The workplace is a mixed place. Everyone is fighting for their own career and their own life. Of course, there are many people who behave opportunistically, trying to get promotions and raises for themselves, and for their own interests, to stumbling upon others.

In those years when you were a novice in the workplace, you took many scapegoats, how many times were you tricked by your colleagues, and how many times did you fall for fool-like operations. No matter what position you hold in the company, whether the company's development is smooth or not, there will always be pitfalls that you can jump into. Faced with other people's ill intentions, you don't have to hold back. You will be the one to suffer when the time comes. To prevent being “trapped” in the workplace, you must remember these three points.

There are no real friends in the workplace. There are absolutely no "real" friends in the workplace. Interests are the weapon that drives relationships.

Don’t have too good a relationship with your colleagues, and don’t get too close. The workplace also requires a sense of boundaries. There should be a certain “degree” between colleagues, superiors and subordinates when speaking and doing things. ".

True friends in life have no utilitarian intentions. The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and the way of getting along with friends will not be useful to get to know you just because you are rich. Colleagues are full of competition and interests in the workplace. Either you progress or he regresses.

Speaking in the workplace is risky and should be done with caution. Don’t bring your friendship mentality to the workplace.

No one can treat you as a friend among colleagues in the workplace. As the saying goes: It is best not to work in the same company between friends, otherwise no matter the advantages or disadvantages will be completely exposed in front of each other. There are some bad things that I originally wanted to hide, but working in the same company will not. This is possible, so there are some people. It can only be said that there are some people who don’t want their friends to get too close to them!

Not every colleague can be a friend. Don’t be friends with them in the workplace. If you get too close to your colleagues, don't try to make friends in the workplace. Maybe one day you will be sold and you will still be counting the money.

The workplace is a social place, not a place where you can talk about feelings. Everything is a formulaic process. Discuss matters and do business. Be yourself and don’t follow the crowd. That is the best in the workplace. Protector.

I always hear others say: "Suffering a loss is a blessing." Don't have such an idea. Suffering a loss is not a blessing. This will only make your colleagues and superiors more aggressive and treat you more pervertedly, thinking that you are a bad person. Easy to bully. You will gain wisdom after every experience. In all things, you must leave yourself a way out and have a counterattack strategy. No one is a saint. If you want to change other people's opinions of you, you must first change your own attitude and be tougher. Be ruthless in doing things, take responsibility for yourself, and protect yourself to avoid being bullied by others all the time.