1 Review of the Psychology of Women Book Review

In summary, the book "The Psychology of Women" begins with an account of the development and changes in women's social status. As women's knowledge level and educational status improve, women's social status also continues to improve. They continue to enjoy the same social status as men and participate in political, economic, and social life without preconceptions that "women are inferior to men." At the same time, it is proposed that women's needs should be respected, instead of being a world dominated by men's needs as before.

Women are half the sky and should be considered from the perspective of gender equality rather than patriarchal thinking. At the same time, in order to better understand women's needs and avoid doing things that make your girlfriend unhappy, you should take the initiative to understand women's physical and psychological characteristics.

Female physiological characteristics

Menstruation is a physiological characteristic of women. The menstrual period usually lasts 3-7 days, with an average bleeding volume of 50ml, ranging from 20-100ml, and is dark red. There are some physical and emotional discomforts associated with menstruation. Menstrual abnormalities include too much, too little, too frequent, too thin menstrual flow, etc. Pay attention to being in a happy mood during menstruation, as negative emotions can lead to amenorrhea. Avoid spicy, sour, cold, and spicy foods. Exercise in moderation. Pay attention to warmth and menstrual hygiene.

Leucorrhoea Leucorrhoea is a physiological characteristic of women. Abnormal leucorrhea is a precursor to gynecological diseases, characterized by itching, painful urination, burning sensation, yellowishness, etc. The infection routes include sexual intercourse, public bathrooms, towels, swimming pools, etc. The prevention methods are to pay attention to hygiene and enhance immunity.

Fertility changes and early pregnancy reactions: nausea, loss of appetite, fatigue, etc. may occur. Just maintain a normal diet and a happy mood, and it will disappear on its own after the 4th month. Second trimester: Dizziness, calf cramps, edema, low back pain, etc. may occur. Pay attention to a balanced diet, prevent constipation, and pay attention to a low-salt diet. Late pregnancy: Stomach discomfort, edema, cramps, low back pain, etc. may occur. Childbirth

Menopausal syndrome, which occurs due to hormonal changes during menopause, refers to some symptoms of autonomic nerve dysfunction that occur in women between the ages of 45 and 55 during menopause. The main manifestations are menstrual changes and emotional changes.

Female psychological characteristics

There are certain differences between men and women in feeling, perception, memory, imagination and thinking. Thinking is an advanced form of mental activity. Men have strong logical thinking, while women have strong image thinking. They are often story-based, metaphorical, and emotionally rich.

Conversational women belong to the "feeling" style. The content of the chat includes clothing, love, family, experiences and feelings about something, etc. Their chat may not necessarily have any actual meaning, but through this kind of chat and interaction, the purpose of maintaining a harmonious, equal and consistent relationship is achieved. But as the number of women employed increases, women’s topics begin to shift to economics, career, and news.

There are certain differences between men and women in motivation, will, emotion, ability, personality, etc., but the differences are not big.

Sexual desire In the hearts of women, love is the main psychological factor that triggers sexual desire. (Men may want it because of passion, women want it because they love you.) It is important for your husband to have passionate love and warmth for you, and to be considerate and considerate of him wholeheartedly; unhappiness in life has a negative impact on female sexual desire; the objective environment also affects female orgasm. , such as: poor environment, light, etc.; the body's touch is often stronger than the visual effect, especially when sensitive areas are touched; comfortable communication between couples can increase sexual desire and enjoy the warmth of love.

Interpersonal communication

Self-worth needs. Women's need for appreciation, compliments and recognition from others is significantly higher than that of men.

A sense of security. ? (When you have a companion to accompany you on the dark night road, you will feel much safer inside. Although it is dangerous for two people to be together, they feel much safer) The establishment of a sense of security. For example: Your girlfriend comes home alone at night and you pick her up. Let her know that you are by her side no matter what time; when she is sick, you fly back immediately. It may not be of any help, but she feels safe. When she encounters something in the future, she thinks You will be around.

Love

What is love. Love is a responsibility that needs to be shared by everyone.

For example: when the family encounters difficulties, two people share the burden together. When the food is not enough, we share it together; when we encounter difficulties in career, we share it together; love is a tacit understanding, and two hearts respond to each other. For example: We can both understand each other’s chat content. Can read each other's needs and body signals; love is a kind of giving and requires mutual dedication. Such as: Spending time for each other's things and needs; Love is a kind of luck that requires two people to feel it hand in hand. For example: Both people feel very happy and happy together.

When choosing a mate, women generally like men who are tall, have broad shoulders and chest, and are full of strength, which can give women a sense of security. When choosing a mate. Women's appearance has a certain influence on men. Male loyalty has a higher impact on women, that is: you must love me. For example: When faced with a choice, you must choose me and be good to me. For example: cook the dishes that your girlfriend likes to eat, not the dishes that you like to eat. Choose environments and things that your girlfriend likes, not things that you like.

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Among the reasons leftover women gave for not marrying, "It is difficult to find a perfect man" the selection rate was 69.7, and the selection rate of "Being single is freedom" was 38.38. "Unbearable trivial life" selection rate is 34.34. (Inferring from here, you need to be a perfect man, respect your girlfriend’s freedom, and don’t have fun in life)

Subjective reasons: high requirements for mate selection, love perfectionist, excessive career ambition, fear of marriage, Lack of ability to love etc.

Older leftover women who have been single for a long time may feel lonely. Because: 1. Watching other people in pairs will make you feel lonely. 2 The topics among peers began to shift to family, life, etc., and the topic gradually widened the gap.

Gender differences in love

Women need care, understanding, respect, loyalty, consideration, and comfort. Men need trust, acceptance, gratitude, praise, recognition, and encouragement.

Emotional expression. Women: Use more emotional words, more body language, and are reserved. They hope that men can guess her thoughts without expressing them directly. Men: More straightforward.

In terms of character. Women like to have a neat and orderly home life, while men pay more attention to comfort. Women have delicate emotions, criticize and fall in love with the top line, and are gentle. Men are realistic, open-minded, courageous and resolute.

Differences in behavior: Men pursue results, women enjoy the process; men like physical close contact, women like verbal and eye contact, sweet words and psychological intimacy; (So, pay attention to listening to your girlfriend Express and communicate more with your girlfriend to understand her inner needs instead of physical movements)

A healthy way to fall in love is to appreciate the positive characteristics of your lover, handle conflicts reasonably, and respect each other no matter how intimate you are. , Give each other their own space, don't have rash sexual behavior, love is not everything in life.

(How to keep the sweetness of love. 1. Praise. 2. Be humorous. 3. Share. 4. Think proactively and don’t let life be dull)

Female Marriage Psychology

Happy marriage = physical, psychological and social. Physiology includes physical fitness and sexual life, psychology refers to emotional factors between husband and wife, and society refers to colleagues, friends, work, interpersonal relationships, family, etc.

Marriage is a contract for both parties to live together. The responsibilities they need to bear include: being a partner (such as traveling, shopping together, etc.), jointly undertaking family finances and housework, negotiating decision-making, raising children, Take on each other’s family responsibilities and not have sexual relations with others.

Criteria for mate selection: As financial ability increases, more emphasis is placed on inner feelings and emotional needs.

Changes in family stages: two people, having children, raising children, children leaving home, middle-aged couple, retirement in old age

Marital quality. Evaluate based on subjective feelings. Feelings include: romance, intimacy, and communication between husband and wife; sex life; whether they often blame each other, frequency of conflicts, degree of conflicts, feelings of disappointment, and intention to divorce. Between 3 and 13 years after marriage, the quality of marriage changes in a "U" shape.

Why married individuals are happier than singles. 1 Emotionally support each other. 2Economic support for each other. 3. Interactive supervision to exercise.

(I admit that I also have emotional needs in my heart, and I also long for someone to be by my side, to be happy together, to do things together, to overcome difficulties together, and to enjoy success together)

Five things in marriage Fatal injuries: Unwillingness to discuss one's own and the other's inner feelings; entrustment mentality, entrusting oneself to the other (neither party has the obligation to support the other); insisting on "I am right"; maintaining false harmony without reasonable resolution of conflicts Mechanism, long-term suppression; don’t know how to deal with conflicts.

The dangers of premarital sex: it brings great psychological pressure to the woman during pregnancy, makes the romantic relationship unfavorable to the development of the woman, and has a more casual sexual attitude that affects her married life. However, surveys show that many male and female college students today accept premarital sex.

Career development. Division of life stages: children and students; social citizens, workers, homemakers; retirees

Mental health. Mental illnesses include: anorexia, postpartum depression, menopausal depression, anxiety, fear, doubt, neurasthenia, etc.

Summary

The harvest is quite big. Understand women's physiological and psychological characteristics and needs, so that you don't need to bother explaining to your girlfriend, you will know what to do. I also learned how to correctly handle sexual impulses, love relationships, marriage relationships, etc., so as not to be sidetracked by the uproar and noise in society, causing harm to my girlfriend and myself.

Next, continue to read several other books to systematically and comparatively learn how to manage a relationship and avoid doing things that make your girlfriend unhappy.

Taking the initiative to grow yourself and doing less things that make her unhappy is the best love for her~

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2 Thoughts after reading "Her Happiness"

Note: (), summary, inspiration, these are my own insights, other words are excerpts

Chapter 1

1. During the reform and opening up, southerners They are all very enthusiastic and hope to make more friends and talk about business. (There is such an opportunity now, and everyone on the Internet is very enthusiastic, sharing and helping each other)

2. The author’s verbal behavior leaves the other party with a warm, sincere and approachable impression, creates confidence in cooperation, and promotes cooperation. A business transaction

3. I met Chairman Shi during a corporate meeting. Call immediately in the evening: express your admiration first, then chat later. The noble people in life are very important, and when you meet someone you admire and respect, you are not shy and hesitant, nor shy to express your feelings, but express your feelings generously. This kind of character allows the author to meet the noble people in life.

4. I went to Beijing to study for a Ph.D. at the age of 38. I graduated with a Ph.D. at the age of 43. I accidentally encountered "Positive Psychology" and the first edition of "The Law of Happiness" at the age of 45 (this writing path proved feasible)

5. It is a woman’s beautiful wish to be pampered all her life. When you are at home, you are loved by your father, when you get married, you are loved by your husband, and when you are old, you are loved by your children. For women, being pampered means love and happiness. (What is pampering: like a father to a child, playing with your lover, giving tenderness and patience)

Summary: The author's success lies in her persistence in her dreams, her persistence in reading and studying, and her ability to enhance herself. Be kind to others, keep making friends with people, and keep expanding your interpersonal relationships.

Inspiration: While maintaining good health, keep reading and keep interacting with people who are better than yourself. I believe that as you explore, your life path will become wider and wider.

Part 2

[if !supportLists]1. [endif] Before the age of thirty, a woman’s appearance is given by her parents, and after the age of thirty, her appearance is given by herself. The appearance after the age of thirty comes from the sum of internal cultivation, behavior, and how to deal with others. ? Two kinds of women live happier lives: women who love to laugh and women who love to read (girlfriends have both)

[if !supportLists] 2. [endif] Love bookcases and wardrobes . Bookcases can cultivate your temperament, and wardrobes can cultivate your aura.

Women after forty must learn that "the heart never grows old"

[if !supportLists] 3. [endif] The important things in life: eat well, sleep well, work hard and study. (The author also agrees that we need to work hard, and the same is true for me. Although the car after-sales job is not very good, I still have to work hard. The working process is also a learning process, so take it seriously)

[if !supportLists] 4. [endif] In a family, maintaining a necessary "sense of family rituals" is not only a manifestation of parents' understanding and love of life, but also a beautiful way for parents to teach their children to enjoy life and inherit life. Family rituals such as: making dumplings during the New Year.

[if !supportLists]5. [endif] The family should develop a reading atmosphere. There are two things that parents need to teach their children personally: one is speaking ability; the other is writing ability. (Summary: Regardless of starting a business or not, I will persist in reading and writing, and will cultivate a reading atmosphere in my family. Because words are the carrier of human experience, any of my actions need to be guided by words, and I hope that my future The family can cultivate such an atmosphere)

Summary: The author loves beauty, insists on exercising, pursues health and longevity, and at the same time works hard to run the family.

Inspiration: You should also keep exercising, pursue health, and create a good family atmosphere.

Part 3

[if !supportLists]1. [endif]Positive psychology. For example: Two fat men came to the door of the gym at the same time. One fat man saw that the people inside were all in such good shape. He felt very ashamed and went home in despair. Another fat man saw that the people inside were in such good shape, and thought that they could get in such good shape through exercise, and he could also get in such good shape through exercise, and then he went into the gym and exercised consistently to achieve a good figure. (I recognize this positive psychology. For example: My cousin had the same analysis when he wanted to apply for Tsinghua University. He thought that those who were not as good as him could get in, and so could he; I think the experiences of other writers prove that this writing path is feasible. , so I think I can also take this path of writing)

[if !supportLists]2. [endif] "Flow" is a very efficient and happy working state. "Flow" is a state of spiritual experience. It means that when people are completely immersed in what they are doing, they forget everything around them and are not even aware of the passage of time. They feel an indescribable happiness and feel very happy inside. Relaxed and enjoyable. People who "enjoy it" can immerse themselves wholeheartedly in the things they like, so even if the living conditions such as food and housing are not good, they will not care. It is easier for them to feel happy if they have inner fulfillment. On the contrary, those who are full of food and have nothing to do will not be very happy. (I recognize this state and have had this feeling. I have experienced "flow" when I worked hard for the college entrance examination before the college entrance examination, when studying, etc.)

[if !supportLists]3, [ endif] "Frustration", after many people experience a crisis, they become more mentally mature, more open-minded, more emotionally capable, more confident, more supportive of the people around them, and their happiness and satisfaction will also increase. (I admit the meaning of "frustration". Many people have experienced miserable situations, so when they encounter difficulties again, they have stronger confidence)

[if !supportLists]4. [endif ]Happiness formula: Total happiness index = congenital inheritance, acquired environment, and psychological power that is controllable by oneself. (I think the future with my girlfriend will be very happy, because my score on these three points of innate inheritance, acquired environment, and psychological strength is not low, and my girlfriend’s score is also not low, so the prediction of overall happiness is very good.)

[if !supportLists]5. [endif]Be filial to your parents. It is unacceptable for young parents to travel with their children, and the family is enjoying themselves, while the elderly parents are lying alone in the hospital bed. (Before the Spring Festival, I want to go back with my girlfriend and change my itinerary. It is right to discuss it with my parents in advance.

We must handle the relationship between the family and everyone well, and do not hurt the hearts of the elders)

[if !supportLists] 6. [endif] People must know how to be grateful and kind. (Giving expired snacks to students at work is an unkind practice and I want to stop it. Bottom line: Do not harm students’ health, do not harm students’ face, do not cause safety accidents, and maintain students’ hope for the future)

Summary: Acknowledge the significance of positive psychology. People should be kind, grateful, open, and compassionate, and always think from a positive perspective when encountering things. For example: when you encounter something, you first assume a result, whether you can accept it, and if you can accept it, then work backwards to determine the conditions for achieving this result, and see if you can find these conditions in this environment. If you can, then do it. .

Inspiration: Be a laughing, humorous and optimistic person.

Postscript

Wang Weihua came out of the small town of Kashgar at the age of 21 and came to Hainan to start a business. At the age of 38, she went to Beijing to study for a Ph.D., and she went from black hair to gray hair. It can be read from her words that she is an independent woman who has her own pursuits and can bring her own happiness.

Like many women, she likes to ponder and fantasize. When she encounters difficulties in life, she will also use tears to wash away her inner loss. She also has her own uniqueness.

[if !supportLists]1. [endif]Always have your own life plans and goals. And periodically ask yourself whether you have achieved your goals, and make timely adjustments.

[if !supportLists]2. [endif]Keep reading and learning.

[if !supportLists]3. [endif]Dialogue with your body every day. Keep eating well, sleeping well, and exercising well.

[if !supportLists]4. [endif] Cherish everyone and everything you meet.

As a mother, she believes: “As a mother, you should give your child a sound and healthy body when he is born; create a harmonious family atmosphere and cultivate an optimistic and confident mentality for your child after he is born; When the child is studying, create a good learning environment and a positive belief for him; when the child becomes an adult, prepare enough expenses for his education and survival, as well as a valuable platform for interpersonal communication."

Women in their prime believe that a man’s deep love is everything to happiness and a woman. For this reason, women are cautious, worried about gains and losses, whether they are sad, missing, or happy, all emotional changes have men as the core. A woman in her destiny year discovers that happiness comes from herself, learns to love herself, experiences choice, persistence, change, and abandonment, and things around her become better and better along with her character.

Summary

Summary: I think the book "Her Happiness" is well written. From the book, I learned about the growth experience of an outstanding woman and the thoughts of women. It also helps you identify the characteristics of outstanding women. At the same time, I also understood the role of a positive attitude and how to treat life, which provided guidance for my own life actions.

Readability: They are all based on the author’s personal experiences, thoughts and feelings.

Disadvantages: There are few cases and insufficient guidance on specific details.

How to read this book:

1. Read it quickly, about one day. Then every two days, spend two hours writing a summary.

3 "Self-Treatment Course for Women's Psychological Growth"

This book records more than a dozen cases consulted by the author as a psychologist and the author's comments, and contains many women's opinions. Confusion gives readers a direction of thinking, a way of self-reflection, and a way to solve confusion. After reading it, I understood that I should not treat people too much as objects, grasp the boundaries of lovers, how to meet the needs of my girlfriend, how to run a family, etc. It is a book worth reading.

Readable: They are all real cases.

Disadvantages: Author's comments. There is insufficient logical and theoretical basis, and it is more based on my own subjective feelings.

(Maybe this is the way of thinking of liberal arts students)

My reading method: spend one day, read the book quickly, and spend two hours writing a summary.

The purpose of writing a summary: to review the content in the book, reflect on your own shortcomings, record and share.

About the author

Graduated from the Chinese Department of Nanjing University in 1998 and worked in a Shenzhen newspaper.

Obtained the national second-level psychological counselor in 2007, specializing in psychological counseling.

In 2009, he published the career planning novel "The Straw Man"

From 2010 to 2013, he studied psychology with a psychology professor and wrote the psychological novel "The Bone Jackfruit".

In 2014, she launched a column on Douban.com called "Self-Healing Courses for Women's Psychological Growth". The number of articles read ranked first among Douban's psychology columns, making her a first-level key writer.

After 2015, writing classes and psychotherapy classes began to be established, integrating writing and psychotherapy, and recruiting training students.

The following are excerpts from the book, () are my own insights

[if ! supportLists] 1. [endif] Record the psychology of women in the form of cases.

[if !supportLists]2. [endif] The heroine in the case of "You Will Never Pay for Dating a Man" treats people as objects, takes love relationships too much as investments, and ignores people. More meaningful inner emotional exchanges between people ignore the satisfaction of the personal spiritual world and the sweetness of love. (I personally have this problem and need to correct it. 1. Experience the relationship with my girlfriend more. For example: my girlfriend’s willfulness last night; her cuteness; she shared with me the startup of the young lady in the apartment, and reminded me that in the work group** *Guide to shopping for groceries. These things do not necessarily have monetary value, but are worth doing)

[if !supportLists] 3. [endif] The heroine of "Peeping at My Boyfriend's Cell Phone" does not have a good grasp of the relationship. human boundaries. (When we are together, we can do our own things, and when we are apart, we can do our own things. I agree with my girlfriend’s point of view. When we are together, we can chat, play, cook, go shopping, have fun, and hold hands. When we are apart, we can work, pursue our dreams, and meet each other. Friends, do what you like)

[if !supportLists]4. [endif] The heroine of "Urban Shopaholic" puts her life on "buy, buy, buy" and fails to deal with consumption well. relation. (Acknowledge your girlfriend’s point of view and maintain the basics of life before excessive consumption and investment)

[if !supportLists] 5. [endif] The heroine of "QQ Stranger, Take My Soul Away" Reasons why I like boys: It’s fun to chat and talk about various topics every day (happy-oriented, just like family, share various topics with my girlfriend); share my own things with him, listen to him analyze my problems, and in the process of analysis constantly changing my attitude towards life. (For my girlfriend’s problems, I need to listen, retell, and explain my thoughts, and convey more positive thoughts); he is very capable and humorous, and his explanations are helping me solve my emotional problems. (Women all have the need to be pampered, comforted, and encouraged. You must admit this fact, and then accumulate more emotions at what time your girlfriend needs. For example: when she is happy, you should accompany her to be happy; when she is sad, provide companionship and comfort; in a In a strange city, you need to make her feel supported.) I hope boys will take the initiative to call me, ask about my life, and help me analyze my confusion.

(Summary: You need to understand her emotions from your girlfriend’s perspective and chat with her. This thinking mode needs to be exercised; you should build a life with happiness as the guide; you need to convey positivity to her through daily chatting. Positive attitude towards life;

True mature love is rooted in reality and then built upon)

[if !supportLists]6. [endif]My wife uses. To love.

(Listen to her needs, think about whether her needs are correct, and meet the other person's needs without making too many mistakes, rather than following your own needs.)

[if !supportLists]7, [endif]《 Why Are You Sad After Dumping Your Rich Boyfriend? The heroine likes to be light and elegant, loves spiritual life, reads, practices yoga, and drinks tea, but does not like frivolous and vulgar. (My girlfriend is the same, she likes operas and musicals, but doesn’t like low-speed things and topics)

[if !supportLists] 8. [endif] The heroine of "You Can’t Be Gentle Without Being a Tomboy" She started as a clerk and took the initiative to work every day. The boss saw her hard work and spent four years lifting her up step by step. Later, as a purchasing manager, she bargained with suppliers, explained and communicated with colleagues, developed the company's business, and solved company problems. (Verified: As long as you are healthy, have methodologies, and have general abilities, you can do a good job); if your job is gone, you can find it again, but if your family is gone, you will have nothing. (How to run a family: 1. Trust your significant other. 2. Spend time to find information on how to run a family. 3. Work hard to meet the needs of the family. 4. When encountering problems, solve and develop solutions with your family instead of with others. Make a plan together.) (I have a lot of problems in this regard and need to learn from my girlfriend)

4 "The Story of Sahara" book review

The book records the relationship between Sanmao and Jose. Through Sanmao's contagious words, Sanmao's experiences, life and daily life in the Sahara Desert express an interesting, optimistic and kind attitude towards life. Sanmao’s ability to convey words is worthy of study.

What is text appeal. For example: I admit that expressing the same thing in different ways has different appeal. For example: a joking tone and a normal tone express the same thing, but the effect is completely different.

5 "Being a Happy Woman"

This book writes about how to be a happy woman and gives a general idea. But the specific operational details were not written.

[if !supportLists]1. [endif]Be convinced that you can marry happily

[if !supportLists]2. [endif]Learn to know people and find true love

[if !supportLists]3. [endif] Know how to manage a marriage

[if !supportLists]4. [endif] Love is water, love words are sugar; be a man’s partner rather than an accessory

[if !supportLists] 5. [endif] Standards for a good man: First, he must be rich, secondly, he must have good eyesight, he must have regular meals, he must not be lazy in all seasons, he eats all grains, he must have all six desires, and he must have seven points. Tolerance, making friends from all directions, drinking less and quitting smoking, being very magnanimous

Summary: Believe, find ways, and operate with heart. This is a methodology that applies to everything.

Readability: The methodology is clear.

Disadvantages: A one-sentence methodology requires writing a book, which results in the details in the book coming from fantasy and not having practical guidance and being of no use.

My reading method:

[if !supportLists]1. [endif] There is no need to read the truth that you already understand. If you want to prove whether your theory is correct or not, the way to prove it is: you must look at what experts say, read time-tested books, and practice on a small scale.

[if !supportLists]2. [endif] For this kind of very broad book, just flip through it quickly and extract the topic. ? The definition of broad books: they are not based on the author’s personal experience, do not have a large number of first-line cases, do not collect a large amount of information, and do not have citations or theoretical basis of marked articles. They are books that tell people the popular path of being truthful, good and beautiful, and working hard to make progress.

[if !supportLists]3. [endif] Different books, choose different reading methods.

You can read this kind of books quickly, but you should read classic books carefully.

6 "Smart Women's Love Sutra"

Author's experience:

[if !supportLists]1. [endif] There were two or three years when I needed to After accepting the "Psychological Hotline", the author learned psychological knowledge during the day and applied it at night. This experience became the source of material for his later writing.

Inspiration:

[if !supportLists]1. [endif] Frontline experience may be useful later in your life. You should pay attention to collecting these real front-line experiences and transform them into materials that can be retained. For example: Teacher Fang has a lot of information on his computer. By doing this, he proves that this path is feasible.

[if !supportLists]2. [endif] Everyone starts from the front line when they are young, choose a promising industry, and learn while working. The standard for doing it is: you must have summary and output. The standard for learning is: you need to read books or improve your academic qualifications. (I think the training industry has a future, I think the workshop training management has a future, and I think the automotive circuit has a future, so I will continue to do these things well)

This book is not very readable . Because:

[if !supportLists]1. [endif]The titles of each chapter are not good, making people unable to understand what this chapter is about.

[if !supportLists]2. [endif] The names of the characters in the book are names such as "Midnight, Ye Zi", which makes it look like a fictional story. (The real cases in "Female Self-Healing Course" are all told from the first perspective of "I")

[if ! supportLists] 3. [endif] The author's name is not very good, it is called " Green Tea"

7 "Know yourself and your enemy, a guide for women to be undefeated in love"

[if ! supportLists] 1. [endif] People need to communicate in all aspects of personality, thoughts, and emotions. The closer the relationship, the greater the requirement for such communication. Without this kind of in-depth communication, people will feel lonely and depressed. (This can be verified by the middle-aged people in the office. Leaders with a bad relationship between husband and wife have no energy at all and don’t even have anyone to speak their minds to.) (Writing articles is an important way for me to communicate with my girlfriend)

Summary: This book is not very readable, and has the same problem as "The Love Book of Smart Women".

8 "Diary of a Psychological Counselor"

[if !supportLists]1. [endif] Girls sometimes need a hug, or you need to tell them ten reasons why you love her . (Maybe the answer is not important, what is important is an emotion. Doting on your girlfriend is a kind of emotional doting, not reasoning)

[if !supportLists]2. [endif] Women also need a A “fun” playmate.

Summary: This book is not very readable for the same reason as above. But some of the words in these books still make sense and can cure heterosexuality