My friend Aaron is an honest man. He chased many girls and was given a good friend card. Aaron was very upset and felt that he was not so bad. Why can't he be liked by girls? Aaron is so popular that his friends give him all kinds of ideas, that is, all kinds of routines. For example, the girl you like asks him out to play, but she deliberately shirks that she has no time when she obviously has time.
For example, deliberately engage in some ambiguity with other girls, so that the favorite girl knows that she is jealous. In short, it's playing hard to get, hot and cold. Aaron was very exclusive at first, thinking that it was all a lie. But watching the girl you like be chased away by other boys again and again. Aaron, who is tone-deaf, has sung Terry Lin's single "Love" to the level of a professional singer ... I can't catch love and always watch her slip away ... "
There is a popular saying on the Internet: "You can't stay deep since ancient times, and you will win the hearts of the people." Sometimes it's not that you can't keep your family, but that the method is wrong and your efforts are in vain. Everyone has worldly desires, except friends and relatives. When you have no good feelings at all, others can be full of good feelings for you, and then wave their sleeves without taking away a cloud.
If you are really affectionate, you should learn the routine well. If you think the routine is derogatory, you can change the "routine" to "method" and learn the method well. Method plus affection, even if you can't win people's hearts, at least you are worthy. Routines are sometimes derogatory, because they are broken by some people, and there is no affection but routines.
Colleague A Yuan's girlfriend was cheated by the routine, and A Yuan took it as a warning and was a deep-water bomb against the routine. There are many boys who pursue her, but she doesn't like any of them. She thinks it's all a routine, even sending her flowers has become a routine. Yuan, this is too much. She poured bath water and dumped the baby. However, A Yuan met A Long, and A Long learned the affectionate routine for her.