The reasons why children are not gregarious are parents: due to family influence and lack of parental companionship. Under the pressure of such a day, many parents of children have to work part-time and have very little time to spend with their children at home. Nowadays, it is more common for grandparents to take care of children, but to be honest, it is natural for the elderly not to take care of their children so carefully. After all, they are too old to take care of children, and children learn many things on their own. In addition, even if parents are at home on Sundays or holidays, they rarely play with their children and are unwilling to participate in their children's games, making their children feel childish.

Cultivate his ability to "make friends": If a child is not gregarious, parents should encourage their children to make friends and create opportunities for them, such as inviting them to visit their homes and educating them to mix candy, toys and Other children shared that children feel the most secure at home. Under these conditions, children can get along with other children more leisurely. In addition, parents can take their children out to make friends, such as going to an ecological park or to the homes of relatives and friends, and actively use their skills to let children have fun with their friends.

If a child is not gregarious, it is likely that the child does not know how to make friends, so parents should teach their children how to make friends. For example, if a child doesn't know how to communicate when he meets a stranger, parents should not force their children to call them "uncle and aunt", as this may make the child more anxious. Give children some time to interact with others in their own way. Even if they are very scared at first, after they get familiar with it, they will open up and behave appropriately and generously. Gradually, the baby will no longer be afraid of getting along with others.

Some children are unsociable because they are overly dependent on their parents and lack the most basic level of self-reliance and self-improvement. After leaving their parents, they are afraid of communicating with the people around them. This is mainly because their parents take over everything in their daily lives. Too much will cause children to lack good opportunities to hone themselves and surpass themselves. Therefore, as a parent, you should learn to let go, educate your children to be moderate, teach your children to do what they want to do by themselves, and give them opportunities to exercise, such as tidying up their own rooms, doing their own laundry, and helping their mothers share some housework within their capabilities. In this process, the child's hands-on ability and sense of mission can be improved. He will also feel happy that he has completed something in time, and slowly build confidence, which is of great help to the child's interpersonal relationships.