First of all, friends should have a common topic and live in harmony. When a person chats with you, there must be something that everyone is interested in, so that we can chat. If you talk a lot and say something, but the other person can't understand, then your conversation will not go on.
Secondly, friends should see eye to eye. If you are a particularly just person who hates some unhealthy trends, then your friend is just a person who likes to take shortcuts and build relationships. Your boat of friendship is like turning over.
Third, friends must have no bad habits. If you love gambling, do nothing and often borrow money from your friends, it is estimated that your friends will stay away from you. I once had a friend who was very nice and smart. He works as an accountant in the company and earns a good income. For a time, his friends pulled him to play mahjong. Since then, I have been addicted to playing mahjong and played a little money. However, the more you play, the more you owe hundreds of thousands. He sold the stock secretly for fear that his wife would know, but it was still not enough to pay off his debts. Creditors come to collect debts every day, and they are too scared to go home and ask me for money. I didn't lend it to him after I knew it. Gambling is a bottomless pit, and you can't add enough. What friends don't do can't contribute to this problem. Of course, when a friend has something urgent at home, such as seeing a doctor or going to school. He should contribute, otherwise he will not be a friend.
In addition, everyone's education level and living environment are different, so everyone's personality is different and their thinking is also very different. If you make some mistakes in something, it depends on whether the other person is patient with you, can accept all your shortcomings, and can patiently guide and correct your own shortcomings. Such friends are worth making.
Therefore, to make friends, we must find people with like-minded, consistent views and no bad hobbies, otherwise we will not only get friendship, but also bring disaster.