
The so-called linkage mechanism is what an organization can do for you. They share things and complicate things just to get more money from you. Let me make an analogy. Last year, a reader asked me: I found a mistress to persuade me to resign, and they really played a role, but they suggested that I go to another mechanism to learn a "marriage and love cultivation course" for 8 thousand yuan. They also threatened me that if I didn't learn, there would be mistresses in my marriage in the future. I learned, but I didn't learn anything. I am the only one in the class studying. Finally divorced and lost his wife. In fact, this is the routine!
Feelings are two people's business, and the test is two hearts. Spending money is the best way to save feelings! Generally speaking, even if they help you save your feelings, you can only say that you have an emotional foundation, not all.
If something goes wrong with your relationship and you want to get it back, you can't always think about spending money to take shortcuts, which is likely to outweigh the benefits. In fact, if you encounter an emotional recovery agency scam, you can seek legal aid from the law firm, safeguard your legitimate rights and interests through formal legal channels, and get your tuition back!
Click the link below to get legal aid: