1. In good times and bad times, it depends on your mind, and in big and difficult things, it depends on your responsibility. Dare to take responsibility and correctly view personal gains and losses. To have the courage to take responsibility, we must first act out of public concern and consciously view gains and losses from the standpoint of the party and the people. 1. At present, we must first focus on the party's cause and the interests of the people, and not care about personal fame, wealth and future.
2. In this life, you don’t have to be noble, but you can’t be shameless; you don’t have to be great, but you can’t be despicable; you don’t have to be smart, but you can’t be confused; you don’t have to be optimistic about life, but you can’t be world-weary; you can make friends. Not generous, but not harmful to others.
3. Everything that appears in life cannot be owned, it can only be experienced. Those who know this deeply will understand: there is no such thing as loss, but just passing; there is no such thing as failure, but just experience. Look at life with a browsing heart. All gains and losses, hidden and revealed, are scenery and style.
4. If you can't be together, don't give the other party any hope or hint. This is the biggest responsibility. Separating, not disturbing each other and letting the other person live peacefully, this is the final tenderness.
5. The recognition of others comes from the attitude of others towards us, and it is difficult for us to control the attitudes of others as we control our own behavior.
6. Mentality determines everything. If the mentality is good, everything will be good. If the mentality is bad, everything will be difficult. What is the mentality? Mentality is the attitude towards things, mentality is the reaction to everything, mentality is a kind of endurance, and it is also a quality cultivation.
7. No matter what we become, we are still us. The only difference is that we are no longer simply like a child, and no longer sincerely like a fool. Look down on the warmth and warmth of human beings, and look down upon the warmth and coldness of the world. Don't be disrespectful to every enthusiasm, and don't please any indifference. Don't squander your trust and don't neglect yourself. Live well in a way that suits you!
8. Never doubt yourself because of what others say, and never look down on yourself because of who you like. All your strengths and weaknesses are prepared for people to accept you as you are. You know, everyone wants to be a better version of themselves, but that doesn’t mean you’re not worthy of being loved.