It's really a headache to have something that shouldn't happen at the wrong age. First of all, beating and cursing is definitely not enough. Psychological counseling is the most important thing, and heart-to-heart. Let her speak her mind and talk about whether to continue like this in the future and the serious consequences of doing so.
I think it's better to calm down and have a heart-to-heart talk with children, not to beat and scold rudely, and to communicate with each other. It is not uncommon for 16-year-old girls to rebel against puppy love and have sex.
A 16-year-old teenage girl should be studying in the classroom, but she is fooling around outside. This is not only a problem for her, but also a problem with family education. If parents work outside all the year round and neglect the education of their children, when you earn more money, you will also lose the education and supervision of your children. Parents are also responsible for this kind of thing.
Some people may say that the family conditions are not good, and there is no money for children's education if they don't go out to work, but going out to work doesn't mean that you can give up the education of your children. You should go home when you are busy, care about your children's learning, care about their growth, leave your children to the elderly, go out to work by yourself, come back only once a year, have poor grades, mix with society, and finally fall in love with rebellion and have sex.
This is the sorrow of left-behind children. Statistics show that more than 95% of minors who have accidents in China are left-behind, single parents and unhappy children in family of origin. Therefore, if they are unable to create a good environment for their children to grow up, they should not marry and have children casually. If they have children, they should be responsible.
Those who go out to work should try to take their children with them, and try not to divorce when they get married and have children, so as to create a good family atmosphere for their growth. Happy people are all similar, and unfortunate people are all unhappy in their own way. The three views of minors are immature. Without the protection and guidance of parents and teachers, it is difficult for them to grow up healthily without being hurt by the outside world. Therefore, it is too late to trace everything back to its roots and put an end to this kind of thing.
But it doesn't mean that you can't go out to work. It means that you should always care about your children's study and life when you go out to work, and correctly guide and guide your children's correct values and world outlook. At the age of 16, you should study hard, study hard, get into a good university in the future, and be a useful person to society.
If you make friends carelessly and go out to make friends with different social youths, it will affect your studies and self-destruct your future. Parents should pay more attention to teenagers and guide them on the right path instead of puppy love, fooling around and having sex prematurely, which will affect your student career and your future.
In fact, children should be educated well when they are very young. Sex education is very important. Start at an early age. Don't wait until you are 16 years old to ask what to do. How can we make up for it now?
First of all, you can move to a new place for a change, which is to change the environment, go to a new environment and meet strangers, so as to get rid of those love rat. The mobile phone network is very developed, and all available opportunities should be eliminated;
Secondly, from the psychological point of view, to understand this girl's mental health during the rebellious period, you can talk to the elders, teachers and psychologists. If the authorities are confused, how can you make sense by yourself? The bystander is clear, and can point out her root defects well without bad feelings;
Finally, educating children is a long-term and arduous task. It's not that you just want to educate and let it go, and then you will solve it if you encounter it later. Instead, you should plan ahead, pave the way for everything, and make a long-term happiness for your children. Parents' love must be long-term and thoughtful.