Even though they are warm and close to you on the surface, they are not with you after all, and one day, they will leave you.
Be a man, don't care too much about such people, they are destined to be passers-by with you.
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First: a stingy person.
We have all met such people in our lives. You take him seriously as a friend, but he is always plotting against you.
Show off your wealth in front of you all day, but never take the initiative to pay for dinner; We agreed to go shopping together, but what he bought was discounted because he bought an extra one, so you had to buy it.
With such people, they try to take advantage of you, but you can't take anything from him.
A stingy person is mostly narrow-minded. He can't tolerate any loss for the smallest thing. With them, you will feel very tired and be careful everywhere, and you don't know where you have offended him.
You want to talk about brotherhood with him, but he can turn against you for a little profit, and even betray you when necessary. Therefore, to deal with this kind of person, forget it before it is too late, and sooner or later we will go our separate ways.
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Number two: reckless and rude people.
Xunzi's Xunzi? Self-cultivation "wrote: people who are rude will not be born, things will not be rude, and countries will be restless." "Visible,? A gift? Importance to a person, a family and a country.
When we associate with others, we try our best to do this? Elegant and easygoing? Show your educated side. Being friendly to others is a good accomplishment, but it also depends on what kind of person you are right about.
We can do this for people who are also polite, but some people, who are reckless, rude and rude to others, do not need to show politeness when dealing with such people.
Otherwise, they think you are easy to bully, choose soft persimmon. Of course, there is no need to argue with them. It's demeaning.
The best way is to stay away from such people and treat them as strangers in life, leaving them alone.
After all, lovers talk more than half a sentence, but what about yourself? Different aspirations, different ways? People who ignore them are wasting time and life.
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Third: Look at different people.
Zhuangzi? Qiu Shui wrote: Well frog can't talk to people in the sea, but is confined to the air; Summer insects can't talk to ice or time; Qu can't talk to Taoists, which binds them to teaching.
This sentence tells us that people have different cognitive levels and ideological realms, and in the present words, they have different views.
Being with such people, whether as friends or as husband and wife, is a very tiring thing.
In reality, why have friends lost contact for many years, and couples who share the same bed finally parted ways? It is because two people with different views will be passers-by of each other sooner or later.
Because there is no way to understand each other, he will never understand your world, he doesn't want to understand, and you can't understand his world. Therefore, it is easy for each other only when we are apart.
Therefore, people who don't feel the same way from the beginning, don't work hard on them, be sure to be with people with the same three views, and leave our care and love to those who know themselves.