The first person I met was my roommate in the dormitory. Everyone is living together for the first time, so it is inevitable to adapt to each other and have a normal schedule. If you are a night owl, everyone is resting, and you are still playing mobile phones and games, it will inevitably have a bad influence on your roommates, and you will be in poor spirits the next day. In this way, everyone will not like to contact you and think that you are an unsociable person, let alone a friend.

Second, avoid being stingy.

Students will definitely eat together and go shopping together. Don't be too careful when paying the bill. Maybe every time you eat, you always leave the table for a very coincidental reason. Once or twice, your classmates may think that you really have other things to do, but in the long run, you can see that you are a very stingy person. People who are unwilling to pay for a meal only ask for food and never pay. Who would make friends with such a person?

Third, the emotional intelligence is low, and people always do things at inappropriate times: the IQ of people who go to college is definitely no problem, but the emotional intelligence is hard to say. Sometimes a seemingly casual sentence is actually something that others don't like or even hate. You think you are joking with your classmates to make your relationship further, but the effect is the opposite. If you talk too much, you lose. Before you say every word, you should consider whether it is accurate.

Fourth, always show off: this kind of person should be the most disgusting one. Always show off your possessions intentionally or unintentionally. Maybe you bought a watch and thought it was beautiful, and then you told your classmates everywhere, and by the way, you also said the price, for fear that others would not know that you started a new watch.

Maybe you were lucky enough to go to a high-end restaurant for dinner tonight, took photos and sent them to a circle of friends, and then threatened that the snacks in the night market were rubbish and would not patronize again. Such people will not have friends. You are not only showing off yourself, but sometimes you will hurt some people invisibly.