If you like a girl, pursue her. To chase girls, you don’t need good looks or good financial conditions. Personal charm is what attracts girls the most. Therefore, as long as you pursue girls in a reasonable way, it is not difficult to upgrade the relationship. You only need to let girls accept your feelings in a reasonable way and slowly get used to your feelings.

1. Keep distance and create attraction

The saying "distance creates beauty" is really true. The distance here does not refer to how far away you are, but to maintaining the distance in life. a certain distance. Only in this way will girls be interested in you and be attractive.

When you first start chasing a girl, you must be able to control your emotions. Don't easily reveal that you want to pursue her. You can continue to chat, tease and suppress her.

There are not so many cases of love at first sight. The most unreasonable way is to confess your love right from the beginning. It will only make her think that you are fake and insecure, which will lead to a slow upgrading of the relationship between you.

No girl wants to entrust her life to such a boy. Therefore, when chasing girls, remember to suppress your inner feelings and keep a distance, so that you can show your charm as a man and successfully attract girls.

Two, show your high-value side

Be good at using your own advantages to create conditions for yourself. You must have eyes that are good at discovering beauty, and you must have a mouth that can praise beauty, and more importantly, Have the ability to express your beauty. Some strengths require us to express them in words and actions.

If women like your smile, then show your charming smile to make women approach you; if you are good at playing guitar, also show your talent to people.

Being the center of attention may be another way to demonstrate your social skills and charming presence. It will make girls like you more deeply.

Three, continue to push and pull, upgrade the relationship

If you want to improve your relationship with girls and avoid falling into the friendship zone with girls, then you must learn to How to seduce the other party?

1. The push-pull method can arouse girls' emotions and allow you and the girl to gradually upgrade your relationship step by step during chatting and dating. If your relationship with a girl is too close, you can use "push" to keep the distance between you and help you hide your neediness.

If you are not close enough to a girl, you can use "pull" to bring the relationship closer between you. Reasonable use of push and pull can make the relationship between you and girls more rational and allow you to upgrade the relationship more naturally.

2. Physical touch is the most important link. From gently touching the other person's body, to holding the other person's hand or arm around the other person's shoulders, to finally kissing or even having sex, these are all things that need to be done step by step in upgrading the relationship.

Four, set traps and guide feelings

Women are easily moved. Girls care about women for a long time, but girls cannot see the purpose of doing so in a short time. Therefore, it is easy for women to have a good impression or trust towards them.

Some women even take the initiative to throw themselves into his arms in order to repay their kindness. So wait until a girl gets used to having you in her world, and wait until she can't live without you, then you can take advantage of the opportunity.

Fifth, don’t act sensitive

In the process of contact and flirting with girls, sensitivity is indeed an important aspect. But you can also try the opposite approach. Generally, when you both have feelings for each other and understand each other's intentions, you may constantly look for signs that she is interested in you and find ways to approach the woman.

But have you ever thought about letting her take the initiative to approach you? You can smile at her, raise your glasses to say hello, wink at her, or even simply wave at her. Wave. Maybe she may shake her head at you, but you won't lose anything.

Men do not necessarily have to take the initiative to pursue girls. Sometimes it is also an effective method to show your personal charm to attract women to approach you.