To this day, the so-called "friendship between gentlemen is as light as water" means that friends should keep a certain distance. If it is light, it will last long, but if it is thick, it will be easy to separate. In today's impetuous society, the so-called friends who start a fierce fight with you as soon as they meet are often here for profit. They may be passionate on the surface, but may be ruthless behind the scenes. On the contrary, they are true friends who have entered your heart. They are usually busy with each other and have little contact. They always take the lead when things happen. It is difficult to find a close friend. If you have any, please take pity on them.

Don’t get too close to each other. Getting too close will be a disaster. The meaning of disaster is: not only can you not go back to the past, but you will also subvert the past. If you want to get a person, you might as well approach him; if you want to lose him quickly, you should approach him infinitely. The advantage of getting closer is that you can become familiar with him. The disadvantage of being too close is that you will become too familiar with him. In this world, the only person you are most familiar with is yourself. Otherwise, it would be taboo to be fully open to anyone.

All human beauty comes from strangeness and distance. If you let the other person see everything at a glance, it will only make people feel bored and feel "nothing more than that". Another virtue of people is: if you are unfamiliar and reserved, he will be in awe of you; if you are familiar with him, he will know how to handle you. Because all your weaknesses have been exposed. So, stay far away. The most beautiful distance is in the place where you can reach it but can't reach it.

Whether it is family, friendship or love, when you get close, the other person will know your seven inches, so once you fall out, it will hit your most important point. Your heart will be hurt by then. The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water. Keep a moderate distance, neither too far nor too close. You can talk about anything when you remember each other, and live your own life when you forget each other; when you encounter confusion and seek help, you can help each other, and you are both a teacher and a friend.