I personally don’t mind women very much. I am a full-time mother at home. As a woman, I must remember one sentence at all times. It is better to rely on others than to rely on yourself. To put it bluntly, one day this man of yours will If you are abandoned, you will be out of touch with society for a long time. It will be particularly difficult for you to face society again to seek survival.

Don’t believe anyone’s promises, especially men’s hypocritical mouths. Of course, apart from this, we should not be out of touch with the times. There is a Chinese saying that goes like this: A pregnant woman will be stupid for three years.

Being a stay-at-home mother for a long time does not speak the same language as this society. Moreover, I have a stable job and can share some of my burdens with the family.

Think about a man working hard outside for himself and his two children, even though she is very exhausted physically and mentally. If she can help him in some small way, the relationship between the two of them will be better. , no matter when the time comes, you have to remember that being a stay-at-home mother is not considered a job. At least, your lover does not think of it that way. He will only think that because of his own efforts, he supports the whole family. He won't see your efforts.

If you are unable to take care of your baby because of work and hire a full-time nanny to take care of your child, the income will be the same as your own job. You have to choose a job. At least you will have a space to grow, not the original one. Step on the ground.

And as you get older, you will naturally no longer need a nanny. By that time, your career will gradually become stable. Moreover, the children are getting older and there are more places to spend money, so It is better for two people to make money than one person.