Have you ever experienced that feeling? Sometimes when you are bored, you want to find a friend to chat. As a result, you have searched through all the WeChat Moments, but you can’t find anyone you want to chat with? Is this a helpless feeling?
But you have so many friends, why do you live like you have no friends? How could such a scene happen? However, this is the hard fact.
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I still remember before, when smartphones first appeared and new dating software first became popular, everyone felt that the world had reduced communication between people. Getting closer and closer. If you don’t use WeChat to post in Moments, you won’t have the chance to make friends.
Yes, when WeChat first became popular, everyone played WeChat Moments. Show various selfies and food photos in the circle of friends to attract the attention of friends, likes and comments, and everyone seems to have a great time.
But I don’t know when it started. There are more than a hundred friends, or even hundreds of friends, in the WeChat address book. In fact, it is really There are not many people we can chat with. You posted a post on WeChat Moments and showed off the selfie you thought was the most beautiful, but you found that no one cared about it, and no one asked you to pay attention, like or comment.
You have joined many WeChat groups, such as reading groups, creative groups, friendship WeChat groups, classmate groups, best friend groups, family groups, etc... There are too many community marketing groups to count. In fact, it is really There aren't many that can always have air bubbles inside. Sometimes you encounter one or two interesting topics for discussion, and you will follow a group of people you don't know and comment a few words in the group, but no one remembers them afterwards. There are too few real friends
There are more and more WeChat friend circles, and there are very few people on WeChat who can be considered true friends. When I feel sad or unhappy, or after a breakup, I want to ask someone to express my pain, but I find that there is no one on WeChat who can express my sorrow.
You want to find good friends, but you are afraid that they are busy; you want to find friends around you, but you are afraid of disturbing their sleep; you want to find relatives, but you are afraid that your parents will worry about you . You also don’t want to infect negative emotions and not-so-good emotions to others.
You have sorted your friends from the top to the bottom, going back and forth a dozen times, but you don’t know who to chat with. The information you typed into the WeChat box was deleted and retyped, typed and deleted, but you never pressed the consider sending button.
At this time, you are especially lonely, lost, sad, worried, and confused. You especially need to find someone to comfort you, listen to yourself talk about your unhappiness, complain about troubles, and talk about your inner confusion and pain.
However, you have looked through all your friends and still don’t know who to look for. You feel very lonely, so lonely that you feel uncomfortable and want to cry, and the next second the tears flow down uncontrollably. In fact, what I want to tell you is that I can still understand all the things you have experienced. You are not alone in your circle of friends.