Interpersonal communication practice

The core part of interpersonal communication is cooperation and communication. To cultivate communication skills, you must first have a positive attitude, understand others, and care about others. In daily communication activities, you must take the initiative to communicate with others, do not passively avoid them, and dare to contact, especially dare to face people who are different from yourself, and also Don’t be afraid of your origin, appearance, and experience. Don’t close yourself off because you come from a remote area, don’t look good, or don’t have as much experience as others. Secondly, you should start from a young age, pay attention to social etiquette, and the little you add adds up; again, you should be good at doing it and go out boldly. , eliminate fear, strengthen the accumulation of knowledge in communication, experience it in actual communication life, and master various methods and techniques in interpersonal communication. In addition, we must realize that in dealing with others, what moves people is sincerity. Make friends with sincerity and act with sincerity. Only sincerity can exchange for cooperation and communication with others. Sincerity is always one of the most precious emotions of human beings.

In social interpersonal interactions, we must first adhere to the principle of equality. Whether it is official business or personal relationships, there is no distinction between high and low. Only by communicating as friends can we have deep friendships. Don't feel inferior because of short working hours, lack of experience, or poor economic conditions. Don't be arrogant because you are a college graduate, young, and beautiful. These mentalities affect the smooth development of interpersonal relationships.

We need psychological compatibility, that is, a harmonious relationship between people, tolerance, inclusion, tolerance and tolerance when getting along with others. Take the initiative to interact with people, make friends widely, and make good friends. Not only make friends with people similar to yourself, but also people with opposite personalities. Seek common ground while reserving differences, learn from each other and complement each other, handle competition and compatibility relationships well, and achieve better perfection. Own.

Interpersonal communication is a two-way behavior, so there is a saying that "it is irrational to come but not go back". Interpersonal communication that only benefits one party cannot last long. Therefore, both parties must benefit, not only materially, but also spiritually, so both parties in the relationship must pay attention to dedication and dedication.

Communication is inseparable from credit. Credit refers to a person being honest, not cheating, and keeping his word. There is an ancient saying: "Once a word is spoken, it is hard to follow it." Nowadays, there is a principle of honesty. Don't make promises easily. Once you make a promise, you must try to fulfill it to avoid breaking trust. Among friends, one must be true to one's words and resolute in one's deeds, neither humble nor arrogant, dignified but not too reserved, humble but not pretentious, do not look down on and please those with high status, and do not despise those with low status to show their self-confidence and gain the trust of others.

We must not care about non-principled issues, be able to repay resentment with kindness, and be tolerant and generous. Misunderstandings and contradictions often occur in interpersonal interactions. College students have strong personalities and close contacts, so conflicts are inevitable. This requires college students not to be fussy in their interactions, but to be humble, generous, restrained and tolerant, not to care about the other party's attitude or words, and to have the courage to take responsibility for their own actions, "so that the prime minister can hold the boat in his belly", He is noisy, but you are not; he is fierce, but you are not; he is scolding, but you are not scolding. As long as we are broad-minded and tolerant of others, the angry party will feel bored. Tolerance and restraint are not signs of weakness or cowardice. On the contrary, it is a measured performance, a lubricant for establishing good interpersonal relationships, and can "turn conflicts into friendship" and win more friends.

Interpersonal skills are so closely related to social experience. If you can improve your interpersonal skills, people's daily social life will also be improved. Not only can people reduce conflicts with others, but they can also have a more pleasant interaction experience with others.

Some people believe that interpersonal skills are an innate trait or attribute. For example, a person with high social skills is naturally more outgoing and sociable. As the saying goes, "It's easy to change a country, but it's hard to move a person's nature." Changing one's interpersonal skills is actually more difficult than moving a mountain. Most psychologists disagree. Instead, they argued that as long as the factors that predict interpersonal skills can be identified, programs can be designed to train this skill.

In summary, to improve one's social skills, on the one hand, one must improve one's insight into one's own and others' needs, thoughts, and feelings; on the other hand, one must carefully observe different situations and people and distinguish between them. and understand and analyze the differences to enhance the grasp of the ever-changing social environment. Although psychologists believe that social skills can be trained and improved, it is not easy to truly improve social skills, nor can it be achieved overnight. Success still depends on a person's motivation, determination, and hard work. and perseverance.